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I Denied A Relationship!
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A year ago I had a relationship that didn't last for long.. almost 1 month. I was misunderstood and It was such a horrible experience and certainly a dark spot in my life. He was a new friend but he got closer to me as a friend too quickly so he can ask me out. And I was so depressed that time cause of certain circumstances and I thought I loved him and admitted that I like him alot when he asked me. However, he thought he had me already and I found myself in a relationship.. He started acting strange, careless and blamed me for things I didn't do so it didn't work out. And we're not even talking at all. Even I heard that he said awful things about me and that I was running after him from the start. He started ignoring me and so I did.

A year later .. an old highschool friend said that he heard that I was in a relationship with that guy. And I laughed and said No.

Now.. I don't know if this is normal to deny reality that I don't accept.. Even if that friend knew about it .. It wouldn't have changed a thing. Is it good to lie in this situation? Just wondering..
Do you think it's normal?
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Chill_Pill (25078)
2009-07-06 19:18:32
Sounds like you weren't really in a relationship anyway. Believe me most relationships in high school and below are fruitless learning experiences, with a small exception. Move on. I would deny it too. It sounds lame. Good Luck.

~Peace~
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4w04se (25055)
2009-07-07 12:16:57
@: Chill_Pill
alright then.. well I feel relieved when I deny it since it wasn't something big anyway.. Thanks for replying =]
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kanachan (29928)
2009-10-18 07:47:09
He was a jerk! D:
and yes it's only normal. I wouldn't admit being in a relationship like that too if I were you.
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Ollieo (19003)
2009-11-15 04:07:54
What lie? You were not in a relationship with the guy at the time she asked. Nor were you obliged to recount what was an awkward failure of a short lived attempt at a relationship.

We all have these things that don't turn out well. You needn't feel bad about it or that you do not have to tell anyone anything about your private affairs. They are yours and no one else's.

Privacy is an idea gossips totally don't get.
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