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Girls weeing outdoors - is it OK?
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I'm 18 and and it's awkward to do stuff with a guy with everyne else in the house, so if I want to be with a guy we go up into the hills above the village and find a quiet place. Sometimes we're up there ages, and there are times I'd really like to have a wee, but I did it once and the guy I was with said I was dirty, so now I always hold it in, even if I'm busting. The other day I had to wee so much I had to say something to my boyfriend and he said he'd rather I held it. I told him I was nearly doing it in my panties, and he said I could go in the bushes if it was that desperate. Are guys always like this? Surely if a girl needs a wee she should be allowed to go discreetly in the bushes before it gets too urgent! Advice please!
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Comments (62)
what kind of assholes are you fooling around with? I agree with the junkster. A real man would would want you to be comfortable.

in fact i think you should piss in front of every guy you are thinking of fucking with BEFORE you fool around. if they have any problem with it whatsoever, cut 'em off dead and dont give em any pussy.
LMAO @ THIS!
"I can't stand the thought of port-o-potty's myself."
You can't stand PERIOD, NlGGERLOVER!
If you want to piss out doors find guy who will lick the drops of for you so you dont stink of piss
lol
Oh I Do agree. (or find a girl - yummy)

Tobra
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they ought to be more understanding
no that is f***ing mean
but if wants to smell the piss in ur panties all day then i guess thats fine a
any normal guy wld let u and even help u out with ur pants and undies to pull them down
maybe even wipe u when ur done
Its not about stinking like piss afterwards, we can do the shake thing like the guys do too. if we need to go and there isnt a toilet near by then we NEED TO GO! we dont like the fact that guys pee anywhere they like either. If guys start holding it in when there isnt a toilet around then i will too..
Holding your "wee" is not at all good for your bladder it could cause serious problems. You should not need his permission to go take a pee. That is wrong.
just go pee
......bring hand sanutizer
if he has a problem then dump him there
just pee if he don't like it who cares
Uh...If you want people to see you nearly bending down in a bush taking a piss, Lol thats your choice. I don't really think that's not Normal.
you shouldnt be with anyone who doesnt understand the fact that when you gotta go you gotta go sounds like a pig
i pee outside all the time. i understand about the urgency, and sometimes for me its pure laziness. like if im smoking a cig outside, and i cant wait, i pee in my own backyard...
No most guys are fine with it. Sounds like he is just being a jerk.
If guys can whip it out, girls should have the same rights to do so, whenever possible. Just dont do it in view, Cops frown against it, public lewdness tickets suck.
as long as youre not about to have sex go with it . i mean its just common courtesy to clean your bits before the deed. other then that go for it who really cares.
People were pissing out doors before the bathroom was invented. Keep tissue in your pocket for convienience.
Dump him, If you have to go, you have to go! what rite does he have telling you what to do!
It's not right for him to demand that you hold your piss in when you are outdoors.
If you need to piss and there is no toilet, you should be able to piss in the bushes.
If you need to shit and there's no toilet, you should be able to shit in the bushes. He should have no say on the matter.
Do yourself a favor and drop this so-called boyfriend right now. If he's this controlling about this, which he has NO right to be, he'll be even worse later. Does he think it's okay for him to be able to do it in the woods just because he can stand up doing it? That's very unfair!
if you gotta go, you gotta go :)
As a guy I frequently find myself caught short and so use whatever discrete means necessary to take a pee and I think girls should be able to do the same. I can't understand why either of the guys you have referred to have a problem with it - from what you've said you're not going to be peeing in front of them and if you yourself are able to find a bush to go behind then I say go for it - incidentally as the law currently stands should you ever find yourself pregnant and desperate for a pee - you are legally allowed to go in a policemans helmet! (Dare you to ask tho! lol)
I agree agree completely with you, this guy sounds like a complete dork, find a guy whos got no problemb with it. Personaly I wouln't have a problemb with my girl fiend peeing out side or in a bush if she needed to when u gota go u gota go thers no 2 ways about it!!! You so deserve someone better.
As far as I'm concerned you should be able to piss when you really need to. It's unhealthy to hold it in. You should alsao be able to shit when you really need to.
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you are a disgusting person. of course you should not piss in front of him. how could you not find even asking such a question humiliating!.
only joking, why not? if he doesn't like it? so what you need a piss, when i was younger my girlfriend used to piss in the bushes when we went camping(nowhere else to sleep together lol) anyway, the only time this should gross him out is if, like my ex girlfriend did once you decide to inform him that you got it down your leg....urggghhh still makes me cringe to this day, and we had sex afterwords! oh the shame
Peeing outdoors is ok. I love a woman who pees outdoors.
I pee outside whenever I need to. Doesn't happen that often, but I just go away quietly, find a nice spot and some leaves...
thats a turn on for me.
Obviously when you're on a long day out in the countryside and there are no toilets, or it would be a drive to find some, if it's just a pee I would say anyone who preferred to remain uncomfortable or went miles out of their way to find a loo is just silly. There are usually plenty of discreet places.

The most embarrassing exception I peed outside I will never forget! It was in fact just two weeks ago Saturday gone. I was alone, waiting for a bus home after a out night drinking and I was getting more and more desperate for a wee, but there was literally nowhere to go. The bus was due and it was the last one, so I couldn't go anywhere in case I missed it. I was in agony and it was horrible! Next thing I knew I had suddenly let go and was peeing myself in front of the whole bus queue, most of whom were guys. Worse, it seemed to go on and on and on and on and I couldn't believe how much more I kept managing to produce. I was mortified and burst into tears, just saying "sorry, sorry, I couldn't wait" but everyone was very nice about it actualy and all just treated it in a jokey way. In fact one guy put his arm round me and said "you poor soul, you must have been really desperate". Fortunately I was wearing a skirt so the journey home wasn't too bad once I threw the panties away, but I still have nightmares about the possibility of it happening again, to the extent it ruins a night out if I know I have a long journey home because I worry whether I'll need to go before I can get home. I just can't believe my body let me down so badly and being on my own was worst of all ! I wasn't that drunk and had gone to the ladies about an hour before we left the pub. This all accumulated in that hour, the ten minutes walk to the bus stop and then a 15 minute wait! It's much easier for a bloke:( When I got home I peed *again* still really needing to. It's a good job I didn't know any of the lads, because while they just brushed it off as nothing, inside I'm sure they thought I was scum. Do blokes here think so?

(I must admit though, the relief was wonderful! That pee felt soooooo good lol.)
In fact, you're supposed to pee after sex, ideally within 10 or 15 minutes after, to keep your urinary tract and bladder healthy.
Haha no it's normal! It's really adoreable how you call it wee.
If you have to go, you have to go, and if anyone won't stop the car or look the other way, piss anyway and then kick their ass. I would rather be with female friends or my wife that can just pee wherever they have to so they don't whine on road trips or fishing parties.
i go @ my cabin all d time!
i wouldnt ask him i would just go
LOL wee? Hahaha. Well, personally i love peeing outdoors. For one it saves water... two it makes me feel free. I don't know. Especially when i get drunk and i need to pee i'll go wherever there's minimum coverage. Usually if i do so with a guy around he'll just say that he's impressed by how fast i can pee. HAHA. yep. HAHA
I think there's someting quite sexy about it.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA~!!
I seriously don't get this though.
You don't have to dump him . Just.. say "F*** off or I will pee. ON YOU."
Seriously, gros, but really do. He can't CONTROL your F***ING BLADDER!
If you need to go, you need to go. You can seriously damage your kidneys from holding it, and if you explain it to your boyfriend this way (as well as pointing out the double standard held by many guys in regards to pissing outdoors), he's less likely to give you crap about it.
When you gotta go, you gotta go!!!
if he says to hold it sit on his lap and say can't hold it anymore that'll show him that fuckbag. or you could just pee before you go upthere and drink less liquids.
get a room?
That's why I don't drink a lot of water outside. ;)
Well you should hold it, but if you are in an area with no toilets then I guess its alright.

I bet its cleaner than public toilets
I often wee out doors if i need to i think theres no problem with it just tell him if he does not like it then get lost .make sure you carry some tp and you should be fine and dry =p then he cant complain but its imbaressing when you have tight trousers on and try to lean down and end up peein on the back of them iv done it befor and i may aswel have just peed my self because its what it looked like lol
If it's socially acceptable for males to pee outside in bushes, then it should also be acceptable for women to do the same.
What the hell?!? Of course it's okay. When you need to go, you need to go. I can't believe those people would be so mean to you :/
"Are guys always like this?" Lets see - if you want to be with a guy, you take them to the hills above your village "to do stuff with" & they don't like you peeing? Why are you even asking permission?

Sorry - but it could be that they don't respect you much and are embarrassed to be with you. Hint, hint: is there anything about your behaviour remotely slutty?
Do you understand the anatomy of the female vagina and the urinal tract? There is a tiny hole just under the clitoris that the urine comes out of, it does not come out of your vagina. Thus, is it not as messy as a lot of people would think.

In fact, you would smell less of urine than a male who had pee-d outside due to the labium majora covering the urethra afterwards. The male has nothing to cover his urethra, so any bit leftover goes right onto his boxers.

If you are very careful, make sure you take off the necessary garments to avoid any urine hitting them, position yourself appropriately and hold your labium majora out to avoid any leaking at all. If your urinary tract is fully exposed and not hitting your clothing or skin, you can air dry and still be clean as a daisy. :)
its totally normal and the guy's a jackass or maybe too victorian to let a girl wee.

i mean its natural if u have to got to
though i know girls would find guys peeing their pants whole lotta disgusting ;-) coz i know hehe
but it gives some satisfaction
hehe ;-)


and if the bushes are there,then use 'em,without asking for a dumb permission
If you let some ignorant guy tell you what is "dirty" or not, you need to leave him. I won't even sugar coat it, just get out of that toxic relationship. He's mental and your "wee" is a normal biological function that MUST happen or it can harm you. Leave him immediately, don't let him cry and get you back. RUN!
lmao i seen girls 'wee' outside a lot...but we have a lot of bonfires. aint nothing wrong with it.
Just go pee somewhere, but always bring a roll of toilet paper with you. Problem solved.
wow really your fucked up
Come on.. If you're that urgent, I don't think it'll be anything wrong you taking a piss outdoors.
Water sports rule ok!!!
@: Rhonda
No. I don't think you were scum. Not at all. I think all those guys were sincere. And I also think the young woman posting this should look at the guys she wandering around the hills of her hometown with and her own behaviour/judgement in doing so.
Eugh...youse guys pee outdoors? And you think the boyfriend should be okay with this? Sorry guys, but I agree with your boyfriend. People have to walk on that soil..or ground whatever. I personaly feel sorry for the mini-beasts, they have to live there!! Find a quiet place to talk near a public toilet or a shop where they have a lavotory.