Husbands - Toys or No Toys?

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my bf doesn't want any in the bedroom either. maybe it is.

some men dont like it but there is nothing wrong with it and a man should know how to use them on his partner for extra fun

Well, I can tell you, from what I've read. Some men don't want toys because they feel that they will have to compete with them. Let's face it, nobody wants to feel second to a rubber or vibrating toy. Try working into it. Maybe have him play with your as* and put his finger in it, to your comfort level. Believe me, you will love it. Have him pull your hair and smack your ass, remember to tell him how hard to pull/smack. Then try something like anal beads or butt plugs. Then try moving on from there. By the way, a man's G-Spot is in his ass. Though most men might find it a little gay, if it's a woman doing it to you with her finger, that doesn't seem very gay to me. Or you can use anal beads on him while giving him head. Pull them out slowly as he ejaculates, he'll scream his head off. Just some words of advice. Never actually tried it myself though.....but never rejected the idea either. My butthole's a little shy, lol. But my wife loves it!!!

All "toys" should be left in the play room. Approach him with a tickle-me-elmo next time.

Oh, we do the hair pulling, asssmacking, fun romp in the room, but I'm just a little curious about what else we can do.

Let's see, my wife and I do role playing, anal beads (on her) butt plug (on her) pretty much everything is on her, lol. You could always massage eachother before you actually get down and busy, candles are great. Look things up, there's lots out there.

i have never been asked to use toys in the bedroom. it THAT normal?

Im not a big toy fan altho me and my wife have used a few things.no man wants to compete with a 12 inch arm thick dong.and most of us are selfish---we rather a woman work on our dongs than pleasure herself if we are present with her.maybe use a banana--something he could insert in you and then eat might get him interested in it.

Just get something like a small (3-4 in) vibrator to begin with so it doesn't intimidate him, and also have him use it on you as well as using it on yourself in front of him. That will be a gateway for more toys in the future.

Actually, a very pleasant experience is a popsicle. And the good news is that you can both lick it!

I need to buy some popsicles!

I like to hang my head off the edge of the bed and have him pleasure himself with my face. It would just be nice to "suck and fuck" at the same time.

I've told him I wish there were two of him. Toys just aren't the same.