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It's been over a year since I split up with my ex, only just like last year he shows up at my door, I know I shouldn't let him in my life cause we always end up doing stuff even though it's never going to work.
One reason being we have been in a on/off relationship for years and another reason being the now 400 miles apart.
It's normal right to keep going back to your ex? But how do you say no when it feels soooo hard to?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (38)
Grow a pair and just say "no" and get over the pain. Find a black guy to take that pain away.
An ex is an ex you will never move on if you dont say no not normal
just be fuck buddies, you'll get the feeling of some sort of commitment from him and he will get some pussy from you

either way its a WIN-WIN!
Here's an idea....Try finding somebody else, so he can't hurt you anymore.
A black guy right?
I'm just suggesting another guy for her, what difference does it make what color they are?
I just know a lot of white girls prefer dark meat. I suspect you of this.
"I just know a lot of white girls prefer dark meat. I suspect you of this."

WTF??? Quantify "a lot" please. Im not saying you're wrong btw. But my point is that a lot is still a very small minority. A very, very small minority.

Valid post to violent10dency though. Just for ahem, record keeping purposes, do you prefer dark meat?
Not really, the tide has been turning. In our life time we will see more mixed black and white couples to the degree where id say every other white girl will have dated and slept with atleast one black man before they are married.
Maybe. But it will never be that bad... For the simple fact that in most countries where there are white and black ppl, the numbers arent nearly the same for each ethnic group. What I'm basically saying is that there arent enough black men in the USA for each white girl to get her freak on...

Just because it's become more acceptable (only in certain places BTW. Go try that interracial shit in large parts of the south and see how you get on) and it's more prevalent in the media, doesn't mean its increasing in leaps and bounds.

It will become more common I agree but never to the degree that you described above. And if that day should come, you and I will be long gone my friend...
youre asking a relationship question in a place where 99% of the posters have had no relationship except with their hand.
you sound like slackeyedyokel whoever you are speak for yourself
piss off you aussie pedophile.....i dont need a fairy like you to tell me how to post.....
Go fuk yourself how many accounts you got now cunt
Only fags hide behind other names like you poofter
Slackarseyokel is back were all awake upto you cockwatcher
You need to just sever the ties with him completely and find another man that you have a lot in common with. This thing with your "ex" is never going to work so quit making yourself miserable by sleeping with him every time he comes around. Next time he contacts you tell him you have a boyfriend and would appreciate it if he did not contact you again.
Sorry my comment was directed at the poster.
Slackass why is it, you insist on calling everybody habitual handwankers all the time? The only thing that I can possibly think of that would cause this is if you are one yourself.
Uhhhhhh a lot of white guys say that online about me. I am not going to say sometimes I don't find black men attractive, but I prefer white men. I don't date anyway, I haven't been with a man in 3 years, and I've only been with one guy. If it really bothers you to see interracial couples, or bi-racial people (which I have a feeling that it might even though you probably won't admit that it does) you might as well get over it cuz it ain't going away anytime soon, no offence man.
Ive learn to embrace that most white girls prefer jobless black guys over hard working white ones. Maybe its the helplessness that attracts them to them like him having to drive you car because he does not have one or him living with you and you being the only one working. Such a dream!
If slackass had this wonderful life he claims then he wouldnt be on here with the rest of us.
slackjaw you are a complete pussy.
oh and i thought that glen quagmire died of liver cancer?
@: P00LTOY
LOL! It wasn't liver cancer it was a brain tumor, but he survived, and now he is back in here posting only under 2 of his 12 usernames because he can't remember the others but that shouldn't be a problem Im sure he will have several new ones before long.
Yea I would really be that stupid, no, no I think not. They would have to have a job and a car, and their own place to live, just like a white, yellow, brown, red, green, purple, blue or any other color man that came my way.

Maybe the reason why women choose to be with black men is because there is something exotic and different about them, maybe white men have hurt them so much they think that it would be better to go down that path, or maybe it is the person who they are attracted too. You know, because we are all different, and we all have a different personality, and we don't have to live up to whatever our stereotype suggests. You're very judgemental man you should join a church!
I dont belong to any church I just dont like white girls going over to the dark side.
Why? It's not your life is it?
I'm not on here or out in the real world telling anyone how to live their life. I'm just bitching.
LOL. Ok.
Grow up?
get awayyy.. i was in a on off relationship for 2 years and in the end i got pregnant when i finally realized i hated him and then he took off :) yay for me..
Its difficult, but the only way to do it is by not seeing him. Don't answer he's calls or tell him that you don't want to be doing stuff with him and you don't want to see him. If he cared he wont see you, if not then ignor him
Go and get a life for yourself - you can't say no because you are so needy.
So you want to know if this is normal? Yes and no. Yes it's normal for someone to want to keep a part of something from the past if you think you love them.....but no because what you don't realize, or at least I assume you don't, is that your "Partner" is just about sleeping with you. They find you to be someone they can run to whenever they feel the need to, or when they don't have anyone else to sleep around with. My suggestion to you is that you finally put your foot down and tell him goodbye........it's best you take time to find yourself and let love find you. And get rid of the creep......he isn't worth it.
lmao! u crazy
its more like you never broke up with the dude to be more specific you know than going back to him
You love eachother, but its time to move on if you wont work. I know its hard, and it feels impossible, but you need to try your hardest.