I'm a 20 year-old male and my feelings don't work. I don't care about anyone and I use people to get what I want and never feel remorse for it. I don't have money but I have looks and it always gets me what I want. My family means nothing to me but they support me so I pretend to care. I'm with a girl who I do not care about but she has money, says she loves me, and finds me irresistable so I get whatever I want out of her I just have to act like I love her. I lie to her about what I do but I can cry my way out if she catches me. I have friends but I would never do anything for them I just go along with them for the free ride they always give me.
Is it normal for me to act this way even though I never had anything handed to me? And will I be numb like this forever?
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Just remember, you were born with your looks; you didn't earn them. So, the benefits those looks confer are automatic; they don't require effort. But, without effort, you are going to be stuck in those limited circumstances where you can use nothing but your looks. You won't be able to grow. And, as you get older, your looks will fade and be less effective.
If you learn things and develop yourself in ways that have nothing to do with your looks, you will learn to respect yourself. You will have EARNED that respect. Moreover, if you are genuinely good at what you do, AND you have good looks to boot, you can go far in life.
Respect for others will come once you have respect for yourself; the SELF needs to come first.
To become a MAN, you need to do some searching. Figure out what it is that you love and desire, and challenge yourself to pursue it as far as you can go.
a sociopath is someone who lacks empathy, empathy is on the left side of the brain. and empathey is what makes us feel emotion, need i go on?
its normal there are millions of people like u and if ull be like this for the rest of ur life? empathy is like a connection and until u can find that connection, im afraid ur stuck like that