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How do you know if you are a lesbian or maybe bi?
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I am attracted to boys but the first guy I ever kissed I gagged when we were kissing because he kept drooling all over my face. I wasn't attracted to him, he just didn't seem attractive. I just wanted to know what kissing was like so I figured whatever.
I like seeing guys and I am mostly attracted to hot guys but when i see girls I think they are really pretty too. I've never wanted a girl though... but sometimes I wonder if her boobs are smaller than mine or bigger and I wonder if she has shaved down there... but I would never want to see a girl naked, I just feel curious sometimes.
Some guy told me to make out with a girl and I would know but I really don't want to make out with a girl.
Is it normal to wonder about girls or does that make me a lesbian?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (16)
ecman (12742)
2008-01-17 12:03:29
Yes it is quite normal

I hear of a lot of college girls experimenting with each other sexually. If you are not a lesbo you probably won't do it again.

Just find a guy you really like. Then kiss him.
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Sergeant_Cheese (12866)
2008-01-17 12:36:18
if u like men and women ur bi, if u like tits, ur a lesbian
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nearly (10533)
2008-01-17 12:39:54
You give no idea of your age so kinda hard to give a precise answer. I am guessing you are a teen and that being the case, you are quite normal. It is your hormones running riot. Don't worry about your kissing experience. Some people just cannot kiss full stop. Happens to both sexes to. You sound level headed so I doubt you'll get 'bullied' into something that isn't right for you.
Good luck.
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flikr (10636)
2008-01-17 18:18:39
your a horny bi girl, you just need to lick some pussy then you'll like it
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dynozark (13950)
2008-11-13 00:36:03
do a little experimenting, it's okay to be a bit scared, but just do it and THEN you can judge waht you are
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OMGitsMEEH (18286)
2008-12-07 00:08:05
It might just be the guy. If you're young it's normal to experiment too. I'm straight but I have kissed a girl before but I would never do anything else 'cause it just doesn't appeal to me at all. I say try kissing a couple realy hot guys.
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y2k2012now (19471)
2009-01-17 22:01:27
I think it's ok. Humans are sexual beings and it's ok to have those thoughts and feelings. Personally I believe that everyone has had those thoughts in their life but they were too afraid to admit it.
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mansk777 (20251)
2009-02-14 23:49:36
thats the problem with female you gals dont have a flesh compass like men do hopefully ur bi wouldn't that rock
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geckopaws (20496)
2009-03-19 22:33:22
No that doesn't make you a lesbian its only when you are in a relationship with a female that you become a lesbian you are more bi curious. Which means you are curious about girls in a sexual way. Like what they look like down there or boobs.
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gorillaz_09 (21714)
2009-04-07 07:22:53
Research has suggested that it is quite normal to have homosexual tendencies it is just whether or not we choose to act on them - personally (and I am aware that I am in a minority here so I hope I don't offend anyone!!) I don't think anyone is born gay but rather that we are all born with an impulsive attraction to both sexes although generally we will find the opposite sex more attractive. If you don't think you are bi/lesbian then stick with guys - experimenting can often do more harm than good! But rest assured it is normal.
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deamond (5379)
2009-04-07 21:40:37
I'm gonna say that that does NOT make you a lesbian
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somethingclever (22014)
2009-04-16 00:47:31
All females compulsively compare themselves to others to see how they measure up, it's just something we do. I think that when you view someone as attractive, it isn't always sexual, it can be admiration.

It sounds like you are not quite sexually mature yet, it doesn't have anything to do with age, just hormones. You're discovering who you are as a person, it takes a while...

If you look at a girl and you want to do sexual things with her, you are most likely a lesbian. It it's just curiosity, you're probably straight.

Hope I helped...
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dheelovesherself (22295)
2009-04-24 08:42:54
ur deff. not a lesbian becuse yu obviously like guys; ur juss curious thats normal;; when yu done with boys and want to be with yours girls you;ll know it
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WolfBagels (22836)
2009-06-02 18:12:47
It's normal if you gagged when you kissed a guy you where not attracted to. If you where a lesbian and you kissed a girl you where not attracted to you would gag, simply because you just don't find them sexualy attractive. Mabye it's better just to be friends if there fun to be with. It's ok to be curious. It's natural. I doubt if your a lesbian if you don't want to see a girl naked.

Toodeloo.

~T
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mdht7 (27210)
2009-08-18 18:01:26
it is completely normal to have sexual ideas or feelings toward both genders but just because you kissed a guy and you didnt feel anything doesnt mean you dont like men. remember, if your young, your curious about these things.
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fantasy61009 (29431)
2009-10-07 09:51:25
If you don't compare to other women then you're a lez. So you're probably not.
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