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I cant get a boyfriend!
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Im in gr.10 and i never had a boyfriend in my life. it really kills me coz i see my friends and theyre all having sex with their bfs and they have all the experience. i get really sad and lonely all the time and i dont really see what the problem is. my friends are always telling me im hott,sexc etc,, so i dont know whats wrong. can some1 pls help me?
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paulii (4043)
2007-01-03 00:14:46
do u want a bf. or do u want one coz all of your friends want one. whats ya gut telling you ?

dont be in a rush to do anything
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crepsley (5069)
2007-01-03 01:31:44
@: paulii
its sorta both
i get really depressed coz i want someone to be with me
i want someone to hold and kiss and care about
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sparky84 (5044)
2007-01-03 01:43:27
I think youre being a bit melodramatic youre only young dont worry about it it will happen sooner or later im 22 i ve had gf's but have never really been in love :(. i know this is something you might no want to hear but you get being used being on youre own just try an enjoy the freedom in 10 years time you could be married with three kids with no time to youre self.
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Pyroboy (5071)
2007-01-03 01:56:49
right dont worry the time will come 4 u if anything all the ppl who u c have sex witther bfs have aids and going to get pregrante plus there kind of whore
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jismcreme (3723)
2007-01-03 08:23:16
All girls of your age seem to be in a hurry to have sex because there friends are doing it. Be your own person and do it when youre ready. Most of your friends will regret it when they are older.
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dragoon188 (5130)
2007-01-07 02:24:06
If your horny and you cant wait, just go home and masturbate!!!!!

YEAH!!!!!

Sorry about that. I couldnt resist, oh well, are you fat (not just overwieght, cause thats fine, but acutally FAT) if so tyr going for somone who is in a grade younger than you, try a freshmen.
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kittenkuddler96 (5551)
2007-01-28 20:43:04
do u flirt alot with them iv had lyk 15 bfs mi hole lyf and im 13 7th grade so i can giv u alot of tips of getting guys were makeup hott clothes and flirt flirt flirt!!!
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Shaka_Zulu (3938)
2007-01-28 21:07:19
i only really loved a girl when i was 16. i felt like i had wasted my self on all the girls i'd been messing around with before cos she was a virgin when we met.

you be that special girl. the girl who saved herself for someone she truely loved.
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ckfun99 (5738)
2007-02-06 09:14:23
I'll be your boyfriend and I'll let you ride me too. I bet you have a good tight pussy
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santi (5734)
2007-02-07 01:47:29
don't be in a hurry to have sex
wait for mr. right to arrive
there will be a best partner for you who will love you as you are
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DuFFy (5782)
2007-02-08 08:44:34
your virginity you will only have it once it is gone you'll never have it back don't do it coz they are
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frogbond007 (3414)
2007-02-08 21:13:22
well, are you shy?
possibly take more chances, meet more people, mabe hang with some guys sometime and get to know them well
if you become good friends with some it can easily go a lot farther, however they might be nervous on taking hte first move, so you might have to initiate it.
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2inchpenis (6083)
2007-02-21 21:17:26
if ur fat ...lose weight
if u can't dress.. buy new clothes
if ur stupid... get educated
however... if ur ugly.. ur just screwed
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RedSpadeMADZ (5596)
2007-02-24 15:59:14
give guys head
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Breezy (6041)
2007-02-26 21:27:42
I got my first serious boyfriend in grade ten.
Don't be in a hurry, especially for sex, wait for it to be special because you only have one first.
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im_cool (7001)
2007-03-28 15:00:42
has no one learned from the 40 year old virgin?
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undergooger (7292)
2007-04-06 15:28:53
do you want a boyfriend or do you want one becoz ur frinds hav 1
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undergooger (7292)
2007-04-06 15:30:07
do u want 1 coz u want attention? not every1 gets a bf straight away but in time every1 will and u will, just chill.
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Omofi (7083)
2007-04-11 23:43:25
Adopt a dog
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queer_normal_queer06 (5947)
2007-04-14 23:32:43
yea...im in a same situation...definetly knows how that feels.
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NikNak (7664)
2007-04-16 18:42:59
Chiiillll out... Go to partys, meet boys, see if ya like any, if you do- sorted... And dont think all us guys are jus out for sex, I love my girl to bits, we been together nearly a year with no sex jus coz she aint ready yet...
Jus dont be pressured
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mindfreak (4990)
2007-04-22 02:37:54
don't rush it. it'll happen when it happens.
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scboo (8271)
2007-05-09 14:22:16
Im Irish so I dont no ur whole grade system, so I dont no how old u are, but seriously my friends all had Bfs wen i didnt but u just gotta hav fun while ur young and single u never no wen mr right will come along, but just enjoy being young free and single!!
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omgysf (6049)
2007-05-09 14:26:46
That's like your parents telling you that you are beautiful and skilled in many different things.

They kinda have to say it. There is no truth in friendship.
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sexymofo15 (7615)
2007-06-05 18:46:18
Im the same exact way im going to be in ur grade next year and i havent had a bf ever, the same thing with me my friends have bfs even the not so pretty ones, and people say im really pretty and i used to think what's wrong with me?? but my dad gave me great advice, and its not cus he is my dad or anything but a lot of guys are afraid to ask out beautiful girls because they are afraid of rejection, also ur friends u say are always having sex with their bfs, they like them mostly because they give them what they want sex, and don't think that that's the only option because ur friends are being percieved as sluts, and around the guys they are "free sex". THe right guy will come along that really likes u, dont rush. :)
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feelssogood (8676)
2007-06-05 18:55:50
you have a cute personality if i wasnt 16 id date you
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feelssogood (8676)
2007-06-05 20:20:36
oh shizzle your 15 ill date you if you live near me
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FoobiPhi (8415)
2007-06-05 22:49:53
you might be fat.
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flair21 (8841)
2007-06-16 23:19:14
do u talk to alot of guys?

u might get a bf when u approach them first the most and talk alot and not shy

idk a little bit of advice
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randomusername (9223)
2007-07-06 10:27:39
yeah im pretty much the same age with the same prob - except im not exactly depressed! whats ur msn - dont tell me if u dont want to of course!!
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DykeLykeMe (9348)
2007-07-20 14:48:23
just be mo' of a ho'

that will help fo' sho'

or have low standards like all my friends
they seems to have fun with the ugly people

you can do it~
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nicelongone (10445)
2007-09-07 12:40:34
your to fat
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charliens (10602)
2007-09-15 00:09:53
its not that easy to find love.. and you might not for awhile yet. you will tho, it just takes time.
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JackTheSnipper (10789)
2007-09-24 10:58:23
If you want a boyfriend, stop wasting your time online talking to people who haven't been in a heterosexual relationship since they were breastfed.
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lookingforlove013 (11497)
2007-11-02 14:07:52
if u want a bf, im willing, i go to Reigate grammar school, im 14 and also in yr 10. Im up to anything that u want to do

i live in reigate

interested?? ill also send u a pic of me or ill let u see me on webcam so u no im not a pedo.

email me and add me on MSN

jaydasemaj@hotmail.com
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tommyboy (10553)
2007-11-04 22:55:09
oh hell don't worry about it I have a friend thats never had a girlfriend and we just graduated... but I guess he's getting better.. the last two parties we went to he was making out with two girls and get this! they weren't even drunk... so your time will come girly just make it a lot more meaningful then he did... find a nice boy... wait until marrage to have sex...
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