how is virginity determined

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what if i guy whos a virgin goes to jail and gets banged buy multilple black dudes does that make him no longer a virgin?

Virginity is determined by whether you have sexual intercourse with the opposite sex. So, homosexuals can have anal sex and still be regarded as virgins. You can also have oral sex and still be regarded as a virgin. A p-e-n-i-s into a v-ag-ina is what determines whether a person is a virgin or not. Anal sex is excluded from defining virginity.

Women do not necessarily bleed the first time they have sex, that is a myth.

yeah well what about the guy in prison getting sexually abused by the black dudes?

I disagree Stargirl. Sexual Intercourse is defined as penetration of the vagina by a penis. It does not include anal sex. A virgin is a person who has not had sexual intercourse.

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He may be a virgin physically but not in his heart because he was raped by a group of black men so it makes it a little different

A man can't lose his virginity to another man. This discussion is getting rather absurd.

well what about in his heart, he didnt want the group of black guys to have sex with him so i think when he finally has sex when he gets out on his own then it will be special and in a way him loosing his virginity finally

obviously there is no positively correct answer to this. Of course it's possible to be sexual without having sex, but personally, I think sticking the penis in a hole (vagina, asshole, mouth)qualifies. To say that homosexuals, male or female, are virgins because the sexual act doesn't involve penis vagina is ludicrous.

A woman can't lose her virginity to another woman. A man can't lose his virginity to another man. Virginity is a term that applies to heterosexuals.

Sorry if I offended any homosexual viewers, they are exempt from being termed virgins unless they engaged in male to female, penis to vaginal penetration. End of story.

OK so if a virgin asian guy goes to jail for life and gets banged by a group of black guys on a daily bases and he starts to after a few years love it and he starts making other asain men his bitches does this mean the day he dies 60 so odd years later behind bars hes dying a virgin?

this is a battle of opinions, but I think that virginity is relative... I mean, I think women lkose their virginity to being penetrated vaginally by a man. I think that if a man has anal sex, he is losing his virginity if its him who is the penetrator. Jus' my opnion.

Correct, the Asian guy would have to penetrate a vagina with his penis to lose his virginity. His anus or another man's anus, or a woman's anus don't count. geeeeeeeeeeez

yeah well hes in prison so would it be possible to break the rules for him so he wouldnt die a virgin 60 so odd years later, you cannot just slam the door on him like that he is in jail for life and is having mulitiple black men raping him analy and oraly think about it and put your self in his shoes

Main Entry: 1vir·gin
Pronunciation: 'v&r-j&n
Function: noun
Etymology: Middle English, from Anglo-French virgine, from Latin virgin-, virgo young woman, virgin
1 a : an unmarried woman devoted to religion b capitalized : VIRGO
2 a : an absolutely chaste young woman b : an unmarried girl or woman
3 capitalized : VIRGIN MARY
4 a : a person who has not had sexual intercourse b : a person who is inexperienced in a usually specified sphere of activity
5 : a female animal that has never copulated
( http://webster.com/cgi-bin/dictionary )

If you want to look at virginity as a term, Sissypuss, look it up in the dictionary. It mentions nothing of heterosexuals, or MEN for that matter! Virginity isn't just a term dude, it's an experience that differs from person to person. I'm done.

Yeah, technically (in a traditional sense), only females can be virgins. But (these days) the concept varies from person to person. There is no true answer to this question anymore.

Virginity is about sex, it is penis/vaginal sex. They tend to be of the opposite gender. Please tell me just once in history, a famous novel, a movie, anything where a man claims to have lost his virginity to another man or a woman claims to have lost her virginity to another woman??????????

I agree with stargirl, SEX is SEX. It dosen't matter how it's given or received. If you have any sex, you are no longer considered "pure" or "untouched". You f*cked somebody PERIOD.

Stargirl, sisophous is correct end of story. I believe you have not yet received a response from him because he tired of arguing with a stubborn donkey :/

so if you have oral sex your still a virgin right???

of course you are still a virgin if you have oral sex even anal sex (in your but) what defines a women as a virgin is when her heiman is broken which is located in the vagina so you can have anal sex and still be a complete and total virgin

well if u have anal sex.. and ur hymen didnt pop ...then YEa i guess u still r a virgin .. so u can have tons of anal sex ..and on ur wedding nite ... ur man will think ur a virgin lol lol THATS SOOO COOL !!!

okay okay okay, so when I first had sex, my hymen DIDN'T break. actually, it has never broken! Does this mean I'll be a virgin for the rest of my life?!

virginity is about doing the dirty! plain and simple, gender and hymens have nothing to do with it. I'm so stubborn because I'm SO RIGHT

The physical criteria for virginity seems pretty ambiguous. Isn't the most powerful and fascinating aspect of virginity the innocence? What else matters really? Bragging rights?, i.e. I wasn't penetrated in this specific way for this specific reason, so I have viginity status???

Isn't a person who abstains from vaginal intercourse, while engaging in oral and/or anal sex, only clinging to a false sense of morality? Surely innocence is lost when sexual intimacy occurs.

Not sure, I'm not a virgin.

So homosexuals are forever virgins?
Yeah, no.
Sexual intercourse... guys can have sex, easily, together.

sexual intercourse
n.

Coitus between humans.
Sexual union between humans involving genital contact other than vaginal penetration by the penis.

you suck!

that must of had happened to u b4 @ chrisUFC.

Got into this a little late ut find it odd that you continuisly talk about going to prison and getting it up the ass from black guys.

I wonder what your hang up on that is. Then you bring in asian guys. This thread got really screwed up.

QWell it has been a few weeks since any one has said anythig about it so I guess the issue is settled.

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yes she will bleed. yes it hurts but shell like it. and anal sex will not pop her cherry. and fingering yourself can take the cherry but it depends.

I'm a girl. I lost my virginity to a girl, and that's the end of it.

I don't care how you see it, that's my own personal take on it.

Virginity is when I have not brutally rammed every orifice of that female's body.

What about the guy in prison being banged by the black dudes

Hmmm I would agree with you that you lose your virginity if you enrole in any sexual activity with another person (Hetero or Homo) but I would say masturbation will not lose your virginity.

"virginity" is being pure and unspoilt. I'd say that it takes 2 people to lose your virginity.

stargirl's totally right on this one. and I only bled a little bit the first time.

How about a hermaphrodite who has a penis and a vagina? If shim actually penetrates shis vagina with shis penis, is the shim considered a virgin or not?

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why black dudes?

yes, you bleed... and it hurts for a week.... but i lost my virginity to a man that was extremeny well endowed.. so that could have something to do with it.

Everyone is different!!! Yes u do bleed sum women bleed so lil they don't even notice sum bleed for awhile it doesn't stop for a couple hours!!! It does hurt...and again everyone is different in this too!!! Some vary from lil pain to extreme pain!!! U can break it through masturbation!!! Just stick a hairbrush, carrot, or cucumber up there if ya wanna break it before real sex!!! This will help cope with the pain too!!! And virginity isn't based on HYMEN cause many girls break it before they have sex, and some don't break it until they have 5 times!!! And if u have to have vaginal sex to be a nonvirgin!!!

anal sex takes away virginity, you can still get pregnant, stds and a cock is violating you..... you can also get pregnant from giving a handjob, and afterwards touching yourself.