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how do i love? - 36% Normal

is it a problem that i dont know how to love.
i just dont know if i say it i really dont mean it ive been with alot of girls but i was forced to pretty much say it they would say tell me you love me not in a demanding way though, so you know i would say it. i just dont know how to love ive liked some of the girls alot but im not sure it was love.
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Comments (10)
buriedalive (16071)
2009-04-19 14:09:21
You can't make yourself love somebody, it's just something that happens. Is it just romantic love you have as problem with?
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oskilover18 (22167)
2009-04-21 22:46:01
How old are you? My response really depends on that.
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Starofhisheart (22416)
2009-04-27 20:00:59
A lot of people, guys especially, think they have to have a girl friend before they graduate high school or w/e (I am assuming you are in high school) but trust me. Me and my boyfriend have been together for three years, and he never felt serious about anyone until me, and we meet in college. One day you will meet the person of your dreams, you will get butterflies and feel like you just sky rocketed to a whole new world. A lot of girls rush things and ruin things by trying to force you to love them, but just remember its ok to not feel love instantly. Love starts off as a small little seed in your heart and it blossoms with time. You just have to nourish it.
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GeraldMossman (24419)
2009-06-20 04:22:07
Find someone different to all the other girls. Maybe you're looking for love in all the same places
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carib_kid (25063)
2009-07-04 21:24:27
its hard teach or explain love. and it cant be forced. it just happens its an event. my best explanation is that when you love someone you can never see that person out of your life. and you have a connection that is deep...something like that.
you can also have love when that special someone has millions of dollars with your name on it the minute they croak.
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Confusedgirl (25348)
2009-07-10 02:42:48
Youve never experienced love, yes your feelings for others were true, but if you were in love youd be so happy & blinded by it this question wouldnt even cross your mind. The right girl wont force it she will let your love grow untill it is ready to be said.
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combatgal856 (13140)
2009-07-30 17:19:27
You know when you're in love, and when you say it but you don't feel it or say it because you do not mean it then you are not in love.

There will be someone who will probably take you through love. It will come naturally i guess
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ilikeexspiredmilk (26943)
2009-08-11 02:13:48
its not love till you get a hand job
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weepingwillow (24538)
2009-08-19 03:20:03
don't listen to guy above me! i mean he likes expired milk for crying out loud!!
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Argollun (28826)
2009-09-22 13:57:13
Love is a verb, you do it. If you like a person and want them to be happy, try and make them happy. Try talking to a counselor.
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