hurts when having sex

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my girlfriend took a long time to get used to it after a while it gets easier how long have you had sex for

Id say your girlfriend is too tight because you dont really turn her on.

I'd say she's tight because your dick is so small your not stretching her and she's faking the soreness so she doesn't die laughing at your tidgy nob.........

I think this is a case of an undeveloped vagina being bombarded by some pederast knob

maybe shes a slut in disguise

enjoy her while shes tight its not goin to last forever and u wont always be able to get one as tigh as her

reason is likely nothing to do with your size or an inflated ego but rather her lack of lubrication. if you use condoms, get a WATER BASED Lubricant, KY jelly. Never use a petroleum lubricant if using latex condoms. they will break, i learned the hard way. if u are not using condoms, then petroleum jelly best. the only other scenario is she has not broken all 4 folds of skin inside the vagina. i had this once with a girl and could not penetrate her. all 4 folds of skin must be broken before she can get pleasure from sex otherwise it is extremely painful to her. these folds of skin usually get broken with or without sex, most just naturally break them. lack of lubrication is likely the culprit and will resolve it, not your inflated, overexaggerated penis size. hope this helps.

DONTHEMAGICJUAN IS RIGHT...U BETTER ENJOY HER WHILE SHE TIGHT CUZ WHEN DAT SHIT OPENS UP IT FEELS LIKE UR DICK IS IN DA AIR LOL SERIOUSLY

I agree with sisophous, its the natural lubricant that makes it fit and feel better.. taste better too :P

I will open it up think yourself lucky

use lube.

Fuck more often.

try fingering her or giving her oral sex before having sex, this should work

get her horny be4 sex...then she wont be tight...also ur dick might be too big

Sorry to add such a comment but I just think you should know...a girl being sore during/after sex is a major symptom of sexually transmitted infections. I think you should both get tested as soon as possible - just in case.

lube it up my man!

Coming from a female, if a girl is turned on enough then her vagina will be wet enough to fit an average size penis, or even a little larger than average. It does not sound like she is wet enough, or used to having sex. Some girls take much longer than others to get used to having sex on a regular basis, becuase they do not have as much elasticity.

Use lube, and be gentle.

She will be used to it later
don't do it fast

ycoming from a gurl, i think you should use foreplay much, much more;
*get her really horny*
*make her wet*
*use oral more*
*maybe use lube*

take this advice and fuck her gently, a gurl loves that.. :)

unless she sleeps around alot or pops out a kid she will always be tight her being tight is a good thing if she wasnt she wouldnt make any noises and you wouldnt get any real pleasure out of it so stop complaining its a good thig oh and if shes complaining of being sore thats a good thing too that means you did your job and fucked her brains out kudos to you

hi wala akng masabe... cge lang enjoy your sex.....

i hate to be the voice of reason as an introduction to this site, but this happens to be a topic with which i am woefully familiar...
sex hurting is not only, as one person pointed out, a possible indication of a sexually transmitted infection, but could be something else entirely- there are a whole range of diseases like vestibulitis, vulvodynia, and more, some of which probably haven't even been discovered yet, sadly due to the fact that most doctors are quick to say things just like- she's prolly not aroused enough, or, you just need more lube... now, these diseases can be serious if left untreated, simply because, the longer you cause pain, the more the nerves freak out, and the more your brain creates pathways... the more those pathways become super highways, and then your brain feels any sensation as painful. now- vestibulitis is an inflammation of the glands in the vagina, vulvodynia is a neuropathic disease )neurons in the brain), no one knows what causes it, and both are so commonly misdiagnosed it's frightening.
the thing to remember? it's prolly not you, you should be really patient, really slow when you start, and yes, use lots of lube, but also stop asap when it starts to hurt- there are other ways for you to come, and if your any kind of man at all, i sincerely hope you don't feel "big" about the fact that you're hurting your girlfriend...and finally, help get your girlfriend a patient doctor who's willing to look at any myriad of possible causes...

kit- a lady who's been having painful sex for ten years, and only had a diagnosis for five...

There are many, many reasons. First of all, maybe you aren't preheating the oven BEFORE sticking in the turkey. If you aren't sure, look up foreplay tips. Also, ask her what SHE wants you to do to her, everyone is different and maybe you aren't pushing her buttons right.

Secondly, it could be an STD or she may have a problem with her glands or something else. Try the foreplay thing and see what she likes first, and yes, BEFORE you ever have sex with someone, get tested for STDs, better safe than sorry. If after that she is still having problems, talk to her about seeing a doctor, then go with the doctors advice. It wouldn't be that you're "too big for her" and just because she's still tight, maybe she's doing kegel exercises and you don't know it. If you don't know what those are, look it up, btw, guys can do these as well.

do her over and over till she likes it

lick-n-lube dude