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How do i deal with this?
I met her in 5th grade, i fell in love with her the moment i met her. we were very young and dont know anything about love, we lost communication a couple of years later, but still, i cant get her out of my mind, after 8 years we met again here in australia, i visited her and i found out that i am still in love with her.. we went out, dated, it is like we are more than friends, but she is not sure about her feelings for me, she had relationships with other guys in the past 2 years, but i still love her.. i feel like i can endure any pain just to see her happy. everytime we see each other its okay, we're fine, but everytime i leave she's kind of like forgetting about me and ignoring me. we have done a lot more than people who had relationships. but still i cannot call her "mine". i never had the assurance that she loves me.. :( i cried a couple of times and i could not concentrate with work..
how do i deal with this? how can i forget her?
she's like stuck in my mind 24 hours a day. i tell her everyday how much i love her. but half the time she ignores me. i think i am so stupid but i dont care. i dont know what to do. :(
how do i deal with this? how can i forget her?
she's like stuck in my mind 24 hours a day. i tell her everyday how much i love her. but half the time she ignores me. i think i am so stupid but i dont care. i dont know what to do. :(
Do you think it's normal?
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Saying I love you is ok if the feelings are mutual. But if they're not, it's kind of a pain to the other person.
So, I'd suggest you to move on. Or at least, if you feel you can't (it happens, and very often), stop saying the love word for a while.
A very nasty tip is luffymaxxie's. But it really works! If you remove the reassurance of your love on her, she might start wondering what's going wrong, or even missing it. If she realizes she misses you, then you're on the right path! Now you can woo her with a chance of succeeding. And if she doesn't even realize that you've stopped saying I love you (and she won't tell, you MUST watch it from her actions)... errrr... well... let's say that everything had been said.
Good luck, comrade!
And just want to add something.. Just cause you're crazy about someone doesn't mean you have to be in a relationship with them.