My girlfriend and I have been going out for about nine months now. We've fooled around quite a bit but never had sex. Ever since the fifth or sixth month, a girl that I almost went out with before I went out with my current girlfriend has been the occupant of all my fantasies. I dont want to break up with my girlfriend because of something so stupid as a crush, but it just won't go away. Is this normal?
By the way, I reserve the patent on that phrase.
It just won't go away? Like constipation?
I liked when you said 'The occupant of all my fantasies.' I think it would suck if your last name was 'Occupant;' you would get unpaid parking tickets from all over the country.
Offer her an ultimatum; either you all have a threesome or you take up the bagpipes.
She'll be more than willing.
Peace.