How do you finger yourself?

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Please, someone help...

It is strange that you say you've been masturbating since you were 7, but you say you're afraid a finger is gonna hurt you.

Well i masterbate in a different way...I take a cloth or a sweater and tuck it inbetween my legs. The i cross my legs and like..'hump' it?

alright, you're 13, im almost 15 so, i see no shame in masturbating at this age. anyways, if you have time on the computer where no one can see you. go to google and search "masturbation tips" it sometimes takes a while of different words to find a good tip for you, but u'll find them eventually. do u know what ur clit is? you'll need to know that for ultimate pleasure

I've already tried that, and of roucse i know what that is. lol. I am mature for my age...Anyways i have googled a lot of stuff trying to get advice and things but nothing works. :(

I need some advice on getting wet aswell. I mean everytime i masterbate i get a little bet wet, but then it goes away pretty fast. What are some things i can do that will turn me on and then urge me to cum? :S

and as an urge to cum. well a girl CAN ejaculate, but it's complicated..i cant tell u how to do that, but as for climaxing, try differnt things oh and to get wet, you just need to be sexually aroused

How can i get aroused though???

Think of hot boys . . .

fantise, think of someone that you would want to have sex with. or at least be around you. someone that excites you, in that way

Lick your finger and rub it on yourself keep it wet it will eventually go in. Dont try the shower untill you can do this.

Gently stimulate the clitoris using the tips of your index finger and thum nails. Now, think of an amalgam of all kinds of human beings stacked on top of each other naked in a massive orgy. Think of the heat and the opportunities that arise from the said intoxicated mess of life.

I get the impression ferret is really a boy trying to get girls to talk dirty and disclose how they get off.

Most people will learn by instinct what feels good and how to get off. If you've really searched out how to do it on the internet and you still can't figure it out, maybe you need to wait until you are a bit older.

OMG, 7 years old. Fuck, i didnt know what a vagina was until i was 9 (im male) and the first time i wanked off, i was almost 16!

wow this guy above me is wierd 16 is just daft so what if she was 7 u you wer 16

Use the shower head to squirt water against your labia. Then stick the bath brush in there. It's less painful than fingers.

im 13, and im very curious about fingering myself, a few of my friends have done it, but im kind of scared, does it hurt??

ok gurls, i hav experience, so listen up, i think it is great exploring at a young age.. the best thing 2 do , is insert your finger/s and curl them upwards to ur face.. this will please the G spot

Hey, well.. im 12. Yer... PLZ PLZ PLZ DONT JUDGE ME! All my friends have said, they have fingerd themselves b4. Well, i have. but nothing happend. Also, i have a pump bath. I turned it on.. and well u kno da rest, it felt good. But then it got too much nd i had to move. Now, the pump isnt the problem, the fingering is.. how can i feel the same as what i did with the pump? And ferret, im in the same position as u.x

I am in the same boat as above...im 14 and i dont know whether im doing it right or not. it just doesnt feel like anythings going on down there sometimes, so i just do my clit. Hint: to get turned on, try something other than porn (if you watch it). try to read erotic literature (literotica.com)

Hey i no just how you feel. I started when i was 10 (im 15 now) and i no just how u feel. Just put ur finger in ur pussy and let ur most erotic dreams fly by. Works every time!

haii im new to this and this year i started 2 finger my self. im 13 and i want to no if i should be using a vibrator
my frends ave just started 2 finger theirself and they are already using a vibrator
my frends brought me 1 2 and i used it and it felt realy realy realy gud do u think it is to much at the moment??
oh and i was using the vibrator and all this wite stuff came out of my va**na was that ment 2 happen??
was it cum??
are gurlz ment 2 cum??
plz dont judge me but my bf has fingerd me b4 is that rite or not??
XxX bubi
plz some1 help

hayleyangel: I don't think that a boyfriend fingering you is wrong. My boyfriend did that for me when I was about fourteen, I think. My personal advice to you would be to not let him take your virginity, but fingering is just plain fun ;)

And girls are meant to cum, of course they are! It just doesn't happen the same way a guy's does, of course.

And I have a vibrator, and it gets the job done quite well, though sometimes there's just no substitute for your own fingers (when you're doing it solo, that is).

And don't worry, you're perfectly normal. Sounds like everything happened like it was supposed to. ;)

And if you don't have a vibrator, buy an electric toothbrush. Thats what I did before I got a vibrator. Just please, please, PLEASE make sure you keep it somewhere where NO ONE will find it and use it because...that would be so disgusting I can't even imagine... Lol

i don't have a vibrator or an eletric toothbrush. how do i get one without anyone knowing. none of my friends now how to finger themselves, they never been fingered either, but i have and it felt really good, but when i do it it doesn't feel really good. someone tell me how to really do it.

Whoa...first of all your were masterbating at 7? I don't think that anyone should cum at 7, I noticed that I came while grinding on something when I was 12...BTW Im a guy. 7 is like wtf? Are you high when u masterbate? Maybe shootin' some drugs? 7 is an insane age to masterbate, plus if you masterbate too much you start shaking like gay guys do because they take it in the @$$ and they have alot of fear in them. PS If ANYONE (Incuding the masterbating girl with problems) has Gears of War for Xbox 360, email me @ supa_dupa_fly_boy@hotmail.com

By the way, if you girls are looking for a boyfriend, hit me up, im 13, im white, and I live in Fairifax, Virginia. And uh for Xbox Live, my gamertag is Dark Princ3, send a friend request to him and ill pwn u in some Gears of War, Call of Duty 3, or Battlefeild 2:MC, some girls might not know wtf im talking about, but its called a game console and vag*nas make electroics defective.

im 13 nd have been fingering my self for about a month. I dont get pleasure out of it most the time i have the urge to scream nd i have came before but how can i get more pleasure out of it. and make can i finger myself like a day before my period is due???
please reply i need help

im 13 n i hav been tring finger my self seens i was 11 or 12 in the shower but i cant like "do it" i get tat "felling" but it goes away rite away

plezzzzzzzz i need help!
wat do i do?

hi im 12, and i finger myself but i want to get more pleaser out of it but i dont know how to! can you help me!
i feel like i need to somthing long and vibrating to put up my pussy but i don't know what? can you give me somthing ideals plz!
can you help me!!!!

hi im 13 and belive this ive been masterbating since i was in a car seat only i found out wat it was this year its wen babys masturbate with out knowing it and ive been doing it ever since. i know its crzy but i had no control over it. i know how to finger and sometimes i use a hard object. but i really wanna find my g-spot. plese help me!

You can get an electric toothbrush pretty much anywhere. Either use your own money or ask your parents to buy it for you. They'll just think you want to brush your teeth with it.

Just make sure you don't get one that has the whirring bristles or anything because that might be uncomfortable, I don't know since I've never tried it. Just get the basic vibrating kind.

Getting a vibrator would be pretty much impossible unless you're an adult.

hi.. i have been fingering myself for about 2months now.. i dont get any pleasure out of it.. i would really like to find my g-spot and would like some new tips on how to finger yourself properally and have enjoyment out of it

please help

hey im 16 there is no rite way to finger yourself just explore the first time i did it i was 12 i tried it in my bedroom now my boyfriend does it the first time you do it you will think what the fuk was i moaning about it doesnt hurt one bit its just relaxs you and gets you in the mood hope this is help-full to you
if u want to no anything just ask me
natasha2010@hotmail.co.uk just pretend im like a big sister ok :-)

hey i havnet ever fingered myself an i relle want to but i have nosey sisters that come around me al the time s ocan sum one tell me a way i can n the shower?

ok i am 12 and have the same problem i have done evrything electric toothbrush fingers pionting to me masuge and the onlything that works is the shower but i have done that sence i was 8 and it is boring plz help me what els can i do

hey i am also 13 years old...
and i have been masturbating since i was like
idk....11?
and well i havnt ben doing it with my finger...
i do it in the bath tub...
i just let the water fall on my va*na
ya know?
but i would like to start to finger myself..
but im not sure how to?
and if i even should..
is it bad??
i get horney ALOT...
and sometimes all i wanna do is masturbate.
is that normal?

Hi my name is nikki (Nciole) i am 14 and from hull and people keep askin me if i ve fingered my self and i hav i always do but i tell them i dnt no what to do because i feel ashamed but i love it opleaes help

Hi My Names Billy But I Get Called Bastard Or Beastii Billy..I Keep Asking My Mates weva they finger them selves and i just dont seem to beleev um sumtyms i finger my mam wen ma bird int around .. just wanna shout out to ma bird becki flan .. lv you..x

i wana fuk every lad i set eyes on i reli do n the trhing is im scared ov cock so plz elp me coz they wont stay wiv me all they want is sexual intersorse

hiya im billy i tell evryone i shag ppl but reli i ant aprt from myy bird becki i luv er so much and the thign is my penis is so small i dont know what to do ?

i think im gay what can i do ?

ok so....i would get horny when im on my period and i just want to finger myself but i dont because i think it would be gross.....would it be ok if u finger youself when you are on your period?

Will anybody get on here and tell me what i could do about fingering myself when im on my period......?¿?

i most cases, in period u will feel that happiness, try to avoid fingering that time..the best time is when after watching movies, or when it is a rainy day. its gives pleasure, nothing is bad, its natural to enjoy.try to use all fingers at a time........

i am 13 years old and i havn't had sex: virgin. i get really turned on when i masturbate but after a while it gets boring, i really crave sex.. is this normal? the total lust for sex? please help me!! xo

hello sexykiwii...
well i feel the same exact way you do..
im also 13!!!
but i think im waaaay to young for sex..
but i always just wanna do it...
but yah i know how you feel.
=]]

hey
im 14 and i finger myself 2
the best theing to do is dont worry bout how u r doin it just do it and let your fingers tell u where 2 go
and bout the showwer thing
it will come with experience

hii,
well have tried to finger myself once
but, i didnt feel anything...oh btw im 13 and i've been sorta masturbating since i was maybe 10. but just with water. well can someone help me? i want to learn how to finger myself so it's pleasurable!

i'm 13 i never fingered myself mybf did it to me first it was not painful like i thought it mite be it felt really good i let him do it now when ever but anyways i don't like fingering myseld i don't know y i just don't so girls this is what i do it works everytime i get horny thinking about stuff or sometimes even porn and i get naked and and sit on a pillow with my legs spread like i'm going to hump it and i get other pillows and stack them in front of me and hold them agianst me and hump real hard i scream a mone sometimes i love it i don't want to have sex but i could hump my pillow for hours the longest i ever did it was 2 hours while watching porn i cumed so much it was great

well all i do is just wait till ime home alone thn start rubbin myself, but it takes me ages o acually get the courage to insert. but i cnt hold it in for long. what else could i do when ime in there. Also how do i make myself cum? please help x

hey. the pillow thing. it really does work. it feels goodd. everybody should try it thats a girl. you would like it. i swear.

hey.. resently i have really been craving sex.. but im worried that itt will hurt alot.. how do u tell when your hyniem is broke??

please help me x

well if you wanna have sex just have sex.
i had sex this year and it hurt i bled. and u will feel when it brakes. i did.

yes, the white stuff was cum and it is normal. =]

okay, I'm 15 and I've wanted to finger but I never really have. I've tried to put my finger in, but I just can't bring myself to do it. I'm afraid it'll hurt. My bofriend has done it for me (with his finger) but it didn't feel very good so I think he did it wrong. I don't know what to do. One thing I've done instead is take this little vibrating thing out of my pillow I have and just move it around down there and applied different pressures and saving the viginal opening and clit for last. But after a while it gets boring. So can someone help me about fingering?

wow, i njoy it wen my boyfren fingers me.he likes it wen i finger myself n he watches.i like it wen he fingers me an den uzes the vibrator to mak me cum som more.

I tryed it im 12 but it didnt work how do make it feel good and make yourself cum?

im guna try that pillow thing..
im always trying to find different ways to pleasure my self..
any ideas anyone?

Works thanks for that i tried it last night, anymore good tips?

The thing i do is dont insert. Try wraping a towel up or humping a pillow i have done it and it feels gooooddd!!

well i tried that...
and let me tell ya..
i didnt work??
=[[
i was soo sad.
i really need help guys..
please i need idea's on what to do..
i love pleasure but i dont wanna have sex till i find the right person,
=]]

does that pillow thing really work?...how do you do it?...

okay so im 13 also and i really wanna finger myself, i feel ashamed if i do it. I also have been wanting to have sex. could that be becuase i started my period or something, i dont know. But any tips on fingering because i REALLY want to

finguering yourself is always good...just make sure your well lubricated..i'd recommned rubbing your private area ..it feels better.

go ahead and finger your self..
there is noting wrong with pleasuring yourself..
=]]

FIngering is always gd as comalies said.. but get a electric toothbrush nd wear the head dwn on a towel or something then place it on your c*** and turn it on.. it feels good

I have just fingered myself fo the first tym...oh btw im 13. I dont feel anything is this normal? I find siting on the arm of a computer chair and going up and down very nice. That pillow thing doesnt really work. Try puting a vibrating massager near ur vagina it feels very very gud. You dont have to rush into fingering yourself just wait till u r ready. There is nothing rong with doing it and there is nothing to feel ashamed of! |x| :)

well i've never fingered myself before, i always wanted to but im to scared. and that pillow thing really does work.

can someone please tell me how to finger myself????

Hi I'm 19 and i've been fingering myself since i was 11 or 12 my friends use cooked hot dogs and i laugh at them but one way is 2 just put your finger on your pee hole and move it up and down fast and you'll feel pleasure or just find objects around the house and have fun try new objects and eventually ya'll find one you love!!

ok, im 14, and my boyfriend got me a d!ldo.... i dont know how to use it, for my other b'day present, he fingered me *dont juj me plz* it felt gr8! i tryed doing it myself, but how!!!! help me!

ok first, depends on what u do wit ur Pen!s that counts... if its really small... ur f4cked.

hey i am ur age and did the same thing. but just didnt start so young. so, i did fingur myself, and masterbating is completley normal. I have crazy stories lol. But it doesnt hurt, when i used a "toy" [ if u know wat i mean] it made me bleed and i freaked out. But it didnt feel good, i thought it would but it didnt. If i was you i would do wat im doing, and waiting for when i have a guy around.

Its me again! I have just turned 13 and i tryed everything and it DOESN'T WORK! HELP ME!

hey i am 11 and i tried fingering myself and i didn't feel anything so i tried harder and i started 2 bleed! i am so scared! it bled for 3 days! what is wrong?

its cause youve never done it before, im 16 and ive been fingering since i was about 11 and it just comes over time. fingering doesn't seem scary or even hurt anymore,i even look forward to it, it just feels so good spreading, then sticking my fingers down there and hitting the g-spot and my clit(you girls no what i mean), also try to cut your fingernails, long ones can cause cuts which can lead to bleeding, but if you finger often you tend to become used to your fingernails inside of you, especially the long french polish ones i have(so good for tickling the clit :p

All I can say is take your time, I think alot of gurls are rushing themselves and that's why they aren't enjoying what they are doing! Once you slow down and just feel yourself you will know where to touch! Then once you have accomplished that then try it with objects!

im a guy so i dont kno much on da subject but if u really want da ultimate experience, u got 2 do a guy. im open for any1

just email me at pcnapster@aim.com

i agree with kristina

umm im kinda new at this im 13 turning 14 i havnt had a bf at all i have tried to finger but i dontfeel anything id ont want to talk to my mum about it what should i do to make it feel good???

its me again and it kinda sounds dtupid but what is a g spot

and i have never seen a vbrater or dildo i dont no what it feels like

I'm 13 and I've tried to finger myself a couple of times ..but i dont knwo if i am doing it right it feels good and i get wet really easy and once i get the groove of it like when it starts to feel really good my v starts to beat and i try to keep goign but i cant because it like i dont knwo just loses stamina ,but i crave sex although i never would because i am far to young ,but i need help am i doign it right if my finger doesn't go in but i simply rub the are before that? i still get wet and have to stop because the feeling is too great , what does this mena ,am i doign it right?

im have just turned 13 and have been fingering my self for about 4 mounths i have been looking at websites on sex positions and on 1 of them they tell a guy how to finger a girl i lernt alot about that from it. i play wid mi self first then i go in . after that sometimes ihump a pillow or soft wround toy is that normal??? can someone give me more tips cuz i wanna have fun cuz normaly i dont feel alot.

anyone want a b.f:) mr_herve@hotmail.com

since we all hav som things dat get us horny just email me wit anythin dat gets u horny and ill try to do it (u kno lik certain positions or stuff like dat) and than mayb u could do da sam for me :-)

yo hornybabe i emailed u and either u or som1 else started yellin at me wtf????

hey im 13 and i know this ok listen up for those who are scared heres a great way to start...ok start at the clit. ok, take a carrot. peal it or what ever maybe on it will come of all over you. trust me. ok put it in water or oil, or something wet. lye down and put your feet on the ground/bed/whatever you are laying on with your knees up. squeeze your legs tight. take the carrot and rub it on your clut. the faster the more orgamisiums you make. and it feels great!

ppersonally i got interested in fingering when all my mates started doing it and i thought i would try it. i can get one finger up there but it hurts when i try to get two,, is this normal? ¦x¦

hey im 13 and i know this ok listen up for those who are scared heres a great way to start...ok start at the cl*t. ok, take a carrot. peal it or what ever maybe on it will come of all over you. trust me. ok put it in water or oil, or something wet. lye down and put your feet on the ground/bed/whatever you are laying on with your knees up. squeeze your legs tight. take the carrot and rub it on your clut. the faster the more orgamisiums you make. and it feels great!

i need help im fingering myself, but it doesnt give me that 'feeling' and more what should i do???

help wat do i do?????

Hi I'm 12 and well I kinda just LOVE that "feeling" but when i make my pitiful attamts to finger myself, I start to feel like a freak, a retard. I think of my bf and I'm like omg Zack would think I'm a freak what am doing? any advice guys? I don't hav a older sister or a sis at all! Can sum1 act like mine plz?

i'll finger u all and show u wot 2 do

guys try a electric toothbrush, don't use the cbristles just use the back

its not hard to finger yourself, it doesnt hurt and its not as scarey as you may think. i mean your going to have to do it some day unless you dont plan on having a husband and kids or sex at all. i just did it. it felt so good i didnt want to stop but my dad just got home, so..... (i dont want him to know).... you are going to have to do it sooner or later and sooner is better. prepares you for the sex feeling that you ARE going to have. it felt great trust me. i have a boyfriend, and trust me i wonder what he would thinkif he knew,.. guys know what they want, and hope for the reaction that they want.. you will have bult mor econfedince to do it with a guy then if you didnt. now im letting my boyfriend finger me cause i have no problem.

it is normal to feel a bit of pain at first but the more you do it the less pain you will get. also move your fingers around so that you can get comferable.

so i want to finger myself for the first time. dont judge me, but what is the best way to do it for starting out?

im 16 and i like to finger my self i do tht everyday it feels very good when i do it. i let my bf finger me all the tyme we do it sometyme in the car or on the bed.. is it okay to have ur bf finger you and maybe lick my vagina? plz answer my question!

i justed finished fingering my self.. how do i hit the g-spot?!

hi i am 13 and ive had a lot of boyfriends. my new boyfriend who i have been going out with for about a month seems like everytime im miserable hes happier. breaking up with him crosses my mind. Should i? b4 him i went out with one of my bestfriend, but he broke up with me. i havent stopped thinking about him. hes going out wiath a whore who keeps cheeting on him. i told him that and he beleived her. what should i do ? i think i still love him!!! Is this normal???? help me please. everywhere i go i think of him...

hey im 13 but im a dude IM me

lemonscentedman

Hia x

Dont worry Ive been fingered b4 its f9!
I'm 14 n i finger. Th mor u do it th btr it gets At first it takes a while 2 get used 2 but wen ya no wot feels rite its reli fun :D

I aint like a slut tho lol so don't judge me!

xxVicxx

o btw i startd fingerin wen i just turned 13... u can call me a freak but o wel
My mate has a vibrator n i want 1
Where do u get them from secretly and without anyone knowing?! xx

you go online and on like ebay or some place you can buy things you typeing vibraters and there u go... or go to vibrating toys.

btw it's normal 2 still fancy sum1 U wer his mate first which means its normal 2 wanna protect him and help him Just talk 2 him!
Iv fancied th sm boi for agggesss nw evn tho hes a complete twat sumtyms! LOL bt th fing is we are quite good m8s n tel eachova fings tht u tel MATES so i don't really wna ruin that so I aint told him I lyk him more!!
We get on really well but i don't wanna spoil what we have already...

it's better being his mate then going out and splitting up.. right ?! :S xx

This might be weird but what i do is i hump a pillow or something. Im 13 and i've like never fingered. I dnt wna like tell my family lol cos that wud be weird. Can i tlk 2 some1 please? My email is
punk_princess_64@hotmail.co.uk

I dno how 2 finger and ive looked on the net and i cnt find anything x

stop masturbating n get laid

hi i'm 15 i hve only beeb fingering for about a few months and he feels great i've even found my g spot and i think i've cummed acouple of times to but i'mnot sure how do i know

i know what you mean. and yea, your right. it is better.

HOW DO YOU MASTERBATE
AND WHAT IS MASTERBATING

is masterbating thesamthing as rubing your clit

WAT IS YOUR G SPOT

WOW i dont know any thing

If you have any tips on fingering send it to hottiegodgirl@yahoo.com

omg just talk to me , my sn is LJSHRTAgirl, an dtrust me i know a lot

yea u can talk to me ... my sn is LJSHRTAgirl.

Hey sweeties!
ok so like i havebeen fingering myself ever since i discovered what sex was which was pretty early
im me if u want to know my secret!!! it feels AMAZING!
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especially the newbies i can annswer any question
guys too!

hey help me!
i really want to finger myself but i'm really scared that it will hurt.

it feels soo good ie been doing it scince 11

what was the first time u tried it like?

hey i am wondering if i can have help on how to finger myself i havent tried it and i am 10 years old i think it will hurt if i finger myself....

I never fingered myself untill after I got my 1st period. January 06. I am 14 now. None of my friends finger themselves. (That I Know Of) I think it is kind of weird fingering myself but I hump thing which feels great. I finger myself once every 2 weeks. I don't know if it would hurt to finger yourself at 10. I don't think so. It feels great Though.

I am 14 and I want to know how to finger myself proe been properly. I have been doing it for a looong time now, since i was 8 and i always rub my cl!t and thats it. Any suggestions?

I have this big cudly toy that i dotn wnat amymore ad wen my mum i owt i hump it. it feels rlei good nd 4 oncve ive had an orgasm! you should try it it rlei works. but i ant push myself to finger myself yet i always try and have shown bits of me on vam but im afraid it will hurt. any suggetsions?

hey im sam
im 15 and male.
to be honest
my girlfriend is always going on about how she has tried many ways.
but trust me
fingers is the best way

it might stretch the hynem your first time, but not properly.

the thing is. the cl*terus is the main source of pleasure. once youve tried once finger, try 2, but dont just stuck it in and pull it out

stick it in, try and bend your fingers so they hit the sponge of the cl*terus
there is your solution/

well im 15 and ive been mastubating since i was like..11. i started out (and still do :]) with the whole "humping the pillow" thing. it really does work. something that helps might be watching porn (which i havent done since i was like 11 or 12 btw) or getting a little hot by watching something on reg. tv.

also ive fingered my self before, and seriously it doesnt hurt. i reccomend it totally as an alternative to sex. you just have to find the right spot...and wa la!

CAN SOME 1 PLEASE TELL ME HOW TO FINGER MY SELF I GO ON PORN SITES BUT THE DON'T HELP AND THE ONLY THING I CAN DO IS RUB THE THING INSIDE OF THE PUSSY

yup yup

okay this may sound weird but me and all me friends do it.and it feels great.
okay take your tv remote and lay on ur bed.whlie you have your clothes on take the remote and just move it up and down.after a lil while it feels so good.and you wont want to stop.

yeah im sure you kno how to do it the right way.

Hitting the g-spot isn't hard, just insert your 2 middle fingers as far as they will go, then once they are in, curl them upwards like a hook, think of it that way. So if your lying on your back, flat, insert, and then curl them towards the sky and feel around. You should find it straight away but if you don't have a feel around, and you'll get it for sure

I bet Ferrel is a dude trying to get girls to confess their stuff.

ok when and were..???

i need help wen i finger myself i feel no pleasure

heya im 13 n i started fingering myself but i dont no what to do once i have inserted as it doesn't give me much plesure i cant find me g-spot n i have tried humping thing please someone help me! dont judge me btw!

aye i have never fingered a woman but im a guy and my cuz tells me the a womans g-spot is a little ways in and at the top of the vagina but maybe some woman are diff i cant really see how tho

The best way to enjoy it is to sit on the washing machine while its working it works for me a lot, i hav tried it and i enjoyed it alot.

hi my name is devin im a 16 year old gyno dont be judjemental but if you need help i know what you need i can teach you how or just send you instructions my email address is xathos64@hotmail.com and yes im telling the truth
ps. im a guy

ok here it is now every girl develops a sex drive at a different age no two girls are the same and none fo you will experience the exact same things as the others the most important thing is to make sure your ready to start this because as soon as you cum once your going to crave that same feeling funny fact males can have only one orgasam at a time whilst females can have up to 47 in one session i reccomend that you use your middle finger and your ring finger to penitrate and let your forefinger pinky and thumb rub against your skin . while your fingers are in you curl them upwards just a little bit aimed twards your front side start out slow to get yourself ready the more you do it slowly the more relaxed your mustles will become and the less chance of getting hurt anyway once you feel your "loose" enough (and im not using that in a bad way) you can start to go faster or insert something else dont be scared if your privats twitch or you get wet its natural and just means your body is preparing for penetration via fingers or other object

herew are some good ideas for you to try if you dont want to work to hard:

if you can go to a conveinence store and buy a condom dont worry its not for a guy
ok now find a bannana cut 3/4 of the bannana peel off and put the condom on it with the tip of the condom on the part with the peel still on it roll the condom down and insert this usually only works with really green bannanas

#2 try a candle

get a long thick candle a lighter and a spoon heat up the spoon and melt the candle into a mushroom shape but not too flared out and you can use that and it works

some things not to use! THEESE ARE IMPORTANT
DO NOT USE A COOKED HOT DOG OR A RAW ONE if it breaks off inside of you it will get stuck and youll have to go to the emergency room

dont use anything that could hurt you .your probably saying duh but i had a girl who was using the handle of a knife and her parents walked in...long story short she has a scar on her leg now and example #2 a girl i had sat on top of a refridgerator and used a broom her parents walked in she jumped down with the broom insode of her she is no longer alive

oh and one more thing if anyone has questions or comments about me just ask or say im all ears and i wont get mad or anyhting

more things mutual masterbation is a great and fun alternative to sexif you and your bf want to feel pleasure together without sex i reccomend it plus youll get to know the other genders body in the process teach your bf how to pleasure you and have him teach you how to pleasure him you can both cum and it creates a bond dont feel bad if you cant get him to cum tho all boys are different and some boys take longer than others and if it doesnt work out you can just watch eachotrher do it at the same time as doing it yourselves it works its like live porn haha dont be nerveous more things you cann try are mock sex and if you want to know about it you have to post saying that you want to know ok well talk to you all later
bye

ps. im 16 years old

-Devin

i just take a mechanical toothbrush and stick it right under my cl*t (: it pleasures me alot.
im 12 turnin 13 in july so yea.

hey wuz up??well ive started fingering my self about da age of 13 im 16 right now..and for da past few years ive been having da need to have sex...but dont wanna loose my verginity to any guy..n e wayz well last night i fingered my self...it felt GOOD!!for the first time i put my finger inside me....but when i woke up i felt soo tired...and my throat hurts and my hips..but i dont think it has too do n e thing with this..well if yall have any tips or new ideas to try hit me up please...!!ooo and dont think im weird and shit..ok!!

wow i do the same thing but normally with a pillow and it feels soo good...and i also finger myself so i kno wat youhh mean

hi i am a 13 yr old girl and i want to finger myself i have tried but it makes me feel sick i need some help what should i do???

can sum1 plzzz awnser me

kimmy15-
i no how u feel i get tha same sumtyms.n wen my b4 fingers me i get the same n i hav 2 get him 2 stop.its so annoyin coz m reli enjoyin myself n hes luvin it but its almost 2 nyc!!!i find da best fing 2 do is just 2 keep goin,n u cum ldz n ldz.its amazin!!

Im 13 and I started fingering myself when I was 12. I only did it once or twice then, and stopped. Then during the summer I did it everynight. I started again a couple days ago and I found my g-spot. It's kinda weird but I do it to watching porn. When I hit my g-spot it feels so good and I start moaning, I even cum. I tried the pillow thing, but it doesn't work for me. Also, there's things that say to use two fingers, but it hurts for me to use two so i only use one.

well il tell yo uhow it fells from a little experience of my own it dosent fell like anything ts just annoying so do atempt it..

well fereet 3361 the way you masterbate is normal but for better pleasure i would tak on finger and circle around your v.a.g.i.n.a it fells better.

like my boyfreind wants to finger me but i never even fingerd myself. or anything & like is my pubic hair suppose to be waxed or soemthing & like when someone else is doing it wht do you do jsut sit ther or waht or make out , tell me ! :)

yah i woyld shave not wax just make shure theres no hair because its nasty and wat ever yo udo dont let him stick his finger up ur p hole kk

well when i 1st tried to finger myself i was.... 11 !? well i tried but i couldn't get anything. then a boy done it and it was good, after that i have been able to get pleasure and i do it all the time. just keep trying and u will get it. im bisexual so when i think of boys nothing happens but when i think of girls and my bitch i get wet and get pleasured easily. i do it every night now. and i have a dildo too, my bitch bought me it 4 my bday and its goooood!! my girl fingered me 2 and ive never been pleasured like that in my life!! boys aren't really worth a shit at doing it... they cant do it right!!

xXx

ther is nothing to m be ashamed of


u want advice cometo me i have good advice

can u get pregnat from fingering yourself?

can u get pregant from fingering yourself?

u know with that toothbrush thing do u put the part that goes in your mouth up your vigina or what?

do u want to finger me?

where do u get a vibrator oh and im 13 and im so afraid to finger myself but it sounds so fun thats y i want a vibrator lol

i need help cause i really wanna cum i think it will feel so good and i have the urge to have sex and i dont want to lose my virginty yet thats y i wanna finger my self or get a vibrator e mail me if u guys got some tips:)
ashton_d_13@hotmail.com plz help me

ok i kno im adding to mucc comments but i fingered my self 2 times and nothing happened i got wet but nothing else happend is that bad or what? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????

It's easy, just relax, cause the more relaxed you are the more loose your pussy will be, wait till your parents are gone, and look at some porno. Once your nice and wet, spread your pussy open with your non fingering hand so your clit is visible, your pussy should be a nice pink color. Then when your ready lick the tip of your middle finger up to the end of your nail, and slowly insert it inside. Get comfortable with that first and then slowly insert more till you can get the whole thing inside. Once comfortable use 2 fingers, and then try for a g-spot orgasm. Insert 2 fingers all the way and then curl them upwards towards the sky if you were laying on your back, and feel around, it should feel spongy. The rest is up too you, Have fun.

can u get pregant from fingering your self?please some one answer and can someone give me a good porno website???????????

You need the male's genetic material to become pregnant. If you are fingering yourself you can't become pregnant b/c a finger doesn't secrete semen.

Woah!
7!?!
Woah!

it kinda explains in the title sweetie
'fingering'
finger - in
kinda gives it away

Hey :D
Im 12 and i havnt started my period yet i sure I will soon hopefully.. !!!
Jus then i have this vibrating massager thing for yur back but it has legs because its a animal .. its used for your back to rub t and make yur back relax and on the legs the tips are vibrators.. so i put that on my private and thn i just feel like i wanna stick sumthing up me so i rub harder and then i have to stop .. i have never fingered myself before.. how do you?
im gunna try tonight but if i do try will i bleed?
i dont kno where to stick my fingers up too =S.. lol ..?
and how do you do the pillow thing?
thank you x

Hi,
My names Paradise.i have just become 14 and i am so horny.all i want to do is finger myself do you have any tips plz x

i just started fingering myself it feels really good.. but what the pillow thing im willing to try new things i just dont know how yet..

Don't worry so much about your vagina, especially if you are a virgin. Concentrate on your clitoris and the surounding neighborhood, your asshole if you prefer and your breasts.

It IS possible to break your own hymen, but usually not something you Want to do.

The clit is the best spot. Trust me (BLUSH!)

Tobra

ok i started a week ago and i have the same thing its like a viborator for your back i use that but yeah.. i dont know if i'm puting my finger in the right spot or what i dont know where my cl*t is i know what it is just where i have no clue

i think a girl who fingers herself is hot boy pt of view

darn u but it true i fingered my ex she said i wasnt doin it right

hey email me n i make u feel beter without the finger hotboy2367@hotmail.com

Hello, I'm new to this message board, but I thought I'd let you know somthing:

Do you have a back massage "pillow"-like object. Well, it helps me when I masturbate. Turn it on, and put the middle part (the thinest part)between your legs. (You can leave your pants on) See ya later

oh wait, it was already commented sorry

Nicole (kinkiibabiinikki) your canny sexy!

fingering your self feels good
i do it now.

Heyy Im In The Same Position Of U Snd Ive Never Fingered Can SomeOne Help Me

-i haventt strtd mi period
-itry and finger miself but there is like a wall
-imsexy
-i need help
-im13

what is cum

Where do you get a vibrater!

ill finger some of you girls and ya'll can suck and jack me off

well I read your story and I have to say it was a great story ashley I have a few ideas for you:

1. start fingering your self
2. touch your tits

and that's it

Hi, im 16, and have been in a relationship for over a year im male, i found this blog by accedent but thought it would be a good place of ask a few questions. im mainly asking the older girls and being a relationship may help.

i know my gf fingered herself lots before we started going out, but now we are going out i give it to her like every time i see her which is like lots, and i do it till she asked me to stop she is really horny. now this may sound stupid but now we are going out i dont like her fingering herself, i know its natral and everything but i give it to her so much etc. ive asked her about it and she says she wont and like a belive her but a few times she has told me she couldn't resist it and i get like a really bad feeling in my stomach and i hate it. am i being stupid or is it fair to ask her not to??

Hey im 12 and plz dont judge me by my age, I tried to finger my self but I think I did it wrong because I stopped for a day and on that day I didnt do it my Vagin* started to hurt what is wrong with me

what is masterbateing im 12 years dont judge me i havnt really tried fingerig me sen yet but i have used a vibrator it is so GOOD i love it please tell me what masterbateing means ta

mkk so here is the thing
im a thirteen yro girl
and i have fingered myself like one time
butit was b.c a boy was trying to get me to do it
and i feel like a complete sultt?
is that normal?
and my exbf keeps trying to finger me
should i let him?
does it hurt when a guy fingers u?

im a 13yor girl and i have been fingering myself for like 4 months
andi dont know if im doing it right
b.c it dont feel good or anything
like i have had a guy tell me how to do it
but i still dont know if im doing it right
and i dont want to have a guy do it b.c i will look like a slut
idk what to do
i could have a guy do it but im scared it will hurt or i will have sexx
doyou have any ideas how to make it fell "better"?
comment me back!!!
HELP!!

kk im gunna add you dude but i totally need help!

yeah i totally need like a bid sis
but i dont have one
and none of my friends finger themselves
so i cant talk them
and i sure and hell am not going to talk to my mother about it
does anyone know how to get wet easy?
it takes me hours to get wet
if you have msn plz add me
gymfreak_flairs@hotmail.com
yeah i know it is wierd but i dont feel like making a new one
if anyone could help i would love you

I think it is normal for you to mastibate, all you have is developed quickly and i won't hurt is you do it in the bath and shower. It is all A Ok.

hi im a 13 year old,
i have been masturbating since like when i was 8 er something i get horney really easily but i wanna finger myself soo bad. I have been pretending that i was fingering myself and this guy was jerking off on the phone all i just did was make noises and all but im scared it might hurt er something, how do you make it feel better instead of not pain and everythingg????
and give me real ideas not fake one's
hbjgds;

omgg my mom has a porno video and i think i might try something tonight idk
but when my mom leaves im gonna go run to her room and get it and play it in my room and blahh


idk i felt like posting another comment because i was boreddd lol

im a girl and ive fingered myself b4 but now im bored from wat i usually do i want new fingering advice

pleze respond

Yea i finger myself what i do is look on the computer and look at sex storys
OKay now here
think of someone eating you out
u know toungein ur vagina and your seatin and hes rollin his tounge around your clit and your just screammin more more more
now you slow down and ask hm to finger you and you cum.. Im not a guy and im 15 soo yea and also i herd of people humping bears they sit on the bears nose and hump it like a dildo
well i never tried it my friend and she sed tht the bear needs a big nose!!

Soo go have some fun witt yourself I kow i wil!!

Yea DONT JUDGE ;]

Rawwr, I'm 13 too, I only just learnt how to finger last night. I really wanted to know how to finger because some of my friends have done it and they said it was the best feeling ever. So, anyway, I was lying in my bed and I was imagining myself putting a finger inside. Imagining how it would feel so ncie and comfortable. So I got a finger and slowly started inserting it. I have been so scared before because I thought it would hurt but I promise you it doesn't hurt. Once I put it in I slowly started putting it in and out...After a while you kind of get bored of only using fingers so I decided to use onjects like pens/pencils etc. I started off with a thin paintbrush then I used a felt tip, eachtime the "Object" would get slightly bigger. I think I'm getting addicted lol, but trust me, I thought it would hurt but it doesn;t at all, my friends were right, it's the best feeling ever :) Give it a go. (Oh and if you're still a little scared use vaseline, [I use conditioner personally] But yeah, experiment)

No you can't get pregnant from fingering yourself, and you won't lose your virginity by it either.

And, am I the only one thinking this but can the boys please f**k off?

ok i have a boyfriend and i want him to finger me but idk how to tell him and btw im 12

i like to massage the the area around my pee hole in reelly fast circular motions. it feels great. and i still dont get how u finger urself but i like doing thu pillow thing a lot. it works.

oh n mia i think ur a little young to hav ur boyfrend finger u

but if u relly wunt him 2 just ask him. maybe he secretly wants 2

o n wut is a g-spot?

wow!!! first of all alll u girls are wayyy 2 young 2 even be having sex ur nuthing but babies right now not even old enough 2 look at porn let alone act it out..sum of u being 13 years old thats insane ...your having trouble doing this first off bcuz ur body isnt even able 2 handle such things like cumming or the full effect of a sexually feeling adult women sumtimes have probs getting off and there grown women..u shouldnt b worry about masterbating anyways at that age ur body isnt even ready 4 this 2 begin with ur a child act like 1 ...its one thing 2 be mature but ur not grown or even old enough 2 b having sex or masterbating ...jesus wtf is going on nowa days

hey, EVERYBODY.
im 16 and my dads best friend is named "cherry"and we hang out all the time.
hes 45 and im 16, and he fingers me sometimes.
is that normal??
cause it feel uber cool.

ooowww.
i rate like tha way that feels.

@ F**ckingcrazy,

You have no Idea. Nowadays the world is so f'd up that it's like the devil stole our brains. I'm 13 years of age and have been masturbating for a while. I'm male. It started out as me rocking back and forth on the carpet. Felt good. Then porn. Masturbation, you know. It is TOO easy nowadays to find the darn stuff. That and society practically encourages it. Just look at ads, on tv, on billboards. In your favorite bands fans myspace profiles. Google makes it even easier for the youth to fall. WARNING: If your a guy like me and you masturbate TOO much you will have a hard time going to school. You will find yourself looking at girls breast, and imagining them naked, or yourself mating with them. Try to do it a little, not much.



Also WTF?!?!?!?!

GIRLS MASTURBATE at 7-13 years???? WTF?? I had NO idea...

And yes like 80% of males masturbate...

60% of women masturbate...


Info is probably wrong but 'tis is the way of life...


Oh and I have this lust for horny chicks...

They are hot!!
Hmm...

SORRY TO RUIN YOUR PARADE iAddiction!! That being said...

Games are another horrible influence..
I'm ashamed that I've ever played gears of war.. What a mentally harmful, yet fun game...
Our world is being corrupted...
Challenges face us everywhere...
Are you ready to take them on??
*Play Headstrong by trapt and listen to lyrics*

kay , ur 16 and hes 45 now obeisely thats NOT normel its SICK . like wtf . is up with that
its gross maybe you should be useing ur finger ? huh like whats wroung with you like gross .

how do i do that pillow thing again?

you stupid fuck ur probaly 45 or somethin.
like ur sick you dont just tell girls that are way younger then you that . u sick man pervert

You're fucking crazy, are you bi-polar?

nope nope it feels greeeeaaaattttt hehe

i use a pillow n either rub it aganst me or hump it. fingerin is ok 2 but mostly rubbin is better

Thats the same as me lexigirl - i wud sonner rub than finger. gosh der is lots of tips on here lol

SMH1589 - No answers to your questions, so b4 u get frustrated - get some Albolene 'Cleansing Cream'. It was just used by actresses for removing cosmetics - until they discovered it is the best lube made! It is odorless, tasteless, colorless, non staining - just Fun. It can stay on your night table - handy.
[Don't use with rubber products.]

Put a little of it on thumb, index & middle finger tips. Pretend you are going to insert fingers - but don't. Rub slowly upward, over your cl*t. Roll that little marble up - & release. Repeat, rubbing up [& release] with each stroke. Then insert index finger just inside, while thumb bumps your cl*t. In-out, bump-bump.

Add Albolene to other thumb & index finger, & rub & pinch your t*ts - keeping both hands moving. Do what feels good - faster, harder... Use your imagination, too.

If you get this far, I'll help you find your "G" spot next. You really need to be turned on for the G spot fun, & this is step #1.

you can do whatever you want, just be careful that you donot hurt your clitoris or rapture skin walls. at this age the organs are not steady or stable , they are growing and due to this reason you can cause heamorrage or tissue rapture. rest its your body, do what ever you like but remember' access of everthing is bad"!

When i was 12 my friend did it for me. If ya know someone who can help you ask.

kinkified : (same age)Loadsa lasses do it and normally to hear that ur lass is pokin her self turns lads on .... just think about it this way... ur givin her pleasure because she is probably poking her self over you! x

It's oki I do it wen I'm off or on my period maybe if blood comes on yaw finger it's oki just go wash of with soap it's no big deal

Okaay humping stuff does not do it for me lol..to get a good orgasm you just have to be very relaxed and let your hand do what it feels it needs to theres no right or wrong way to masterbate and we all get our enjoyment diffrently i think you should just keep experimenting and find what feels good for you every body here seems to have a big thing for the eletric tooth brushes haha i use an eletric razor but take the top of it off so der jus this lump of platic witch vibrates bak and forth ..and also for those who want to masturbate in the shower i suggest you set the water to warm an hole the top of the shower head between you legs its a warm wet fast vibrating feelin and fanstastic hehe

If you haven't seen one, the best place to look for one is on AnnSummers.co.uk, they have loads for you to look at, it will give you an idea of what they are like.
Xx

Yeah I agree,i've tryed humping a cushion and it didn't do anything for me but i guess everyone is different! :)