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Bad breakups are normal. In your case though, you sound like you still somehow have ties to this man's family to even know that he is bad-mouthing you. I would sever all ties completely with him and his family.

If you ended things and have become enemies then there is really no need to communicate any more. Also he may be over dramatizing to his family as it would look strange to them if he is friendly with his so-called enemy.

Save yourself the hurt of constantly going through drama with he and his family and move on. It will help them all do the same and they can't have much more to say about you if they have no idea where you are and what you are up to.

Just give it up. Don't interact with either him or his family. Who cares what they think about you--that's not important. It's pointless to try to change his opinion, or that of his family. Focus on the future; don't dwell on the past.

thanks dear...i'll do the bad thing about that is one of his cousins pretedend to be on my side but she was just a traitor and a backstabber..i never knew there are mean people in life..he was the one who broke up with me and yet he tells everyone that i cheated on him which was never true i dont know why he wants to ruin my life it's like they have put a spell onto my life but i do have faith and i know God will make him pay for the tears he caused me.

It sounds like he's not over you, and he's using anger as his defense to hide that he still cares. Just give him space so he can move on too.