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HELP the internet is spoiling my realtionship
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my girlfriend is always on the computer when shes on her own i mean literally every second of the day and thats fine cos its her personal time but its been getting worse.

she normally gets up and then we meet in the morning and spend all day together then she goes in, but shes been getting up and going on the computer before we meet which makes her later and later

then when were out she dosnt seem that intrested in staying out late she always wants to go in early and now when i go up to hers shes always on the computer when im there so we dont do much together i dont mind sitting with her when shes on the laptop and im on the xbox thats quite nice but we never lie and cuddle or do anything together because shes always reading or writing her yaoi fan fics or role playing in some stupid deviant art room and you know im starting to feel a bit neglected

i know she loves me more than anything and i do her but i mean im 19 and i've been with her for over 3 years and shes never stayed at mine later than 7 pm and i try to go out together just her and me but she always wants to bring one of her friends or somthing and im getting frustrated

breaking up is not an option here
but what can i do?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (11)
grotesque (28392)
2009-09-12 03:17:55
TALK TO HER ABOUT IT DAAAAAAAAAAAAA!
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WayOutThere (27021)
2009-09-12 04:14:15
It sounds like this computer thing is a symptom, not a cause. She may be losing interest in the relationship. Are you having sex with her? If not, you should. That will do wonders for your relationship!
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ADU96163 (28412)
2009-09-12 07:23:17
It sounds as if maybe she is bored by your company. Maybe you should try doing a new activity together or you could try asking her to play an xbox game with you. Something she is interested in. Most importantly talk to her about it. Communication is the key to a lasting relationship.
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In_Your_Dreams (28414)
2009-09-12 09:44:18
sit her down and talk to her about it face to face.
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Gtown (28068)
2009-09-12 19:56:08
Sex isn't the magic cure for everything though
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FeilliChan (25304)
2009-09-13 00:57:42
xD kinda sounds like me O_O I go on the internet a lot and watch anime or play video games/ Online games. I don't think it's because shes losing interest in the relationship. =] If i was in a relationship and the guy wanted some alone time I'd be nervous but if i friend was there i would be more comfortable, Maybe it's the same for her. Try getting into what she's interested in,for example if she likes anime try to get into anime as well and you two can talk about it or watch it together and get closer. Feel free to reply if it doesn't work and i can give you my msn or w/e and we can talk about it =]
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cassie_07 (28342)
2009-09-13 00:57:51
tell her how u feel... honesty is the best policy...
maybe she doesn't relize was she's doing...
ask her how would she feel if u did the same...
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Bisjac (25261)
2009-09-13 14:29:37
I'd probably dump the nerd. But hey, 3 years is not something anyone wants to just throw away. You should either:
a) tell her how you feel or
b) spend time on the computer with her?

Just be careful. If she's going on sites like that, she may be E-cheating on you. :P And yes, I know this from experience.
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Anonymous (Story Author)
2009-09-16 19:09:21
@: Bisjac
I asked her about it and she said she likes to just chill with me when shes on the computer but it still annoys the fuck out of me i mean im sitting there without anything to do you know,

what do you mean by E-cheating??
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cassie_07 (28342)
2009-09-17 05:29:46
chating and flirting with girls on the internet... OMG. so many men do that!
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Anonymous (Story Author)
2009-09-19 16:43:21
@: cassie_07
oooooooooh now I understand haha and I know what you mean my friend has a girlfriend and he does that I hate it I would never do that to my girl
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