im going out with this guy and i really like him, but he's kinda a bad kisser...ok not kinda but a REALLY bad kisser. i dont wanna break up with him or anything but i hate to kiss him, and i love kissing. i feel really bad an i dont want to say anything cause it might hurt him..what do you think i should do?
Instead tell him you "would like to show you what I like". This way he is more prone to listen and not take offense. If a guy truly wants to please his girl he will listen and carefully.
You have to walk a fine line, engage him as a private matter as to what you like (not all females), and be carefull not to shoot him down and say anything negative. Say what you like, not what he does wrong.
If both men and women took this approach, it would make a big, positive difference in their pleasure.
Guys or girls for the most part will accept instruction and have no problem with it if one is able to communicate to them in a respectful manner that is not negative.
Good luck! Please let us know if it made a difference after you gave him a chance to absorb it. I'd bet it will.
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