I care too much

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i think your normal, its nice for once to see a man actualy has fealing but because yu hated the world so much you just didnt care about anything and it is a shock to suddenly start carin again, you will come around soon :D
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It sounds like you're out of the depression finally.

Emotions? What are you, some kind of pussy?! Guys are supposed to be lobotomized, you prick.

i don't have feeling, cause feelings are gay

the only feelings i have are the feelings that i want to KICK SOME ASS!! YEAH MUTHERFOCKER THAT MEANS YOU!!!

that wasnt actually directed at anyone.

Well Eccentric you know you have emotions too, guys do have emotions but no one admits to it, especially to other guys. So any guys here that say they do not have any emotions are just trying to act tough, and the only times they don't have any emotions are when they are so incredibly depressed that they can't actually care about anything.

@flikr

Kind of ironic, how you say you dont have feelings cuz they are gay, dont you think?

@PooLTOY

Kick some ass, pound some cunt, both good options.

amen

soooo fake i know how people like you work and my main emotions is angry at you this post pissed me off

This story is true.

I think it's really sad that some of you guys come on here, and let out all your anger by name calling, trying to humiliate other people, or just by being complete assholes. Do you think you are cool by talking shit and making yourself look like you might have an anger problem?

If you think you are never going to cry or feel sympathy or guilt as a grown man then you are stupid, every sane human being male or female has moments in their life where they experience loss and grief, or other hard and troubling times in there life. You are not protected from pain just because you have a dick.

ok to the poster, in all seriousness: what you are experiencing is either the onset of psychosis, or a spiritual awakening similar to that felt by many people at some point in their life.

Regardless of which one of these things it is, what you should do is act upon these feelings and begin to work (as much as you can in your free time) to alleviate these conditions in the world. That will be a path in your life that could bring great benefit to you and others. Good luck and I hope you act on your impulses

and i actually misspoke when i said this was felt by "many people". the reality is that most people never feel this. you may be a chosen person.

i consider the people who come on here just to act like assholes and humiliate other people to be as far from being "men" as possible.

I have too many problems to be the chosen one. and that implies that there is some sort of god out there and I am a firm atheist. I would want to act on my feelings but i am still underaged, since I was 11 i hav been in depression, im 16 now, so it is a little difficult.

pringletot, i dont think god particularly chooses anyone, you've chosen yourself. thats what i meant.

LOL.

i meant to reply at PooLTOY.

What do you mean by I chose myself?

I want to help people, I guess if I turn someones life around then it will make it seem like my life is worth something.

yeah, you've laid out a possible path for yourself. you can see a way to make your life meaningful and rewarding.

its not about god choosing you. you are chosen to perform good works when and if YOU make that choice. for many, this is not even possible because quite frankly they dont give enough of a shit about anything.

your caring is a gift to you, if you use it to create meaning and fulfillment in your life.

I used to not care. maybe Ill go back to that eventually, but theres still a number of years before I can do anything significant. But for right now I really want to help people, and I care way too deeply about shit.

Well.. Some times Yew can Change real fast like that.. i mean I do it almost every day Where I got from one extream to the next in 2min flat.. so it's probably normal

Dude Your a Freakin Jerk-Face.. GUYS HAVE FEELING'S TO
If you didn't you'd eather be InHuman OR Dead..
UNDERSTAND

I understand how you feel, even though I'm a girl. It's pretty sad to say that growing up, I had the emotions of rock. I was depressed and angry like you. Seeing pictures of the Holocaust or the aftermath of the atomic bomb in japan, or even columbine didn't do anything for me. 9/11 didn't even phaze me until five years later. I think that's when I started to finally feel sympathy and become empathic. I couldn't stop crying, even though I know of noone who was involved in attacks. Now my heart goes out to the people lost in Hurrican Katherina, the Earthquake in China, and everyone who is suffering or is going to suffer.
It's normal to have feelings. I'd be more afraid that I didn't have feelings.
If the feelings become to overwhealming just do a few little things.
Money's tight in the economy, I know. But maybe whatever change you have lying around could go to the salvation army or the red cross, or to the kid selling lemonade around the corner because he's saving up for a new bike.
If you have any old clothes that you don't one. Donate it. I'm sure someone out there would be grateful for it.
Hell, if you have any books you don't want, there are some organization that will take your donated books and will deliver them to children in third world countries. (exclude porn and dirty mag. please :D)
These are just little things, but for the person you're helping it means a lot.
It'll make you feel good too. :)

Also, sorry for all the typos. :D

I hate these feelings, they are so annoying. Guys do hav emotions, no matter how many say they dont, but they arent anywhere near as strong as girls, but mine seem to be very strong and I hate it so much. Right now Im 15, if i was living by myself I would donate but while Im living with my parents the only charities I only help are the ones my parents ask me to help, I recently donated $60 to an organization helping breast cancer.

That's pretty amazing. You're still young. Nothing is perment. Except for taxes and death. Who knows, maybe you're hitting puberty. I heard that it can be hard on boys. ^_~. I hope with all your new feelings, that you feel hope as well. Just think! You're living in the era of the first elected black president! Try not to let all your emotions run rampent. Perhaps yoga (though that seems a tad girlie, sorry) or mediation. Play a sport might also work out a lot of your frustration. I play volleyball and bad-mitten. I'm terrible, but when I play I concentrate on nothing but the game.

Thank. We are in the era of the first elected black president but does his skin colour really matter? The only way it would is if he tries to prove that black people can be good presidents. My brother does yoga, he got this fitness program that is meant to be amazing and it requires yoga, he says it is IMPOSSIBLE. and theres no sport that I really like playing.

I know I sound like a teacher, but why not concentrate on school work? Or a hobby? I love to watch television so what I do in my spare time is write up screenplays and scripts. You're pretty mature for a fifteen-year-old and I agree that his skin color shouldn't matter. You're growing up in a time where everything is more tolerable and diverse. When I was growing up, I was always mocked for my race. My mother even had a man spit on her. For me, seeing President Obama win was something pretty awe inspiring.
ps. tell your brother to stretch out his muscles before he does yoga so he doesn't sprain anything. I made that mistake once and couldn't walk straight for three days.

I cant concentrate on my school work. I spend 8:30-3:40 doing school work, when I get home I don't want to do any more, I do most my homework at school so the only thing I need to do is my AP world history reading.

I'm sorry that you were mocked for your race, and about your mum.

My bro does stretch his muscles, but he still says its impossible.

well i think its good that you've started caring about these things and it's kind of a myth that men should not be emotional because deep down we still are I think. Im pretty emotionally detached though I just don't care about bad things that are happening at all and I don't care about peoples feelings much either but sometimes I do care a lot for some reason maybe I'm changing like you

HAHAHAHHAHAHA!!!

"Im a guy too, we are not meant to have much emotions. "

Good one, but true, look at chimps, there males hold most emotions back at all times.

But your problem? Hmm, I've had it, I lost it, not sure how, sorry.

Their^

*palm-to-face*

im the same way i care about everything and everyone too much and not much about myself and ya i cant watch the news either it sickens and saddens me to see whats going on in the world

Well boy, you have to relax and not frustate put cucumber slices on your eyes and put relaxing music.

Always remember, an unreflected life is not worth living. Embrace your new outlook. If something bothers you about the world, try to change it.

Can anyone say emotional rollercoaster with testosterone?

Just do not kill yourself. You will be fine. There is so much more going on around you than to be sad. If you want to help them, crying isn't gonna accomplish anything. Or are you just feeling sorry for yourself? If you wanted to do something, you would.

Will you marry me??.lol

I can't say either way if it's normal, however, I have gone through the same thing. out of pure curiosity I would love a response from you on this...

Do you ever feel like maybe you're a martyr or rather you need to be one. Let bad things happen to you and take on others problems so that maybe they can be happy? Also, do you ever have a sense of arrogance in thinking that you understand the world more than others and therefore "forgive" them for making mistakes, or even conscious choices to do bad things?

Maybe I'm just weird as hell, (which I admittedly secretly am) but just know that it would mean a great deal to me if you or anyone for that matter honestly responded to this.

Yeah actually, you described how I feel most the time quite well.

Well I don't need to be a martyr but I deserve to be one.

Well sometimes I don't forgive them for making mistakes I just get annoyed at them, though I try not to show it...unless I'm online.

You are a teenager & that can be, as someone said, an emotional roller coaster. But that aside, the level of empathy for other people and concern about social injustice you are beginning to care about at a deep level is really very commendable.

Ignore the shallow and sarcastic responses from the immature boys here. You are growing up to be a fine young man.

Im like that. I suppose its kind of a good thing, if you put it to use. N

Thank you, that does mean a lot to me. I am now not quite so surprised by these emotions and I have been going onto a suicide chat room and I have been trying to help people there with their problems.

One woman has even said I saved her life...twice, by talking to her and being really kind to her on MSN, and I've only been talking to her for about a week.

I am kind of scared right now though because she said I was the person that stopped her from committing suicide on 2 separate occasions in about a week, and now I am leaving for 10 days and so if she gets suicidal again I won't be there to talk her out of it, and so I am just so fucking scared right now.

News these days is sad, so i dont watch it :(

its called empathy.
also sometimes in the right state of mind your brain won't filter your detections of people around you so you feel what they do uncontrolably
but once you realise this you can master it.
its normal to have empathy but you can't let those emotions run your life

If you or anyone else are feeling suicidal please, please go to your family Dr or a health care provider right away. That is serious and there is help available.

wow im surprised to here that an guy can have feeling and emotions!! in my opinion i always thought that guys dont have any type of feeling what so ever, but im happy to here that a guy out there actually cares about making a girl cry! and even crying for a situation like that.TO ME GUYS DONT HAVE AN SWORD OF FEELS!

maybe your just on the rag.

Women LOVE a man who cares so much about the well being of others. Your normal. HUMANS who don't express these feelings are abnormal. Other men probably feel the same way, but in the role of a man, refuse to let anyone in on their emotional-ness.