I've been dating/flirting with this guy. We've been sleeping together for almost a year. At first I just liked him and it was just sex and chillin( friends with benefits). when I first started to really like him he said he didn't want a girl friend, I respected that and let it go. we had about 3 fights and stopped talking for a week to a month, but when we would see each other we had no choice but to call or say something. Straight tension and soon it would be back on again. We split one time and I tried to date someone else, but couldn't get my mind off of him and ended the relationship. Then I realized I was in love with him. Since then our relationship has gotten deeper since I told him I liked Him again (months later) instead of just sex we had deep conversations, had ARE own spot( places we would park the car and talk), falling asleep in his arms( first guy I actually SLEPT with)and cuddling. Sadly our relationship is on the DL though we do a lot of public things still though. our friends( we hang in a group, 5 guys and me) don't know about us, hes a very private person and isn't one to talk about what he does or who with. Thinking I'm telling him something he already knows since we are all pretty tight. I told him the other guys were trying to talk to me. He was furious! They have caught us before(kissing, he doesn't care who sees nor do I)and to him he shouldn't have to say anything that its a mind your own business thing and if you think we're talking why would you even try. All the guys are my friends and now I know that even though he isn't my boyfriend he doesn't want me to hang with them alone individually. (turns out stuff has been said about me when I'm not there. Guy talk pretty much if you get the idea) He got mad that one of them touched me (flirting), but didn't say anything till we were alone. I realize now that he treats me like his girlfriend even though I'm not. Yet I do the same with him. I don't even date because I'm with him.( nor does he, after we hang out he always says "don't do anything you shouldn't" and I say it back) He says he doesn't want his friends to take his girl, that how can I say I like him and I act the way I do.( I do flirty things not intending to seduce the other guys but for him and sometimes I don't realize I'm doing it because of my personality) He doesn't trust me or the guys and Hes not ready to choose between his friends and his girl. I said I was cool with it and nothings changed but I'm not. I wanna tell people I'm with someone and go on a real date and experience a real relationship. I love him and I wont rush him but how long am I suppose to wait? Is this normal?