i am bisexual...i need tips on telling my parents

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im bi too .. i think... bah watever but u should just come forward, if ur mother loves u she wont care

Get up all in her grill and yell it at her like this "Yo biatch, I love me sum bitches pussys"

@ Havoc

Have you turned black Havoc

Drug her, then rape her using a strap-on. Then for your post-rape pillow talk say "its okay ill do dad dad next".

thanks for the advice...which is actually helpful unlike some of these assholes...but thanks hunnie!

dude11111 and havoc...you both have no life if you have nothing better to do than write dumb shit like that...i'm on here looking for real people with real brains...DUH!!!!

just go in the living room and say mom, dad im bisexual and if you have a problem with that fuck you...

not that hard

Start with the dad and if he is a real guy he will think that its awesome and if your mother truly loves you she really wont mind and if she does she will get over it in time

fyren...thank you for your serious reply...i apriciate it...my fear is if i do that one or both of them will diaprove and kick me out of their lives and the lives of my siblings...i'm so torn becuase i've always been a good child...and never kept secrets...but this one that i have kept is killing me inside...

Have sex with a guy first to see if u really are and if u turn out to acctualy be bi then tell ur dad first if he disaproves then forget telling ur mom but they wont kick u out of there lives no matter wut. if they really lov u that is if they dont then run away before they kick u out. im serious.

they are your parents! they should love you no matter what. so if i was you i would just tell them and if they dont like it tell them its your life and that you should live and do w/e you please.
good luck!

UMM YEAH. THEy'RE YOUR PARENTS. KEEP IN MIND THOUGH THAT THEY MAY NOT LIKE THAT BUT WHO CARES? YOU'RE 20. ALSO, IF YOU FIND THEY ARE HARSH, W/E BUT IN A WHILE THEY WILL PROBABLY WARM TO THE IDEA AS THEY REALISE THAT YOU ARE THEIR DAUGHTER. THAT IS IF DISNEY TAUGHT ME ANYTHING. GL. NORMAL. NEXT.

What I don't understand is why, at your age, tell your parents ANYTHING about your sexuality?

I mean, if you just want them to see you with a guy, find a gay friend to hang with.

If you MUST tell them something, by your own admission, you are Not gay, you are bi. A world of difference in the minds of some.

I wish you well. :)

Tobra

This always gets me. Why do you have to tell your parents?

What purpose will it serve to tell them about your sex life? Especially that your "bi". I could see maybe if you were gay. But even then, why do people feel that they need to inform everybody of their sexual preference?

Did your parents ever discuss THEIR sex life with YOU?

well good for your mom- you aren't gay!
I would not tell her... and those same sex 'friends' in your room would remain friends to her. But if you are having some fruity guy with heels and a mini spread eagle in your bed every night...i would tell her.

its none of their business, just have sex with who you want to

Maybe if you give them a visual idea of your sexuality by asking them to participate in a family orgy with both mommy and daddy.

Well those issues are the price of honesty.
They may get mad it also sounds like from your description "i don't want to date" implies maybe your actually lesbian which is even more scary for mom and dad and you. It is up to you to be honest with yourself you don't have to tell them unless keeping the secret hurts you inside? if so you might want to tell them. But if you still live at home It may make things really miserable and they might kick you out. some parents are irrational like that, so have back up plan. Your dad might be okay because he doesn't want guys having sex with you anyway. Mom might freak out! But, I'm probably about your parents age and most of my friends might not care but i know a few that are ass backwards and would freak! It comes down to you, can you handle the truth? I'd say yes! they won't kill you, your their kid but they might be mad for awhile. I think parents sometime take things personally and may feel like it is their fault this is happening which implies they are bad parents when they are not because they don't understand it. If you tell them reassure them it is not a reflection of them or their parenting but something inside of you.


Good Luck

Then again stink bug has a point too!
Peace

just tell them hell if they still love you theyre loyal and if they dont still love you fuckem why care about people that dont care about you. its neither rational nor logical. im shocked that you or any person would have to feel trepidation about explaining to someone who you are. if you feel the need to share share. and ive read that your bi and i dont even know you but i love you. why because youre being honest.

I really never quite got this.

Why do you have to tell your mother you are bi?

I don't ever recall straight people going up to their parents to tell them that they are heterosexual so why should you tell your parents you are bisexual?

Why is your sexual preference anyone else's business but your own and those involved in your sex life?

thankyou...i really do take to heart the really helpful answers i get...also thanks for the support. it's nice to know that there are still people who can like a person for that simple fact...they are a person. god bless!