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No it's not ok to date a minor . . .

Date girls your own age. Once you get into a close relationship with one, ask her to dress up as a school girl for you.

Make sure the girls are of legal age of consent otherwise stay clear away from them. It is not pedophilia to be attracted to underage girls. Pedophilia is sexual perversion in which children are the preferred sexual object. To commit perversion one must "act" on it. So, you can have the attraction, just keep your hands off what is illegal and if you can't help yourself, stay completely away from them and never allow yourself to be alone without another adult present while with a minor.

There is also a lot of ambiguity as well as fine lines when it comes to pedophilia and what is legal and illegal. In some states sexual relations with a 16 year-old adolescent is completely legal whereas in other states it will get you more than likely incarcerated (if you are the adult male) and labelled as a sex offender. The below link will define what is off base and what is legal. Always abide by the laws. Hope this helps.

http://www.avert.org/aofconsent.htm

A lot of teenage girls are attracted to older guys such as yourself..

but In my case, i know that i want to save sex for marriage.. but i do like older guys..

so if the guy just absolutly can't keep it in his pants and respect me then he's out.

so you have to make compromises in this situation

Angel

To like teenage girls is normal they are cute but to find girls under 10 cute in any way is worrying and you dont sound to confident or experienced with women

To be pedophilia:

1)You must be over 16.
2)The girl must be under 16.
3)You must be more than 5 years her senior.

If less than all of that criteria is met, than enjoy fucking them!

Do not encourage this babyangel2580 it is highly illegal whether you are having sex with them or not. Even if it wernt it is still morally wrong.

Actually it is not illeagal. Sex, is what makes it illegal. Where are you from? Here the age is 18, not 16.

And if the guy is 18 and the girl's 17, it's still illegal.

Make sure you know all of your facts before you go telling me that ANY relationship with an older guy is wrong. And just in case youi're wondering, there are actually some guys that are older and respectful, oh and worth dating and waiting for.

Alright, ive had an awful day, so im being a bitch. bye now

Angel

i agree with angel! and u not being a bitch u just being straight up and saying whats on your mind, nothing wrong with that! oh here it is 16 to have sex! but i think it should be 18 (to many kids getting pregnant!)

I think it's fine to find them cute but attract to them sexually is wrong, yes. So please watch it out and avoid to get in serious legal troubles. It's the best to look for girls who's 18 then you have nothing to worry about.

The question wasn't about legality.

It is normal and there's nothing wrong with it. There exists a stigma against liking or dating certain people of certain ages but most of it is arbitrary. Eighteen is not a magical number, it's just something someone on a council thought was a reasonable place marker. As far as I'm concerned, I think it was a gross underestimation of the age group, aside from the fact that such a simplistic solution is incapable of addressing the issue it was meant to.

Teen girls are attractive and usually have a way of looking at the world that just kind of lifts the heart and spirit. I know the one's you're talking about; their smiles and laughter do seem to brighten up everything around you.

As far as finding girls under ten cute and cuddly, I think that statement was completely misunderstood. This is a normal thing too. As a man, these girls are precious in a way that nothing else could be. It just makes you want to protect them and make them happy. It's not wrong to want to protect children. Certainly not to be joyous about their existence and smiles. I understand where you're coming from. The important thing, though, is to remember that that is the responsibility of her father, and stepping in would be violating his boundaries, not that I think you would do that.

My assessment of you from what you've described here: you're a good guy. Don't let this get to you.

This is normal. I have a similar feelings towards young girls, although I am quite young myself. Im 16 and i am really attracted to some 12-14 year olds, i would never act on these feelings but it is not wrong to feel this way. Men are designed to feel attracted to 14, 15 year olds because 15 is when girls are going through or gone through puberty so it is biologically the optimum age to have children. Obviously in todays society it is not the best time to have a child at 15 but our instincts are still the same. It is only society that has made us feel bad about being attracted to younger girls so don't feel bad about but DON'T act on it.