I think I may be falling for a 16 year old. I'm 20, in college, dating other guys (who are my age and older!) and yet this kid I have known all my life has grown up so much since I've been away at school. Our families are close, so he and I have always had a lot in common, it is very, very strange though. We've been talking a lot lately. I would never do anything with him, but it makes me wonder about the future (when we are both, um, legal.) And honestly, if he ever seriously made a move, I wouldn't stop him. That scares me. What do I do? I can't avoid him, but I can't tell him how I feel! Do I wait until we're older? Is four years really that much of a difference?