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Girlfriend kind of Ignores me....
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Every time my girlfriend and I hang out at my place she tends to completely blow me off and hang out with my sister. I understand that she needs some "friend time" and I'm not one of those control freaks, but it has gotten to the point where it's annoying because she is constantly doing it. In a few instance all 3 of us would load into the car and she would set in the backseat with my sister while i chauffeured around (which would make anyone PO'd). Any way I just wanted to know if it was normal to feel annoyed by this and what i could do about it.
Do you think it's normal?
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BrianPomona126 (27116)
2009-08-17 19:20:15
Get a new girlfriend man.

:)
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qwertycrazy (21025)
2009-08-20 19:56:04
i don't think she's that into you. but doesn't have the heart to tell you so. seriously. unless you're sister is incredibly fun... it means she doesn't really wanna spend that much time with you. if you've been going out for less then 6 months break it off. sorry to be harsh.
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Galaxy500 (24989)
2009-08-21 12:27:37
No, don't listen to Brian. Just tell YOUR SISTER that you'd like to spend some quality time with your honey and she'll be the one to help you out. She might even relay the message, but your girlfriend will understand and jump to exclusively hang out with you!
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Americanhero (27209)
2009-08-21 13:45:15
The thing is that my girlfriend is the one causing this. I've discussed it with my sister, and my sister has repeatedly told her to go hang out with me. And when i bring it up with her, she gets all mad and wants to start drama.
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Americanhero (27209)
2009-08-22 06:17:28
@: qwertycrazy
I would definitley disagree on the not into you part. She acts like she's very into me, She told me she way to soon, she wants to hang out constantly whenever i have a free moment. She's at the point where I feel like I'm obsessed over here(not being conceited or anything). However when she comes to my house, she ignores me for my sister
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Galaxy500 (24989)
2009-08-24 15:44:53
huh...well, have you asked for her devoted attention? this stinks.. all I can think of are options... a) you and your gf hang outside of the apt/house b) your sister goes and does her own thing and tell your girlfriend to hang out with you c) your sister is just plain gone doing something else d) tell your gf that it pisses you off (gently of course) but forceful enough to where she gets it. Try these out or try one you haven't yet...
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Ollieo (19003)
2009-08-28 07:08:36
It just sounds like game playing to me, like your gf is using both you and your sister to create a negative situation that she controls.

I'd reassess.
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Isolated (28274)
2009-09-09 01:03:57
Maybe your sister has a personality that is more influencial and she can't seem to stay away from it. Or it's probably because she's not that into you and she wants to be close to your sister by being close to you. I think you're being used.
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SamuraiPeeper (30567)
2010-01-17 02:41:19
I agree with ollieo, again.
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