I've been seeing a girl whose ultimate fantasy is to be sentenced to death by having her legs sawed off.
We now act it out (without causing any actual bodily harm) nearly every time we have sex and despite a lot of embarrassment in the beginning, I now love it and I insist she always wear stockings and high heels every time we play our game which involves alot of submissive sex, as well as her being tied down helpless, on her part.
None of my previous relationships have been like this so I was wondering if this was normal or is it too sick and should I stop it?
bondage is OK but death fetish is a bit wierd
The reason it leads to sex is because she imagines herself being caught having one last play with herself before she's executed. So sex plays a part from the beginning. The actual sex acts she performs on me come from the in character element of her begging for her life - I think!
I can't deny that now I've gotten used to it I get really turned on by the game we play. She puts on a good act of playing a frightened victim and she says that deep down I must have had similar inclinations (she could be right because I've always been a leg lover) because I act so cruel and merciless when I play the part of her executioner, which for both her and me is a big turn on.
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No suggestions on how we could improve things then? LOL!
Seriously though you're entitled to your opinion and I respect that but other than this extremely bizzare sexual fantasy game we play, we are just two normal everyday people with everyday lives who strongly disapprove of any form of violence in the real world.
What I really want would be a group session with Girls Aloud!