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giving my girlfriend an orgasm
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ok, me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little over a month and fooling around. We were both virgins when we started dating but have had sex ten times or so and she hasn't had an orgasm. I have eaten her out and fingered her and she hasn't had an orgasm. In fact, she has never even given herself one. We both want her to have one really bad and she is getting extremely frustrated. Is there any sort of fingering or eating out technique or something I could do while we are having sex to give her an orgasm. When we are having sex it is not a problem with the amount of time, I can usually go fifteen to twenty minutes, but she says a lot of times she doesn't feel hardly any pleasure, and I'm seven inches long with good girth so I have no idea what the problem is. Help!
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Comments (14)
Orochimaru (9975)
2007-09-10 15:35:20
be patient, sex is between two who love each other. calm down
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comalies (6298)
2007-09-10 16:27:56
i would say buy her a vibrator or a dildo..those work magic
and maybe she's not lubricated enough.
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slackjawedyokel (6678)
2007-09-10 16:58:16
concentrate on her clit.
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gizzie56 (8681)
2007-09-10 19:48:42
Shes probably in a state of mind where she is not fully letting loose and really getting into the sex.She may be preoccupied with some type of worry shes not telling you about.
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johhn (10501)
2007-09-11 03:54:42
You hold her clitoris i.e. upper point of her vagina into your lips and tongue it vigorously. She will definitely get an orgasm.
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cranberri (11177)
2008-01-23 10:56:19
um... if she isn't emotionally ready, and is forcing it... she wont have one... tell her to relax.
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ImaLovrnotaFitr (15159)
2008-07-31 18:20:48
If she just lost her virginity not too long ago, she cant expect to just jump into an orgasm. She def needs to be completely relaxed. And coming from a girl, pay attention to her clit. Girl on top is best position for a girl to orgasm during sex. Make sure she is super relaxed! Try giving her a massage or something as part of your guys foreplay.
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Metallicafan01 (15681)
2008-08-11 11:31:15
Well, in my experience, just be glad she isnt faking an orgasm, thats the worst honesty and communication are key. As for giving her an orgasm, definitly focus on the cl*toris, use the tip of your tongue and try to find the right amount of pressure. As for fingering finding the g-spot is also a very nice touch, but it is a different sensation, my gf described it as a strong sensation to urinate, but also about the relaxation, try to lengthen the foreplay try to get her comfortable and loosen her up, foreplay works wonders, and you could also try using a vibrator to help warm her up to sex if your having too much difficulty but dont worry! It will come believe me! And when it does you will feel a tremendous feeling of satisfaction and relief, pleasing your girlfriend is the best feeling in the world!
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sexy9689 (15765)
2008-08-16 16:13:17
just fuck her all month and there u go
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sexy9689 (15765)
2008-08-16 16:14:18
i also recomend the fleshlight from www.fleshlight.com
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Bamboo_Banga (16346)
2008-09-18 03:23:54
"I can usually go fifteen to twenty minutes"

There's ya problem right there, your going to have to go a lot longer to get the honey squirt!
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fulcypoo (17010)
2008-10-18 16:08:38
If you want her to have an orgasm, try another person's cock.
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okmijnuhbygvtfc (17193)
2008-10-25 23:06:01
try fisting, or something that vibrates
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j0826 (18943)
2009-01-01 22:52:03
too bad, therefore she is never satisfied.
my gf reaches this orgasm really quick, and i dont like it bcoz i wanna eat her more. lol
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