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I've noticed some questions about spankings at 16 and 17 years old. I still get hairbrush spankings on my bare bottom, too. Is it normal for a 17 year old girl to get bare bottom spankings for punishment?
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Oh, I love it all, if only any of it were true!
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Alas It's quite normal.My mum used to spank me and my sister on our bare bottoms too with a (one of those expensive Mason Pearson) hairbrush right until we were 18 and went off to uni. (Ouch!) I suppose in the long run it did us good and we should be grateful - as I am sure you should be, you naughty girl! (best s/wishes). This may sound harsh but just stop winging and stick your bum out properly next time!
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Your experience may be unusual by contempory Aerican standards, but taking a long-term historical perspective, it's not unusual at all.

For most of history, children were spanked while growing up. This was considered a completely normal and indeed indispensible part of child-rearing. And for most of history, young women remained at home with their fathers until they got married.

Anyone with any understanding of human nature can put two and two together and figure out that many of these young women continued to receive childish spankings as long as they remained at home with their fathers.

So really, it's not a big deal. The next time this happens, just accept your spanking with as much dignity as you can and learn from the experience.

All the best, V.
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@: vespa
Vespa you are out of date. Two hundred years ago they flogged prisoners and sailors. Three hundred years ago in England they put bankrupts in the stocks and left them penniless in prison. Not that long ago some Americans beleived in slavery and England thought it could rule any nation it could sail to. Times change.

The current Y generation faces a world very differnt from the one (even) I grew up in (late boomer). The inputs, challenges, options and way of working are changing very rapidly. Parenting needs to follow with it. If parents are spanking kids at aged 17 the parents have messed up a decade ago and need some serious advice on parenting. There are many good books and course. Ones without spanking will work best.
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I think it's normal... if it occurs normally in your family. If you haven't been spanked since a little kid and then that came out of no where, yeah, that wouldn't be normal. Some parents still believe in spanking. My last spanking was when I was 17. I came home late and my mom made me lay down on my bed, she pulled down my pants and panties, and spanked me with fly swatter. She eventually stopped because I think she felt bad because I was crying so hard and trying to cover my butt
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I think it's normal. Both my mom and dad gave me bare bottom spankings until I finally realized if I just behave they won't spank me. Unfortunately for me, I didn't seem to get that into my head until I was 18. My mom used her trusty paddle. My dad usually used a razor strap and man did that hurt. Whichever one was givin the spankin would tell me to go to my room, take my pants and panties completely off and assume the position on a special chair they kept in my room. I learned fairly early to do exactly as I was told when I was to receive a spanking or there was hell to pay(I tried my dad's patience one time, just one time). I have a family of my own now and when either of my 2 boys feel they need to test the rules, they will be spanked on the bare bottom, whether they are 8 or 18.
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@: sweet09
I don't know if it's "normal" for a girl of 17 to get her bare bottom spanked as punishment, but then again, I don't think it should be. A bare bottom spanking should be a real departure from the usual menu of domestic discipline. That way, it is absolutely guaranteed to get your attention. And as the hairbrush methodically builds a bonfire in your upturned, barenaked backside, chances are you're gonna give naughtiness a miss...for a while, anyway.
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You would have to be extremly over the edge to recieve a spanking bare or not. I helped raised my nephew and I never had an occation or a reason to punish him at all while he was growing up, he wasn't perfect but he had respect for me as a peer . I had to come down to his level a baby can not understand our level. Looking back on my life though. I never got caught! Stuff like drugs, ditching school, lying, drinking,smoking, chasing women,partying, cheating, stealing and generaly ruining my life. My poor mother had her hands full with an alcoholic father, no disipline there! A bare butt spanking would have changed my attitude, if I would have gotten caught. I know I would have gone to college if I had some disipline and family stucture. Talk to your parents and don't trust your friends advise. your friends can be your worst enemies sometimes.
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You know, it doesn't really matter or not if it's normal. What you really should be asking yourself is this: Does it work? And ask carefully, don't just say no because you don't like it, punishments are not supposed to be enjoyable. Everyone here is crying abuse, or for it. But you know your own situation better than any of us. Even if it's not normal, you know whether or not if it really works by your attutide after a spanking and such. You know if it's abuse by if your parents love you and are doing it for your benefit. A bare bottom spanking for doing something immature and childish isn't abuse. A bare bottom spanking for no damn reason is abuse. Kicking your child in the stomach is abuse. A spanking to a 17 year old girls bare butt never hurt anyone. I am 21 years old, and live at my parents house while in college. I still get bare bottom spankings too on the occasion that I deserve it and yes its embarrassing but you know- everyone needs a wake up call once in awhile to keep them on track. And everyone is different, so if spanking works for you like it does for me then it doesn't matter what other people think or if it's normal or not. It's your punishment and your life, not theirs.
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I fully agree with greentea! Whether it is normal or not - its a matter of your personal perspective.Just think about the possible benefit for you? By the way, I don't think that hairbrush is the appropriate implement.I wonder whether the parents of greentea also use it. Could you answer this question, greentea? A belt or a cane seem to work much better.
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Greentea, Thank you! for the voice of reason!! I applaud! your mindset: you are evident a well-balanced, logical young woman. You actually made me proud reading your response. I would love to nkow a woman like yourself! Keep believing in it if it works for you!!
All my best!
Don Hart
mrtenderhart@yahoo.com
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Who spanks you and do they use a hairbrush or other type of spanking implement?

Also, do you have brothers and sisters and are they aware of when you're getting spanked?
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METHOSjr.
Once a Brat, Always a Brat.

you prolly deserve to be punnished like a kid because you still act like a kid.
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harsh
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If you still live at home, you should abide by the rules of the house. if you disobayed a rule that was importamt enough for a parent to adminsiter a bare bottomed spanking then you desarved it, even at seventeen years old.
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I agree with Vespa..It's fine to be spanked...My 16 year old just got a spanking last night after her shower in the bathroom i was sitting on the chairs we got in the bathroom where she can't hurt herself by the kicked and squirming...all I did was put her over my knee lift her bathrobe up and spank her with her bottom bared with a plastic spatualla after words she stood in the corner lifting her bathrobe up, while i finsihed her punishment up with the oatmeal and baking soda. After applying that to her bare bottom for 10 minutes now thats punsihment! Just be glad your not my daughter.
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If it is normal (=within the norm where you live) is difficult for me to say but it is not either what counts.
What counts is if it is right and productive and the answer to that is a big loud YES!
You know that you sometimes misbehave and are naughty.
You also know that when you are naughty you deserve and need to be punished.
A good sound spanking is the natural and best punishment within home and family and it does not matter how old you are.
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Up until about my mid teens, whenever I got in trouble I would be taken up to my room, made to strip to my underwear, and then my mom would take me over her knee and bare my butt. Then I'd get the hairbrush for about 10-15 minutes. When that was over she'd mix oatmeal and baking soda and rub it on my backside...then i'd have to sit on a hard chair for about 5 minutes. IT HURT LIKE THE DEVIL!!! You can bet I resolved to behave better after I was punished like this. But you know what, although I resented it back then, I'm glad I was diciplined like this because I learned right and wrong and turned out to be a upstanding person.
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Your ass is part of human genitalia. It might be a surprise to hear this but your ass is a sex organ. No one past puberty should be spanked, or at least bare ass.
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the next time that your mom or dad bares your butt and
puts you across there knee for a spanking you should pee all over there lap. i bet they will think twice before they ever try to spank you again lol.
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To Kimbee:

What's the deal with the "oatmeal and baking soda?" I've never heard of that.
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I do not think your dad should still be spanking you at your age thats for sure! I think that spanking is not the best option, but if a spanking has be be given ask if your mother could administer it; in private. Ashely
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There house there rules, if you don't follow rules at 17 you deserve a damn good spanking!
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As a kid I got lots of spankings on my bare hiney with the hairbrush from my mom - the last being at age 15. It was common for girls to get spanked with a hairbrush and boys with a strap in my family, including cousins, etc.

So at age 17 - I think it's over the limit!

Lynn
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Anonymous
lynn if you were properly spanked in previous years the need for getting whipped now at 17 would not be necessary. my daughter was taken in to the bath room, i madeher take down her panties and she was given a severe hairbrushing. her bottom was bright red and then sent to her room to contemplate how much it hurt, this form of punishment will quickly teach her not to misbehave, by age ten it was no longer necessary to use thr brush.
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As a Minister and a mother of two daughers one 16 and one 14 and a son of 10 I don't believe you were punished unfairly. Whats wrong with your parents punishing you on your bare bottom..you deserved it. My 16 year old gets put over my lap with her underwear off. I give her the respect and privacy to cover with a towel..once shes over my lap i just flip the towel up and apply the spanking with a big wooden spoon until her bottom is red. Too old..then act your age..my daughters get the oat meal treatment applied to their bare after the spankings..now that hurts!
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@: kimbee
Kimbee,you may be a minister,but you must know it is not just kids that need discipline.Believe this,if it were up to me,i would put you across my lap and spank your bare butt with a hairbrush until you were balling and begging me to stop! Maybe a taste of your own medicine would do you some good.
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I don't agree Moi,in some families 17yr olds still get spanked. My best friend is 17yrs old, her parents are very loving but she still gets spanked. Her father is old fashioned.My friend is spanked bent over the kitchen table.Her Dad lifts her skirt right up and pulls down her panties to show her bottom. I have often been in the kitchen when she gets punished. He uses a leather belt and spanks very hard until he decides to stop.For extra he turns the belt and uses the buckle end a couple of times - that really hurts !
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i guess i dont really know if its normal. ive always been to embarrased to talk to my frieds about it. i have no idea if they still get spanked. anyway, kimbee is right, youre lucky your not her daughter. i have had the oatmeal treatment a few times. just when you think the stinging is over it gets worse. just be glad they care enough to correct you i guess. best wishes.
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@: breanas
If u wer my mum i want u to spank me the same with oatmeal treatment to follow but i bet u would not get me over ur knee gavinaandemedical#hotmail.co.uk
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Absolutely completely normal. Besides, at 17, your bottom has undoubtedly developed nicely to the point where I bet it practically invites a good spanking all by itself. And of course, the hairbrush on the bare is a guaranteed smartener-upper.
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im from texas
and me and my sister still get spankings often at the age of 13 and 15 but from my mom instead of my dad and still bare bottom which hurts it usualy is after school when we get a spanking from my mom wen we don t wat she tells us boy do they hurt, for breannas i totaly agree with u, my mom has spanked me once for no reason last week and it hurt bad well bye
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I think at 17 you must have done somthing very bad to get spanked bare bottom and personally I dont think it is right because if a child has not learned from previous spankings when YOUNG like 5,6, 7, 8,9, maybe age 10 then clearly spanking is not the way they learn and if the parent was smart they would realize this and that spanking an adolecent like that can damage them ...like make them crave spanking in the future and cause them to act out in the future as well...either that or the parent is just very sadistic and should be turned over someone elses lap and spanked till their but is bleeding. Come on parents where are your brains! Famous quote : "Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results"
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In Britain during the first decade after the War there was a much greater hostility to lack of order and respect for discipline. Also, things were meant to last and that included protracted spankings.In our family you had your skirt hitched up and then my Mum with a large Mason-Pearson hairbrush would ruthlessly and mercilessly whack your poor butt with it. Thereafter you were made to stand facing the wall with your knickers at half-mast and in full view of family, friends and any neighbours who cared to call round so that when you were sent to bed early it was something of a relief.In those days in our neighbourhood such a spanking was entirely normal.Nowadays in our permissive society this (perhaps unfortunately) is NOT normal. With regard to some of the correspondents above who still claim it is, all I can say is "In Your Dreams!"
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Moi
Good gosh. NO, it's not normal, you're practically an adult!

No child should ever be spanked bare bottom.
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@: Moi
Actually depending on your culture it is normal. I am in a CDD relationship and get spanked bare with a strap or a belt. I receive discipline as needed and while unpleasant, it does better my behavior. Obey your father adn you will not be submitted to an embarassing punishment. The last punishment I received frommy dad was at 17, i had smoked pot laced with something in it and made a scene in front of our house. When the high was off my dad took my outside had me bend over and lifted my rob and bare spanked me on the front porch withhis belt for doing drugs. He thought publical humilation and the embarassment of him seening my bare was teh best punishment ever, he was so mad! It worked, I never touched pot again, just the thought of my dad using his belt on me bare again. let alonw with folks watching..NO way! lesson learned! I grew up though wehn everyone was spanked and it was normal and a parental right.
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I think that if you were a nasty and naughty little girl in dirty little panties than it might have been justified. Otherwise, it was out of line.
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1. Corporal punishment is wrong 2. I don't think it's not legal to beat ANY child with a hair brush 3. That's just sexual abuse to beat a kid over the age of twelve on the ass - especially bare.
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No, this is WRONG!! one of your parents is getting turned on by doing this to you (probably). Get it stopped right now or tell you someone close to you who you can trust.
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Dear Sarah, You know you're lying through your teeth. Only a certified mental defective would administer the sort of public spankings you described in this day and age. You're not even a good writer so that your fantasies might at least be a little entertaining. Try getting a life.
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Ms_October
Hey, I think my BF WROTE that story once for an adult website!

Tobra
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I cannot believe you haven't heard of the oatmeal and baking soda punishment, it goes along with all the spankings and it really does help to teach the kid never to do the offense again. You mix oatmeal and baking soda together and add enough water to moisten the ingrediants but enough to make a paste and apply that to the bare skin after the spanking..It stings as it dries on the freshly spanked skin and once you put that on your kids bottom after a bare butt spanking..trust me they won't do the offense again!
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@: kimbee
Kimbee your are misguided and your treatment of your daughter is abuse.

In a couple of years she will need to make her way in the wide world, hopefully in studies and then employment. She needs self respect, dugnity, self control. She needs to make choices herself. She will have more inputs (media, internet etc.) and more options than at any period of human history. Not to mention having to face issues with alcohol,drugs, misuse of sex etc.

Now following your orders because you might hurt and embaress her if she does not will not preapre her for the world in 2009.

You need to learn to communicate, councel, reason and engage with her and her generation if you are to be an effective parent. You may get orders followed ot stop some annoying behaviour but you will not set your daughter up to be the most she can. You are setting her up to mistrust and despise you down the line and possibly need couselling. And no she will never tell you that now. You will find out when she does not let you have your grand children to stay over. When her career is not what it could be.

PACMAN
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@: kimbee
Im 16 and still get an occasional bare bottom spanking. its embarrasing but i respect my mother for it. i thinks it normal.
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wth is a hairbrush spanking? sounds unpleasant. who is punishing you with these *hairbrush spankings*?
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A hairbrush spanking is a spanking administered with the flat (or paddle) side of a hairbrush. It really hurts!
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Thanks for the definition.Although I believe
most people know what a hairbrush spanking
is there are many who dont or never endured
one in their life.I got many of them on my
bare bottom and they do hurt badly!In many
ways the hairbrush hurts a great deal more
than a paddle because the back of the hair-brush is basically a paddle that is much
smaller but has a great deal of force that
is concentrated on a small area,OUCH!
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You're right, Lynn. A hairbrush spanking on the bare bottom is meant to be an attention getter. My auntie raised me, and she actually had a wooden brush with a circular head that inflicted these little, round pockets of pain all over my bare behind. There was no need for any oatmeal nonsense, either. The spankings across her knee were punishment enough. And while I wouldn't expect a child of 17 to be getting such spankings very often, I honestly think more kids of that age could do with the hairbrush on their upturned bare backsides.
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Well I don't think you're too old to be spanked...I didn't get spanked that much as a boy...I'm a grown man, and think I should be embarassed and made to take a spanking on my bare buttocks even now with a hairbrush to teach me a lesson...I'll take any offers.
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babyangel2580
you need to stand up to ur parent and tell them ur are almost an adult and if they wish to punsih you they need to do this in a better manner, such as grounding, you seriously need to straighten this out
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UR MOM OR DAD IS CRAZY KILL THE BITCHEZ AND SPANK THEIR DEAD CORPES WITH HAIR BRUSHES THEN YELL OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO HOW U LIKEZ IT''
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