Ok, a few weeks ago, I was extremely upset at my girlfriend. She told me she was going to a frat party and didn't seem to ever think this would upset me. She also didn't seem to think anything could go wrong. So I was telling my friend about this through a text message and I told him I thought my girlfriend was "being a naive c*nt." Anyway, a week later or so, my girlfriend was going through my phone and checking on my text messages. Why? I'm not sure, but she did it and saw what I had called her. She was pissed off, as well she should have been. I tried explaining to her that I said that out of anger and didn't mean it and that it was just something I said without really thinking about its meaning. She threatened to break up with me but said she was going to give it another chance. This was all three weeks ago. A couple days ago though, she said she has tried but since she found out what I called her she said she couldn't feel the same about me. To me, this sounds like a load of bullsh*t. Now, she says she wants to take a break for a few days, not seeing each other and only talking to each other a couple of times a day on the phone. I love this girl and don't want to lose her but I hate when she puts me out in limbo. She has done this a couple of times now, what should I do?