Ok if I know I'm dreaming I can control what happens in my dream. Lets says for example I'm dreaming I'm on an edge of a cliff and there is no way to escape what ever is after, well if I realize that I'm dreaming I just think that since its my dream it would only be fair that I had wings and could fly away. Can anyone else do this or am I just weird like that?
for a few days this was great as like you i could control my own nightmare. but beware!! after about a week of this happening constantly my nightmare evolved into a state where i knew i was dreaming, but could no longer control the dream, but worse than that i was also trapped in this dream unable to wake up.
anyway i grew out of it eventually but i do still sometimes know when i am dreaming, but thankfully this thought usually wakes me up now.
like last night, i was dreaming and i had a feeling something bad was going to happen, and then a bunch of bats came and shrouded my friend.
ahhh i love dreaming :P
I've never been able to do it myself. Unfortunately.
i had no clue that other people had this problem that i have lived with for the majority of my life. Except on some nights when i am not even in the dream... some nights it just plays like a movie.. and its very scary... because it is always some sort of disaster. i hate these dreams and i never speak of them to anyone. sometimes it is a dejavu moment where bits of my dream happen in real life at different times, sometimes weeks later.
But i have noticed that when i have a dream where i AM in it... i literally HAVE to control what happens.. especially in nightmares.
For example... i have this recurring dream where i am walking the halls at a school... the doors are only 2D so its like they are painted on the walls, i cannot leave the hallway... i can only go straight.. While walking, this girl comes up to me... she has the most blank expression, its a bit scary. and she walks up to me and slowly presses against my chest.. and she keeps pressing and pressing.. until i can quite literally FEEL the pain of my diaphragm compressing so tight.. and she whispers something but i have never been able to know what she said..
But i learned soon that if i moved out of the way in my dream... i wouldnt be hurt by that strange girl.. but she is angry about it when this happens, she screams at me once and then i usually wake up and cant go back to sleep.
I sometimes wonder if this dream means anything.. it doesnt always happen of course, it did happen back in december for nearly 2 weeks every night. it usually doesnt run like a marathon like it did back in Dec, i get this dream every once in a while only. Its less and less lately.
Durring nightmares, i am in complete control. the scariest thing in the world in my oppinion... if i dont move, i will be crushed or burnt or god knows what. Its like a video game... all of my surroundings are pre-planned... not by me, or possibly subconsciously.. but they are so real, and whats more i am real. its very interactive.
....hmmm long and off topic..
Well anyway thanks for not being afraid to tell your story... it helped me feel a bit less unusual.
take care.
Anyways I on't really dream anymore...so can't do it, but when I do, it sometimes happens.
it sucks that sometimes i forget it's a dream after
I do it as well.
you're so lucky!! :/
This is called Lucid Dreaming I believe.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lucid_dreaming