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he's friends with his ex girlfriends?
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I am in a new relationship with a very laid back,unique guy that has contact with every person he's known through life.
His ex's are friends,they go over with the new guy,call him for advice . It seemed weird at first but I did not let it bother me. Now a few months in I am falling for him,and this one ex goes over with her daughter ,using his computer,borrowing things,he claims she was a horrible girlfriend 10 year ago for like 8 months,but they are just friends and he's close to her kid. We are long distance,and really getting to me. Should I worry? I don't want to ruin this if I am just overreacting...please help
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dragoon188 (5130)
2007-01-06 04:12:11
You ever hear that line "we can still be freinds" thats what it is. Nothing more, some guys dont keep in touch, some do. Get over it and stop being jelous
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paulii (4043)
2007-01-06 05:44:12
sounds like. i still keep in touch with everyone, people ring me for adive bla bla..

i rekon jsut chill, but if u do notice some fucked up shit, pull him and talk about it.
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ladyoftheworld (4309)
2007-01-06 07:46:25
Hi, I dont agree with it, If he wants a relationship with you, he should show you some respect and ditch these ex girlfriends for good, you should come first, let him know this is showing disrespect to you and you dont like it, dont be prepared to be a doormat for any man. Stand your ground and let him know you are no walk over. If he cant handle this, well hes not worth the effort or bother and dump him, hope this helps
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cabinet70 (4440)
2007-01-06 08:03:37
Its quite possible that they are ust friends and he probably is close to the daughter I would give him a chance and see how it goes
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crazyme (4954)
2007-01-06 12:30:49
Does she knows that he has a gf? If so she should respect you and not comes to him all the time. Yeah the daughter and him are close...But later on might fall in love, eventhough they has a horrible relationship before. People change. I agree from what ladyoftheworld said. If he cares for his x more..then ya should think about this relationship again.
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dragoon188 (5130)
2007-01-29 16:34:50
Think of it this way, if you broke up with a guy, and wanted to still be friends, you would still call him (as much as you call your other friends)

Also dating somone doesnt mean that you have to stop communication with all other females, that is just ridiculous!!! There is nothing wrong with talking to other women! Get over yourself.

@ Lady of the world
What if he is standing his ground showing that he can talk to whoever he wants to. and by being in a realationship doesnt mean he cant have friends. An example would be the opposite of this. My mother is dating a man, but she still calls up her old boyfriends to talk and ask questions, and even go to basketball games with!!! THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH IT, MEN AND WOMEN WITH YOUR VIEW POINT NEED TO STOP THINKING THAT PEOPLE IN A RELATIONSHIP CANT HAVE FRIENDS OF THE OPPOSITE SEX!!!!!!

Sorry, It is just people like you, men and women alike, piss me off
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omgurdead (5597)
2007-01-31 03:09:23
exgirlfriends are people too.
people can be friends.

a rational girlfriend knows this.

honestly, you should be less intimidated by ex's than by new friends.... he's been there, done that, and likes you better.
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