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I don't want to like her

Here is my problem, I have this friend who is a chick and we have been friends roughly 3 years she is my best female friend and I have never thought of her as more then a friend. For ages she has had a boyfriend who is abit up himself but an okay guy I'm friends with him aswell. These two argue all the time and have finally broken up and for some reason I am starting to get feelings towards this girl not strong feelings but feelings none the less. I hear she likes a new guy and she has been spending ALOT more time with me and always lying on me and hugging me. I wouldnt be suprised if she likes me but I doubt it there are plenty of guys who are more boyfriend material than me. Anyways my problem is that I don't want to like her I dont even know why everytime I think about us as a couple I snap myself out of it and call myself an idiot and say it'll never happen. I DONT WANT TO LIKE HER because to me she is no more than a friend and I dont wanna ruin that yet I still have slight feelings and it just doesnt seem possible that we can be together anyways does anybody else have this problem or have any advice (sorry if this is repetitive and long lol)
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Comments (7)
try to imagine her taking a dump, that might help
roflmao. thats sound advise man. haha!
tha runs! afta a bottle of halapenos
lol!
yes, it is what's happening to me nowadays. go where your heart takes you! you wouldn't like her if you didn't wanted to, eh?
Crushes arent that huge of a deal. I have essentialy the same problem 2. Problem is Its been there for 4 yrs. Now im in highschool and she goes to a diff school. Take the shot cause if u dont, That gap will always be there and it sucks alot cuz i wish i asked her out. Sometimes i see her and she hits on me BIGTIME but for some rezn i cant take that step despite my IQ being at 160 and all
As long as you do it right, even if it doesn't work out, it won't fuck up your friendship, you know? Similar things have happened to me a few times, and I gotta say, it's usually worth it to take the shot.
If you like her then get with her. Treat her right and show her what a d-bag he was, trust me, you won't regret it. Try to learn more things about her. You might like her even more. You like her for some reason. There's got to be a reason those thoughts creep up in your head.