I Dont Get it!

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You're shy and you don't go out - how are they going to know you exist? Plus, if you are funny and outgoing AND goodlooking then show those off in the beginning! Don't be shy, because no matter how attractive a girl is, if she is off-standish then forget about it. Guys will move on so fast your head will spin.

The fact that you have a twin sister makes a HUGE difference. You can relate to her much better than you can to anyone else, and this affects how you relate to other people. Find some web sites and support groups for twins, and read some of the comments, advice, and suggestions they have there.

As for not making a move, and relying entirely on the guy to do so, that's ok, but you may need a guy who is more experienced to lead you down that path. Interesting comment though; it may shed some light on something that has puzzled me for a while.

It's normal to not be into clubbing. Boys like you, just open up a little with guys you like. If you never love you'll never lose, but you'll miss out on some great relationships along the way.

its a good thing, im a lad and i hate clubbing you dont need to go out to have fun. and i guarantee you'll eventually meet the perfect lad who will want to stay in with you instead of going out

If you prefer to stay at home, just do it don't worry about having to try and keep up with other people. I am also 18, smartish, normal looks, not sporty but still fit. I have a very shy disposition and have a hard time communicating with people and making friends. Just be yourself and don't try and change just because you don't have a boyfriend lol. Once you actually find someone who you can trust whole-heartedly and vice versa, you'll realise it's all worth it. Personally I'd rather have a couple really close friends than a million mere acquaintances. But I'm guessing you just want advice for how to get a boyfriend. Seriously, being 18 and having no boyfriend isn't the end of the world. You have your whole life ahead of you, no point trying to rush into it.

You and your twin sister can go out to places together. That can give you something to do where are with someone you are comfortable with and not staying at home so much.

Yikes! Winter, is this you?

Anyway, it can be normal. Family is not only important, but usually safe. If you are shy, then you know in advance that your family (and Especially your twin ;) will never reject you!

BT/DT

The Divine Ms. O. - IIN Princess (and twin)