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I'm having issues with my marriage. When we try to talk, we argue. He says I start all the arguments, and asks me if I like making him mad, that I should just drop things and not bring them up.
My husband is paranoid that I am going to leave him for someone else. He has told me he doesn't like people looking at me. He doesn't want me to go anywhere unless I take the kids with me because, and I quote "It would make it harder to cheat if you have the kids with you". He doesn't like my friends because "they take you away from me". He is constantly saying that he hopes people die who take my time away from him.
I've never cheated on him. I am all over him all the time, and he says he is "not in the mood". I get turned down for sex all the time.
His friends tell him how lucky he is to have a woman like me. He says he loves me and would do anything for me.
Am I delaying the inevitable? Is it normal to feel like I have no choice but to go on without him?
My husband is paranoid that I am going to leave him for someone else. He has told me he doesn't like people looking at me. He doesn't want me to go anywhere unless I take the kids with me because, and I quote "It would make it harder to cheat if you have the kids with you". He doesn't like my friends because "they take you away from me". He is constantly saying that he hopes people die who take my time away from him.
I've never cheated on him. I am all over him all the time, and he says he is "not in the mood". I get turned down for sex all the time.
His friends tell him how lucky he is to have a woman like me. He says he loves me and would do anything for me.
Am I delaying the inevitable? Is it normal to feel like I have no choice but to go on without him?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (6)
Chrissy_23 (20191)
u shouldnt stand for that! IF HE DOE'SNT trust u y stay with him. i would tell him if he doe'snt talk to u u'll leave!
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Jim_Pfoss (19247)
Your marriage will never work if you are looking for an excuse to leave. Find an excuse to make it work.
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verppisces030990 (20454)
if he's accusing you of cheating, then its very likely that he's cheating... don't stay with him.
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dianas2ds (21691)
being that i'm in almost the same situation you are in giving advise wouldn't be good I too am uncertain of my marriage but i've have a gut feeling my husband is cheating he rather talk to a stranger than talk to me and sex what the heck is that?! so I feel for you it sucks when your in love but not loved back all i know is if my husbands leaves he won't find a woman like me who has put up with his bull all these years he will find some young thing who wants more than he can give I say lets all kick jerks to the curve LOL I wish you all the luck take care
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sansimage (27771)
@: Jim_Pfoss
i like this
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sansimage (27771)
That's too bad, the irony is that his paranoia about you leaving him is actually what's driving you away. I'm sorry... you should try marriage counseling.
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