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I consider Oral sex losing virginity?
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Well I remember I wouldn't have oral with this guy because I was and still am saving myself for someone special and he said oral isn't sex but to me it is and I wouldn't feel right calling myself a virgin anymore if I did. In a way I kind of believe viginity is just a state of mind, but yeah, is it weird that I consider Oral sex, sex? Like losing it?
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snowyd
1 year, 5 months ago | pl
Mental virginity yes, physical virginity no. Why were you going to have oral with a random guy if you are saving yourself anyways?
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ToddStellar
1 year, 5 months ago | pl
@: snowyd
This person didn't say that it was a random guy, it could have been a long relationship.
Though I agree; mental, yes, physical, no.
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Shy-Ann
1 year, 5 months ago | pl
I agree, it wouldn't be called oral SEX, if it wasn't sex. Don't do something if you are uncomfortable with it!
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LightningTechnician
1 year, 5 months ago | pl
Nope, it's not normal because it's not the same thing.
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Dizzee
1 year, 5 months ago | pl
I see 'losing virginity' as your mental virginity, not physical. Though to most people this wouldn't be losing your virginity, but to me it kind of is in a way. Sorry that I couldn't help more.
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Lynxikat
1 year, 5 months ago | pl
@: Dizzee
I agree with you, actually.
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Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
1 year, 5 months ago | pl
You can still be a virgin and get eaten out.

However if you want to wait... you have the right to say "no".
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Phoenixflareable
1 year, 5 months ago | pl
Yeah, I know, but I can't feel pure and take myself seriously saying im a virgin if I did. Vaginal sex isn't the only sex, tell that to gay men and lesbians.
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DudeUrFuglyXox
1 year, 5 months ago | pl
losing your virginity means you have actual vaginal sex with them, oral sex does mean something and its still sort of a big deal but your still a virgin if you do it.
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Shy-Ann
1 year, 5 months ago | pl
I meant I agree with whoever asked this question
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bleach_baby
1 year, 5 months ago | pl
It's much more normal than not considering it real sex. If you give a guy oral sex and he doesn't reciprocate you're being used, and if he does reciprocate it's more intimate than sex! So I agree.
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Anime4
1 year, 5 months ago | pl
I kind of understand where you are coming from. I mean anything sexual seems impure to me. Like I'd lose my innocence if I do anything sexual with someone. Don't do anything that you feel uncomfortable doing. In my opinion, you are not really a virgin if you do have oral sex.
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UnrecognizableMan
1 year, 5 months ago | pl
I think you are absolutely right. And him trying to convince you to do oral kinda misses the entire point of saving the V.
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Dazzled
1 year, 5 months ago | pl
The thing is that losing your virginity is physical, not mental. But, it's your choice, do whatever makes you happy.
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Dozis
1 year, 5 months ago | pl
You are out of your mind. Blow me. Blow me I said! Okey tell you what: I think kissing you or so much holding your hand would be losing my virginity and be an incredible waste of my time. Keep a safe distance I won't risk catching rabbies. What if go down on you first? No?well. What are we gonna do then?play a boardgame?
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InvadingPotatoLeader
1 year, 5 months ago | pl
ask yourself this: have you ever thought about having sex with a potato?
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