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He broke up with for a butt ugly chick!
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Ok, I wouldn't say I am some model, but people call me pretty all the time. I had a hot boyfriend who I had been dating for a year and half and he broke up with me! That was fine, but then I found out he was dating this ugly girl. A lot of people call her ugly, my group of friends has always made fun of her. The guys always say she is a butterface. We;ve been making fun of her since High School. I am 21 now and my boyfriend is 22. She is 23! She is older so it must just because he wants to say he dated an older girl right? I asked his friends why he is dating her and they said he was cheating on me with her for a couple of months. His best friend said he was sick of my crap. What crap? I made him happy! How can she make him happy? Won't he get nauseous looking at some ugly girl who almost looks like a guy? Or is he gay?
I think he is gay, the stupid mother f**ker.
Why else would he date an ugly girl? I hate the stupid b**ch. I am going to make her life more miserable then i did before. I used to bark at her all the time but now it's war.

Is this normal? Seriously, why the f**k would he date an ugly chick? Help me figure this out! I am going insane. It bugs me more that he is with an ugly girl then it would if she was at least pretty. It's humiliating.
Do you think it's normal?
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too long. try shorting it up so it will keep someones atention spand. or alteas tag it with some type of sex act or the name stargirl so folks will be more inclined to read. Good luck asshole
Brings to mind another of my sayings: Theres nothing more evil than a woman scorned.
You've got bigger problems to work out than worrying about your ex-boyfriend dating someone you think is ugly. Did it occur to you that maybe your very ugly attitude overpowers any physical beauty you might possess?

Also, you are 21 now, and you "bark", I'm assuming, insults at her and have declared war? Wow, that is SO mature. I'd suggest making friends with people you didn't know in high school, then maybe you'll get a better grip on the appropriate way to treat other people and realize there are bigger things in life to care about than the petty crap you threw up on here.
Its probably because she is good in bed. She is probably a freak who lets him tie her up and stuff and always gives him head
MAYBE SHES ACTUALLY A NICE PERSON UNLIKE YOU, YOU SHALLOW BIMBO. Take my advice, its the best.
Maybe he couldn't get past your arrogant personality.
Yep I had someone like you... Pretty on the outside ugly on the inside. Grow up and get a life. Do you still pass notes to your friends? I am glad he dumped your ass. I hope marries the girl so you can maybe not deal with it and hang yourself. Can't stand bitches like you. Besides the less looking ones always fuck better. So if its any comfort she probably fucks him 20 times better than you ever did. Good for him. tooo bad for you... boo hooo.
Listen, I know you're getting a lot of negative comments, but I agree with you! If someone in my group of friends made fun of someone all their life, and then my EX BOYFRIEND DATED HER? I'd be pissed off!

So here's how you get back: Suicide. Yup, kill yourself. You'll make him soooo mad. Trust me, it works, my friend did it and her family was sooo sad because she got her ipod taken away.
Beauty is in the eye, as they say - but it sounds to me as if you're more upset for being dumped than for figuring out the real reason behind it.

Move on sweetling, there are plenty of fish in the sea - finding a great guy is possible, trust me i know.

The Ever Eppervesant Ms. O. - new Improved Attitude! :)
You dont have to be hot to have a man.
You can be the ugliest person in the world and still get a fine ass dude.
She might have a lot of things in common
She might now how to put it on him
She might have a beautiful personality.
a lot of people say im beautiful pretty and all of that but listen i know i can be hard to deal with and yeah i could be a bitch sometimes but listen us pretty girls dont need cheaters.
If he was gay he'd be going out with a guy not an ugly girl.

maybe he's not shallow

maybe your a complete bitch who noone would want to date no matter how hot u are, from this post I kinda figured that you are a bitch.

Or maybe he is shallow but he has a fucked up view on what a hot girl looks like.
Butter face means she has a hot body i think she is much better in sex then you thats why he left you as well as you having a bad personality conceded and obnoxious from what i can tell work on yourself and forget about him sounds like u need to improve yourself
I think from reading this you are a selfish and self centered twit.

I think if he is with a girl who is supposedly less atractive than you it must be becuase she treats him well and they feel good together.

That and she isnt a bitch like you.
Doesnt matter how pretty you are, personality is a big deal and yours stinks!
Because your soul is hideous, and that's what matters.
It's very simple. She will fu*k him anytime he wants. It is all about the sex.

Men can always imagine they are doing a supermodel if he doesn't have to look at her face.
WELL. Your personality simply SUCK BIG TIME.
How could you mock at other people solely based on her looks??? You might look "pretty"(I won't know if it is true!) or whatsoever, but your heart is UGLY. You're gonna give that girl a bad time because you just cant accept that FACT that you had been DUPED, bitch.
If i am a guy i will dump you too,asshole.
and oh please, if he is a GAY he would get along with a GUY not a GIRL. Get your facts right. And i would say that your EX is SMART ENOUGH to dump you. Good for him. Any guy that gets with a girl like you could most probably be in love with your "pretty" face but definitely love you for who you are. He will dump you in no time
maybe she's a freak in bed and has a great personality.
21? Grow up.
Actually when people break up, brain chemistry changes and you actually do become obsessed. Know that this will pass with time.

The best cure is dating other people -- even if you don't feel much like it-- just to get out and do things, and to go out and have fun.

Give yourself another 3 months to heal
obviously she does something for him that you do not. Be that whatever it is, he feels he needs that in his life.
From a good looking guy who dates only ugly chicks I gotta tell ya, their vagins are much less nicer, they need less attention, they cook and give the best love, not that cold stuff u get from the pretty's.
They are in some cases better people inside than the hotties, and you don't have to worry about them leaving you for some other dude.
Oh and a little chunk can also be attractive if you are a sexual being.
I say get back at him! Girl the only way we can do that is to meet nice people with no strings attached. www.theadulthookup.com has lots of guys and gals just waiting for fun and adventure.
If i was dating you i would do this too....you were probably a prissy little bitch in highschool...not to mention your grammer is less that perfect....not to bright huh??...Jerk
Sometimes things happen to teach us valuable lessons in life.you say you are pretty and she is ugly and that you have tried to humiliate her in the past, along with your friends.THAT'S NOT NICE OR BEAUTIFUL. The girl is human , like you and has done NOTHING to deserve your MEAN attitude.What if you were in her shoes? You wouldn't want her fighting you , would you?
The guy has chosen.He has obviously seen virtue in her.Maybe you should ask God to change you into a NICER, LESS VAIN AND PROUD individual.External beauty is not EVERYTHING. At the end of the day, BEAUTY will FADE and only CHARACTER remains.Some people spend their entire lives trying to be unkind, hostile or even brutish to people but EVIL always BACKFIRES,only GOOD prevails. I would say, leave them alone to live their lives.So what, it didn't work. It happens to the best of persons. He wasn't your last chance and neither were you his. Some people are NOT COMPATIBLE anyway.I know you feel badly because you heard he was cheating with her but it is not necessarily true and even if it was, it wasn't right.I hope it does not backfire (I mean one or the other of them, cheat in this relationship, thus rendering the same pain of betrayal that you went through. Love yourself and others. You are hurting yourself hanging on to this relationship of yesterday. Forgive and Move on.You also need to ask this girl's forgiveness and STOP being so SNOBBISH. people ONLY SUCK UP TO SNOBS BECAUSE EITHER THEY TOO ARE SNOBS, OR THEY ARE HYPOCRITES WHO SECRETLY HATE YOUR DIRTY ATTITUDE BUT ARE TOO COWARDLY TO TELL YOU THAT THEY DO NOT LIKE YOUR ATTITUDE.LOVE YOU BABY AND I HOPE YOU SEE THAT I HAVE YOUR INTEREST AT HEART. ASK JESUS INTO YOUR HEART AND HE WILL CHANGE YOU AND HEAL THE HURT.BEST WISHES.
damn...looks like he broke up with you for good reason psyco bitch. Shes prolly got more personality in one tit than you do in that whole "pretty" body of yours. Get over it
Well the main thing is.... YOUR A BITCH!!! I am sooo sick of the kind of person you are, you think looks is the only important thing , well their not. Maybe the "ugly chick" (as you call her) is fun to be around or nice or has alot in commen with him. Maybe he didnt like the fact that you were so mean to her so he whent to apologize and started to like her!!! Who knows the point is pretty's fun in bed but nice is better everywhere.
HELL YES!!!
You are really self absorbed and shallow. Enough said. However he should have broken up with you before moving on. Badness on all sides...
You are obviously just a shallow b and he prefers someone with personality over someone who is so self-absorbed, shallow, and insanely judgemental of others. You are clearly feeling selfconscious and you should turn that anger and bitterness inward and do a bit of a self-aval.
Yeah...when you say it like that you sound like the stereotypical bitch who is the most gorgeous person in the world, but acts like an pain the ass. If you made her life miserable, then you probably made everyone else miserable, including you boyfriend. When I read this I actually wrote a poem about you. It had words that rhyme with "itch" and "snitch." Maybe it was bitch? I can't remember you adorable, self-centered hoe.
just like everyone else on here, you're just one of those annoying broads in movies that think they're the shit. get over yourself, while you're pretty and all, maybe you've got a nasty attitude. and it looks like it too. the girls just one year older, she's still in your age group. she's not even that old, she maybe a butterface, but at least she has a personality that can attract your EX.
your useless and very pathtic. some of the prettiest girls get picked on. i used to get picked on by useless people like you. now alot of people tell me i look good. ugly duckling can gorw to be a beatiful swan. all those kids that picked on me were butt ugly anyways i know i'm not ugly. and mybee that girl your retared boyfriend dumped you for will grow into her looks one day. Hey you never know. i have whiny ass friend just like you.she cries about her stupid boyfriend. boo hoo hoo get over it you dumb cunt. i don't give a rats ass what stupid men think of me. hate me all you want but i don't care. your ugly inside.
When your looks go, you're gonna be in troooouble...b*tch
That is a reality check for you. Wake up, it's not about looks in a relationship. You're probably the girl guys are physically attracted to, sleep with, then leave. The stupid and losers will probably tolerate you because they just want you want. If looks are all you care about, 20 years down the line when everything starts falling and sagging, you won't have ANYONE. Try working a little on your inside, and stop hating the world because you don't what what you want.

FACE IT, there is more to life than your self-centered mindset.
Err...are you for reall??!!!
ahahahahahahhaahah i totally laughed my ass cheeks off when i read your problem ,not to mention the comments you got! For one thing ,you need to ge a life and a personality...FAST WOMAN! And secondly, enjoy the nasty comments while youre still a lame chick cause youve got more comin! Get used to them!
LOL
well I assume he woke up and realized what a stuck up bitch you are. You sound like one of the dumbest people i've ever heard....
Somebody should give him a fucking medal, he's a credit to his gender.
You are a fucking bitch. He dumped you, get over it. Yeah, I get that you're mad he cheated on you, but, seriously, I can see why.
Damn, I woulda dumped your sorry ass too. Just get over it, go find some guy that is as self absorbed and shallow as you are and things may work out. ( :
Maybe he broke up with you because you're a bitch.
I agree. Maybe he left you because you only care about looks not personality. I don't even know you and I'm even sick of your crap.
Wow, you know what, just reading this makes me want to punch you in the fucking face. You know people like you make me sick. Okay, maybe the girl he's dating isn't all that good-looking, but he's dating her for a reason, and I can guess which it is. She obviously has a better attitude than you. You're acting like a stuck up bitch who's daddy wouldn't buy that pony you wanted, so you're taking it out on the poor little kid down the street that grew up with a horse. Good God, just because he likes her more than you, is doesn't give you any right to take it out on her.
move on, bitch.
he did.
After reading your story, I can see why your boyf dumped you. You may think this girl is ugly but your ex don't, she's obviously got something you haven't...a better personality being one of the things
She's probably a wonderful person. But you wouldn't know that because you judged her before you even spoke to her. Your entire basis for this is that she's ugly. Well, my dear, you sound like the ugliest person I've ever seen. You could be gorgeous but you attitude and personality make you a terrible girlfriend I'm guessing. If you made him happy, why did he leave? My guess is you only thought you made him happy because you were happy. I know a lot of women like you.

Here's a tip. Actually get to know people before judging them and try, I know this is hard, try to imagine based on the reaction you've gotten here, what it must be like to be the person you pick on every day.
Sounds like he left you for here cause you are a crazy b**ch and he wants to be with a nice persons - which she must be.

So get over it or else all you are going to do is make your life miserable for a long time to come
Lol, maybe you really sucked in bed... Hey sometimes literally
wow you're a bitch you know!! like really, maybe he's one of those guys who don't care about looks, and likes someone who's nice and not someone who "barks" at people!! you seem like one of those popular bitchs from those movies, yeah the ones were the girl who thinks if you don't have the looks, then you're never gunna get a guy unless they're a geek!! i hope you're single, EXTREMLY horny, and never have sex again for the rest of your life ass whole :D
if you took the piss outta her you must have a bad side, and bitchy gals arent a turn on believe me, own of my exs were really sweet with me but was a bitch with a few other people and that pissed me the fuck off. if its not that, the other gal must be a nympho
Wow, there are a hell of a lot of hypocrits on here! They have all bitched and been nasty at her about being bitchy and nasty.

And wtf she had every write to be, if ur bf/gf had just broke it off with u 4 no reason 2 go out with some1 else after a year and a half and then found out that he/she had been cheating on u 4 months with him/her youde b pretty p****d urself

And how do u know that the ugly girl had a good personality? U dont!
get a grip she probabley has a hell of alot more interesting things 2 say than you do.i hope they are happy,get over it you looser
If the best you can say for your ex is that he's "hot", you obviously didn't have that much of a connection with him in the first place. I don't want to come across as harsh as some the other commenters, but there really IS more to life than looks, and although you couldn't see past the physicality of your relationship, your ex apparently can... with his new girl. The solution? Find someone with a personality. You have no idea what you've been missing. Good luck!
A disgusting display of highschoolish idiocy.
Without quoting your ignorant judgments of others, I can sense that your intellectual capacity for your chronological age is terrifyingly low.

Your ability to draw conclusions with observed behaviors fails.

I truly believe you suffer from a severe personality disorder and you are unable to deal with rejection, therefore you misplace your anger onto others.

Relationships aren't contracts. They're not permanent. Seek therapy. Get over yourself. Find someone who will put up with your crap.

P.S. Physical beauty isn't the only factor for success in life. As you found out, you were replaced by someone who isn't a mental case.
Wow you are a sad person. Did it occur to you that the reason why your boyfriend is dating another person ids because he is not obviously interested in you anymore. And honestly, she might be a lot smarter, funnier and more talented than you can ever be. Beauty can be brought off market now, say make over or plastic surgery but guess what you can't buy brains. Good luck surviving!
SEcond it. I posted a bunch of pictures in my profile and if you take the time to see them. I could have had two hot asian girls but I chose my current, heavier girlfriend over them.

Why, because UNLIKE YOU, she is a clean and decent person inside. SEriously, that is what I hate about pretty girls is that they are so empty and hollow inside. Please develop a personality.

However, I bet you are a stuck up whore and refuse to understand that the problem could be you. That is why you probably didn't respond back nor will you respond back to this one.

Try eating a twinkee and gain a pound, skank.