For the last couple of months I have been trying to get my boyfriend to have anal sex with me. I can't get him to do it I think because he never tried it. When I ask him he gets mad and askes me if I ever had it up the ass. I told him no so he would not get mad. However my last boyfriend would f**k me up the ass many times and I liked it.
How can I get him to f**k me in the ass.
I'll express the minority opinion that this is an unnatural act that causes tearing of anal tissues and subjects both the man and woman's bodies to harmful bacteria that may lead to STDs. Even condoms may not prevent this as condoms are known to tear. In any event, the anal canal does not stretch to accommodate the penis in the same manner as the vagina, even with all of the lube the world has to offer.
For those of you who are into this sort of thing, enjoy. I don't understand how ANYONE could get pleasure out of an act which is essentially the equivalent of a forceful enema. And please, no speeches about "G" spots. It's all highly speculative, and females have no prostates, so there's no opportunity for that type of stimulation, either.
I mention this primarily because I believe that there are at least a few women out there who are feeling pressured into anal sex and may not enjoy it, but may fear telling their partners because they don't want to risk offending their lovers. Again, for you enthusiasts -- whatever gets you through the night, I guess -- but it's definitely not for me.
Actually, over a period of time, it does.
However, I fail, as a man who is used to being rediculed for 'taking it up the shit tube', why ANY man would want to have anal from a female when they obviously have free access to a vasgina!
I would love to be enlightened as to the 'magical draw' of anal with a female!
I do agree there are some women who enjoy this act, but I will also contend there are many women who do NOT like it and who do not inform their partners of this fact because they fear displeasing them. For those who DO like it and take proper precautions, it is still an act that I cannot possibly endorse for reasons already described, but it's not my business to legislate what consenting adults do together between the sheets. But for those who are hesitant to say no -- I hope they will not feel they do not have the right to say so.
Still ailing, actually. They haven't figured out the source of the pain yet. I'm still on a variety of pain meds, still losing weight, and growing very weary of the whole thing. I'm seeing a specialist on Monday and looking at the possibility that it's related to an old procedure which caused weakening in an area which affects a LOT of different structures (note that I'm being very mysterious here because the whole damned thing has the potential to sound kind of embarrassing; LOL -- if I had your e-mail address, I'd explain it in more detail.) Anyhow, I hope they'll figure it out soon or I'll be dropping by your place for a bit of the old medicinal marijuana before you know it ;-)
I met up with my step dad and we drove to this guys house to see if his car was the one my step dad saw a few weeks ago breaking into his neighbors house. The sheriffs department in his county hasnt been looking for the guy so he had to find out things on his own but the guys car wasnt there. The guy really has to be caught in the act or caught with stolen property to be taken to jail but he just wants to make sure the guy is the guy he saw so he can go from there. Other then that you were on my mind of course.