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Help i am sexually attracted to my step daughter
My step daughter is 12 and she and her dad were once close when she was younger. Now he hardly spends any time with her or talks to her. Now she is a little boy crazy and she seems to chase them and accept anything as a boyfriend, even web dates whom she has never seen. She seems to fall in love easily and often.
Now it seems she is more sexually aware. I am not sure, but I think she sees me as a sexual being and its messing with my head because there is an attraction between us that is more sexual than conventional. We are close and we talk about her so called "boyfriends" all the time. But sometimes she does things in front of me that could be seen as sexual and then glances at my groin area to see if I am aroused, and I admit that sometimes I am because she is well developed and I love her but the two are getting mixed up and so am I.
I would never actually do anything sexual with her for fear of hurting her mother and our family, but my fantasy bothers me and I want to help her channel her sexual energy to a more positive end. How do I do this.
Now it seems she is more sexually aware. I am not sure, but I think she sees me as a sexual being and its messing with my head because there is an attraction between us that is more sexual than conventional. We are close and we talk about her so called "boyfriends" all the time. But sometimes she does things in front of me that could be seen as sexual and then glances at my groin area to see if I am aroused, and I admit that sometimes I am because she is well developed and I love her but the two are getting mixed up and so am I.
I would never actually do anything sexual with her for fear of hurting her mother and our family, but my fantasy bothers me and I want to help her channel her sexual energy to a more positive end. How do I do this.
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I think you need to steer away far from her and come to your senses. Set some clear physical and emotional boundaries. Physically - break it off - keep away from her for awhile. Emotionally - cool the chumminess & refer the boyfriend talk to her Mom. Do this gently, but do it.
If you think you are confused - as an adult - imagine how she feels - and she already has boy/father issues.
The counseling idea above is a very good one. I think you are well intentioned, but have found yourself overwhelmed with feelings that are inappropriate & you didn't expect to have.