I really want to learn to masterbate. okay, i have my way of masterbating and i don't like it. after i do it, my penis starts to hurt a lot. it feels like it is burning. i don't know if it is the way others do it. okay, i put my finger and rub it on the back of my penis closer to the top. it feels really good but not as good as i heard. so i don't think i am doing it right. i never heard anyone saying to rub it. i talk to my sister and i told her the way i do it and she said that is not right. can someone please give me the best step-by-step instructions on how to masturbate the best way. the best way that will make you feel good. i want to feel masauged. it is time i learn. i am 12 years old. i want it to feel just like having sex with the hottest sexiest blonde women.