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I cant get over him no matter how much he hurts me
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Well, There's this boy, his name is Brett. He lives like 4 hours away from me, and he's friends with some people i have hung out with before when i was down where he lives. I got his msn and we hit it off right away. We were both attracted physically to eachother but then we started to really like eachother for our personalities. So one day i called him and it was amazing, it brought us so much closer. We talked pretty much every night for the following 2 weeks. And even though i never met him in person, I began to actually fall in love with him. He told me he loved me too, he said he never felt the way he felt about me for any other girl. So for the following month we continued talking, and loving eachother lol, but then out of no where he started being all rude and grumpy with me, it was like he didnt even like me anymore, even though he said he did. So everytime i called him he would be really rude to me and make up excuses and lies so he wouldnt have to talk to me. And when i hung up the phone i felt like crap everytime. But i still continued to call him. Sometimes when i woke up in the morning i would promise myself i wouldnt call him but i would end up doing it anyways. I dont know what it is, i just love hearing his voice and talking to him no matter how bad he makes me feel. Is this normal? Or am I just stupid and cant get over him?
Do you think it's normal?
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smartpatrol (2293)
2006-07-16 22:37:48
You sound fairly young to me and I think someone has told him something about you which may or may not be true. There has to be a clear reason for this. Speak to people who know him and try to find out why and then ask him about it. At worst he could be a true prick and just showing his true colours
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Leetwrck (2788)
2006-07-17 03:55:52
=\ Mayb u should find out the truth.. but the harsh truth always hurt.. I got something liek that happening to me.. but meh.. remember that no1 dies virgin cause life fucks u up everyday =\
but meh.. hurts.. love is a bitch.. and u cant make it ur bitch =\
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Anonymous
2006-07-17 08:31:08
Friends don't treat their friends rudely and make them feel like crap!!! He's obviously not interested in you anymore and he's to immature to tell you! Stop calling him!
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jokelley1266 (2798)
2006-07-18 01:34:09
Stop calling him he is sending you all kinds of signals and for whatever reason he's is not interested anymore. If he is he will be calling you if not then move on it will make you feel better about you, you do not need someone who does not take your feelings into account. Good Luck
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Granna (3243)
2006-08-15 09:08:31
Believe me, I have been there. Sometimes we just "get stuck" so to speak and obsess over the loss of a person. This is very tough! I grieved over a boyfriend for over two years but finally was successful in getting on with my life. The best thing I did was to find plenty of activities to keep me busy. I went to dances and made new friends. Finally after I went on with my life he began to seem interested in me again! I learned my lesson on this guy. He was bad news for me and I finally saw the light! Why did I wast so much time and energy on someone who let me suffer so much. He is now out of my mind and thoughts and I have moved on. It takes a lot of work and determination but it will happen. Meet someone new and do things that you like to do - do anything - to focus your mind on new things and you will feel better. Good luck!
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Backhair25 (3254)
2006-08-15 18:54:40
Maybe he's upset because your not putting out. Cyber or real.
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kayleigh (3321)
2006-08-20 13:38:51
heya. dont worry i no exactly how you feel and i did not get over my ex for a verylong time, and it hurts ya reli bad! th best thing 2 do is say 2 yaself "i dont need him" n try and get over him , it will be hard but atleast it will make ya feel a bit better!
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Consequence (3660)
2006-09-09 03:07:17
Guys love to throw "I love you around" like a piece of shit in the gorilla cage. It means something completely different to a woman than what it means for a man. In other words dear, someone sexxed him before you would.

Don't talk to fucking strangers. GOD DAMNIT who still has parents?
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x.princess.x (3703)
2006-09-24 17:37:17
ask him get the truth - good luck x
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milte (4365)
2006-12-07 12:43:00
i hope he leaves your sorry ass in the street.
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Mimir2 (3348)
2006-12-07 13:43:36
Youre talking to some complete bozo who isnt man enough to be honest to you.

His discrepancy between his words and his actions is a definite proof that hes full of shit.
People who talk one way and act the other usually aint worth much.
So in reality youre probably better off without him.
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