I can't cum during sex.

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what i use to masturbate is a back massager! I use the more intense one because i've been using it my whole life, but i swear on my life you will have an orgasm if you invest in a back massager, like the vibrating one that has levels of strengths/power of vibration. All my girlfriends in my whole life that i have introduced this to i swear never turn back. We would have slumber parties and take turns masturbating! haha! were all totally straight too, just being kids. lol...but as far as it goes for your man...i have a problem too with oral, but recently found my knight and shining armor who makes me cum every way!!! It's true ladies....THERE'S ONLY ONE FISH IN THE SEA THAT'S OUT THERE MADE FOR YOU, and same goes for the other fish ;0). What im saying is, my man im with now, we both have felt as those God made our 'parts' to fit perfectly for one another, so sex it's great! As far as the oral...you have to teach the man how to please you, kind of direct him through it, (while doing it) not in an awkward way of course, be more supportive and suggestive ;0). Now, for me, i like my man to (i hope this isn't too verbally visual or against violations) lick around, in a circle motion, my cl*t and use his finger at same time BUT! he can not, and i repeat, he CAN NOT be vigorous, he MUST be patient, heavy hot breathing through his nostrils helps too, makes it feel hot down there. It's difficult with all females, i don't like being orally pleased the same way every time (circle motion). Other ways i tell him to do is instead of licking upward, lick downward (with finger/s). Try some of that....o and please take my advice on the back massager...TRUST ME YOU WILL NEVER GO BACK TO TRYING YOU WILL ALWAYS SUCCEED AND CLIMAX!!!!!!

to cum while masterbating is simple... I have the problem the author has, I can't cum with penetration, no matter how long we go at it... For your answer racegrl22, you just need a good vibrator and some privacy. You might want to consider using movies as well, at first until you learn your body well enough to know exactly where your "spot" is on your clit. It took me years of practicing with my hand to be able to do it that way but with a vibrator it happen quickly. I now use a back massager from Rite Aid (no worries about the batteries dying).

To kitten28 if u get back to me i can help you seriously i have been with 2 women including my current partner who had the same problem as you. and after i showed them some techniques and gave abit of help they both now reach orgasm very fast materbating and can also orgasm during sex. please get back to me as i want to help its ashame to see so many women not having a deep penetrating orgasm from sex they are so much better and more intense than a clitoral orgasm from my experience watching and feeling the muscle spasm on my man bits lol. but in my opinion this is all due to the male not being experienced and not really having a care for learning what he needs to, to help you get there its not as simple as saying i cnt orgasm during sex. the male has to do the work to make it happen, he has to know what to feel for on the end of the penus and know how to poke it if that makes any sense. i was quite willing to take time with my 1st partner to help her which made me realise it was just what i did that made her orgasm and if men dnt try different aproaches inside and jus wana get on an have their fun without a care whether uv been satisfied then thats just selfish get back to me and ill explain what your partner needs to do when thrusting its all about the positioning of the penus when its up. i have some great tips for masturbating aswel which will give you great orgasms. hope to hear from you or anyone else that wants help coming from a man who actually took the time and learned to please the women before myself i DONT disappoint

what i use to masturbate is a back massager! I use the more intense one because i've been using it my whole life, but i swear on my life you will have an orgasm if you invest in a back massager, like the vibrating one that has levels of strengths/power of vibration. All my girlfriends in my whole life that i have introduced this to i swear never turn back. We would have slumber parties and take turns masturbating! haha! were all totally straight too, just being kids. lol...but as far as it goes for your man...i have a problem too with oral, but recently found my knight and shining armor who makes me cum every way!!! It's true ladies....THERE'S ONLY ONE FISH IN THE SEA THAT'S OUT THERE MADE FOR YOU, and same goes for the other fish ;0). What im saying is, my man im with now, we both have felt as those God made our 'parts' to fit perfectly for one another, so sex it's great! As far as the oral...you have to teach the man how to please you, kind of direct him through it, (while doing it) not in an awkward way of course, be more supportive and suggestive ;0). Now, for me, i like my man to (i hope this isn't too verbally visual or against violations) lick around, in a circle motion, my cl*t and use his finger at same time BUT! he can not, and i repeat, he CAN NOT be vigorous, he MUST be patient, heavy hot breathing through his nostrils helps too, makes it feel hot down there. It's difficult with all females, i don't like being orally pleased the same way every time (circle motion). Other ways i tell him to do is instead of licking upward, lick downward (with finger/s). Try some of that....o and please take my advice on the back massager...TRUST ME YOU WILL NEVER GO BACK TO TRYING YOU WILL ALWAYS SUCCEED AND CLIMAX!!!!!!