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High self esteem and insecure

Im a very hot, very smart man, it is every girls dream to catch me as a husband (im being sincere).
Whenever i see women i know theyre thinking about how hot i am.
And above that, i know how smart, kockey and wise i am to top that.
But still i am terrified of walking up to a table of women i dont know.
Its like, what the hell am i supposed to say to them?

"hi, im name-here and im horney? can i fokk you?
oh you want me to act as if im interested in your character first?"

Regardless of what i will try to make it look as if im doing, the truth will always be something i cant say.
So ill always be a phoney.. and i dont function well in phoney situations.. which is what the mating life always is.
So im an incredibly hot and smart man, who functins badly in this fake stupid mating life.. and thus i feel like my worth goes unappreciated for.

Normal?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (16)
I hope this is a joke posting, because otherwise it is very sad. I don't know if you are really hot or not, but you certainly don't sound very smart. But let's assume I'm just to dumb to realize how smart you are. So you are super hot and super smart, but not a nice person. I don't think that makes you at all the catch that you say you are. There are a lot of dumb, ugly people whose lives are full of kindness, love and joy. What do you have to offer? Being smug and pretty?
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@: Ladybug
this is not a fake post.
this reality surely is sad... but it is a very genuine reality nonetheless and one which i have confirmed over and over again.

What do i have to offer?
You mean in terms of giving my work(giving flowers, remembering birthdays, paying for the dinner, being caring etc)?
Couldnt you just take the cash?
It comes out the same way.

There is nothing dumb about me, i just feel uncomfortable with dishonestly paying for sex, no matter what the form of payment is and the level of dishonesty it is paid with (pretention of being kind, polite etc).

The reality is that women want payment in exchange for sex.. more or less all of them.
The payment is most often in the form of the mans invested time and effort, but sometimes more honestly,
with his direct money payment.
I do not have the illusion manufacturing capabilities not to come to this conclusion.

Ladies... youre all whores, be it dishonest or not.
You are a complete and utter fuckin wanker.You are a legend in the palm of your own hand
YOU THINK YOU'R SO SMART THEN LEARN TO SPELL YOU DUMB SHIT
Be honest -just go to a prostitute and let other women be.
Never have I seen a guy so fucking full of himself.

And how do you think those backwater fucks in Africa keep getting it on if there isn't anything at all to go around?
Sooo......You're sayin' you're a complete shmuck?
In squeaky girly voice... "I'm like so totally hot and I'm also a real ass hole." Two words: - cunt, puff.
I appreciate your honesty.

You don't have real self-esteem.

You have socially cultured "high self-esteem." I've been there. It's not real. It seems like you don't know who you are.

Your insecurities are a manefestation of your humanity. That you're NOT invincible.
fyi, hotness does NOT replace intelligence. sorry.
why are you so angry at women? did you ever try being nice to one and not try to get something or something something? maybe change your attitude with the high/no esteem thing or become bitter because women get turned off by it.
I'll bet you keep women away in droves, twit!
So masturbate to your mirror image, and please oh please rip it off shove it down your throat and choke on your own beauty. lol your a tool
JUST WALK UP UP TO THEM AND START A CONVERSATION...DONT BE SHY DONT BE SCARED JUST FEEL GUUD BOUT UR SELF...JUST WALK UP TO THEM AND BE LIKE HEY MAMI WASSUP LOL CAN I GIVE U A RIDE HOME JAJAJA DATS WUT I DO....AND BY DA WAY DONT LISTEN TO ANY OF THIS HYPOCRITES
how much are u up ur own ass?
you havnt got the balls to go up to girls that whats wrong with you. and if you do dont tell how hot and smart you are.

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