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How much porn is too much for my husband?
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Ok-so here's the deal. I've been married for 3 years and with my husband for 4. We have a great marriage and a great sex life. I knew my husband had some dirty magazines when we were dating and I made him throw them out. I've hated the thoughts of him looking at porn. I always felt he was cheating on me in some way. Or that it meant he wanted those girls and I wasnt good enough. It hurts me to think of him looking at another woman like that. Well the other day I found some pages he was looking at on an auction site and he denied it at first. Finally admitted it was his way of looking at free porn without getting caught. We've talked a lot about this as I am obsessed with it currently and I'm trying to make sense of it all.

I have come to the realization that it is normal for men to look at porn. I've even agreed to watch some with him sometimes. We are creative and we have toys we use and I've let him take pictures of me before, we're pretty open to each other sexually. I want to know how much porn is normal though and when I should be worried. He has agreed to magazines and movies, no more internet as I feel that opens a door to things that should not be opened (chatting, meeting people, etc) even though I generally trust him and believe he's a good man that wouldn't cheat on me. He says he looks at it once a week and usually "pleases himself" up to three times a week. But he says he would be happy to look at porn for five minutes every single day. Is this normal? Does this lead to addiciton? If he masturbates more does it lower our chances of conceieving? There has been 3-4 times in the last few months where he has had problems "finishing" and I wonder if it's related to this....says it's because he's tired. etc...PLEASE HELP!
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My husband is the same, though i have mentioned to him my concernand also some times told him that i got horny when he wasnt here and masturbate so i wasnt so wet when he was and to excuse me. though he lauged but i know he realized that there are times when you must hold your sexual drive to have the best and sensual meeting with your partmer. i guess tease him behaveing the same way... let me know how you go! it is working for me.
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