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girlfriend is never horny
ok, me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost a year and we love each other very much. we almost live with each other as we are both at uni.
my problem is that for some reason, i dont turn her on anymore. i think she has forgotten what makes her horny, because the only way we have sex is if i start playing with her. im affraid shes losing her sex drive.
she always starts the day with the attitude of 'we arnt having sex tonight' even when ive not spoken a word of anything related.
its almost like she stops herself from being open to suggestion, therefore never becoming horny. we have spoken about it, and she doesnt know whats wrong with her. we used to have sex a lot and do other sexual activities frequently. and over time we have brought loads of new ideas to the bed. could she be going through a faze? is this normal? it started when we started uni last september she has been very stressed with work lately too.
i just hope i wont lose her because of not acting upon this.
my problem is that for some reason, i dont turn her on anymore. i think she has forgotten what makes her horny, because the only way we have sex is if i start playing with her. im affraid shes losing her sex drive.
she always starts the day with the attitude of 'we arnt having sex tonight' even when ive not spoken a word of anything related.
its almost like she stops herself from being open to suggestion, therefore never becoming horny. we have spoken about it, and she doesnt know whats wrong with her. we used to have sex a lot and do other sexual activities frequently. and over time we have brought loads of new ideas to the bed. could she be going through a faze? is this normal? it started when we started uni last september she has been very stressed with work lately too.
i just hope i wont lose her because of not acting upon this.
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Apart from that, define "sex". Does she orgasm when you have sex? Do you use foreplay? Really get her in the mood with a long foreplay and she'll be jumping back on you in no time ;).
mind you, this is coming from a girl who has stopped having sex with her partner because of lack of foreplay. (BTW, putting a girl's hand on your erection does NOT count as foreplay for any of the rest of the guys in the world who might be of the same mind as my partner)