I don't like other women

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You might not be surprised to learn that you may just become a man one of these days.

The only girls I have met that have the same opinion as you have turned out to be the biggest sluts I have ever met and the reason they dont get on with other women is the other know what they are like.

How many of these men friends have you fucked?

Someone is a bit paranoid, eh? Damn, I'd go insane if I could go out with the girls and enjoy a silly good time.

Can't stand the competition eh?..... are you a fat ugly slapper?.......

well im a girl and i know what you mean about them judging people
but i bet you do it yourself to them
from the way you just spoke about other girls you sound exactly the same
you probably give them dirty looks an that yourself an talk about them like you just have
youd probably get on well

Never trust anything that can bleed for five days and still live.

haha

lol

No, believe it or not, I am married, and I have been with the same guy for almost 10 years now. He's the only one I have ever been with too. And I'm 5'2 and about 120lbs, so I don't think I'm fat. I wear a size 3. I don't WANT to screw everything out there, I just get along better with men. I don't want to BE a man, they usually have the same interests that I do, like reading, politics, running, etc. I don't like to sit around gossiping about pointless shiat, women all talk about their relationship problems, how fat they feel today, what a bitch so-and-so is, shopping, having kids, and other boring crap. No thank you! And I don't talk about women or give them the looks they give me in public, I pretty much just look away and ignore them. I don't need to add fuel to the fire, and I have better things to do than play high school games with them. Men don't notice that crap, or care about it, so it would be pointless to gossip with them. And if i want to hang out with someone more femme, I hang out with my two gay best friends. They're pretty girly without being as hateful as women can be, and they are AWESOME at "girl stuff". So I don't feel like I'm missing out, but I just wondered if I was alone on this. Maybe women hate me because I get along with guys so well, and I've never had a problem with them? Who knows.

So your a Fag Hag that explains it

lets get real, we guys are very simple: if we don't like a guy we either say it, just dont get even close to the guy or beat the shit out of him. no more posiblities! but girls, boy ohh boy, girls are mean: start talking shit about the other girl, make stories out of her, do anything to hurt her bad... and that could go for days, weeks, months and God forbids, but could go for years.
someone tell me that i am wrong...

galeni-

You are ABSOLUTELY RIGHT. That is how women act, guys can get over something and move on and you can still be friends, but if a woman gets pissed at you, they hate you for life, and will stop at nothing to make your life hell. I just don't have the energy to deal with that shit, I'm a grown woman, I'm not in high school, and I don't like their childish, manipulative, vicious mindgames. Every single time I have been friends with a girl, they have gotten mad at me for some stupid or made-up reason, and then tried to ruin my life. I think it would be stupid after being fucked over by so many women friends to keep on putting myself in the same situation over and over again, because it's NOT going to be any different! At least I learned from my mistakes.

And I didn't say ALL my guy friends are gay, just two of them. If I want to go shopping, I call them. If I want to go to a basketball game, I call someone else! You know, because everyone has different interests, and you want to do something that all of you will enjoy. I don't think that makes me a fag hag, but if it does, oh well.

So you've got a face that looks like the slapped arse of a whippet? Shame you'd probably make a good rug muncher.

i know a lady who has your opinion at my job, but you know what? when she had surgery, we women pulled for her, and when she got married, we threw her a shower, she is getting mellower and being nicer to women. maybe you don't know any nice women, maybe you like male attention who knows? but if you are ok with it that is fine, but if a part of you is questioning it why not give a woman a chance as a friend instead of looking like they are the enemy.

Maybe you should dress like a man..

Wear a strap on........

A girl who has lots of guy friends and few or no female friends is trouble in my opinion.

Sorry, but I avoided your type like the plaque when I was single. I'm glad you have a relationship and I hope he treats you well, but you're behavior sends a red flag up for marriage-minded guys.

Women with lots of girl friends make better wives and are less apt to cheat.

Girls like you tend to hang around "guys I used to fuck but now we're just good friends"

No, I don't f*ck my guy friends. If I had to be friends with women, I'd have no friends at all, and that's just not cool. I'm a pretty normal person, I like to do things like shopping, I wear makeup and am kind of a girly-girl, but I just cannot trust other women! They have all screwed me over, stolen from me, were jealous because guys liked me and not them, so on and so on, but I am NOT the type to screw around on my husband, or ANYONE for that matter, I bet I've slept with a LOT less people than most women my age...And I would never steal another woman's boyfriend or husband, like a lot of women do, so maybe that's what's wrong with me, I just don't want to screw over other people. And I don't give other women dirty looks, or any of that, whenever I see another woman giving me a dirty look, I just look away and then walk away because I don't want to get involved in all that high-school drama. So that's that.

Its wierd though cos I'm a guy and I experience the same exact thing except with other guys. They will dis me, my grades, my dress sense, the way my body looks and try smash my self esteem. They are complete pricks. I hate being anywhere near them. So at least you got some friends so that's useful.

Hey I thought I was the only one in the world that thought that way, but Im glad im not. I am a lady who doesn't have any female friends either, I used to, I had a few so called best friends who tried to use me, take what they could, they were two faced liers who showed their true colours in the end. Infact I was best friends with this one woman for about 17 years and as soon as she found a husband, she threw me away as garbage, I had served my purpose because I was just a drinking pal to bide time. I am happily married now myself and my experience of other women who try to befriend you is either they want your man, or they are trying to split you up or they are using you for money. At least with men, you know where you are with them, they usually are straight talking. women have many faces.

god damn dyke burgers
i hope you all get hit by semis

you shouldnt be talking to other women anyway, or else you might start to know thigns and be all independent.

sometimes i've felt like that maybe out of anger..not everyone is the same..there are good people out there but u chose what u see..o what the hell yes a lot of women r bitchy but ur true fnds aren't

This story is the same like mine too. My bestfriends used me, talked trash about me, tried to make my boyfriend break up with me ( now is my husband ) said that i am trash, said i'm useless. I read all that when they talked to my husband before. I was next to him. But I don't hate every women in this world because I know there will be many women out there that are nice and not care how I look or what i do, they will cherish me, and always help and care for me. But my bestfriends hurt me a lot and sometimes i do admit that i can see people look at me then whisper. Then I think why i assum about it...maybe they're not talk about me. Anyway....If i think bad about what other women say or what they think...I think i need to think about myself first. If I think they are whisper about me...then i go tell to my guy friends...mean i'm one of them too....so i rather not to do that

my balls hurt....

u such bastard

I think your perfectly normal. My older sister is the same she is 36 and has only about 3 female friends(including me) because she doesnt like the bitching and backstabbing and gernerally because she things men are easier to get on with. She is not going to put a strap on on, like some person posted above. She is married with 3 daughters so its fine and completely normal.

I also say that if its what youwant then fine but you are in fact lumping the females youfind iwth everyone. I am a female that hates gossip loves reading. So you just need to find the right girls to be friends with.Not every girl is the way you describe them to be. IF you open your mind to it then maybe you could make some decent female friends.

I also have a petite frame and woman's intuition tells me there is a lot of jealousy around. Here's the million dollar question - how do you stop the haters?

high caliber rifle's. but on to the point

i think its perfectly normal, i feel mostly the same except i hate everyone.

Hmm, I know a lot of women that sound like you (interests/tastes, but they're not under the impression that their gender is generally comprised of bottom-feeding slime), so maybe you're just not looking in the right places.

The key to forigiving something is understanding it. Maybe your general outlook on all females is keeping the ones who you'd get along with just fine away.

By the sounds of it, if I was near you, I'd probably get a bit of a hostile vibe, so I'd just keep my distance. If you get to know them, even, these women you dislike so much are still human beings, still perfectly intelligent people - whether or not you yourself recognize it. Your aversion to their behavior is probably keeping you from getting to know them well enough to actually carry on a conversation.

Of course, this depends on age - the older people get, generally the more stuck in their ways they'll have become, so chances are you're just better off finding similar-minded women to chill with instead. I was much the same, all-male friends, thought most girls gossipped unnecessarily and hated that. The problem isn't the people though, it's your attitude towards them.

Lightening up and trying to relate once in a while might be something to try.

Nothing is wrong with you, I am quite similar myself. I am successful, I love reading, I am subscribed to a newspaper, I like tennis and swimming, love visiting art galleries, I am a software engineer, I love travelling, and learning of any sort basically. Most women annoy the heck out of me. I love discussing politics or other interesting current issues and the moment I try to do that, girls seem bored. Women DO contribute to the stereotype that they are empty-headed and only talk about shopping, there is some truth to that. Some of them are. Out of hundreds of girls I have met in my life at school/work/extracurriculars, no more than 4 or 5 have been interesting and I could carry on an intelligent conversation with about a topic worth discussing. It's so much easier with guy friends, things just flow, I don't get as frustrated. One way to perhaps meet interesting women like yourself is joining a professional organization and go to some of their activites. Good luck!

It is perfectly normal to dislike other women. As the last poster said, women DO contribute to the sterotype that we are empty-headed and only talk about relationships, babies, and shopping. I have not found many to be particularly interesting. The fact that many would call us dykes is weird- we said that we like MEN- right? I spend most of my time learning how to master certain skills and studying and experiencing the world and just want to talk about it, to share it with like-minded people, instead of gossiping!! So to protect my own energy, I simply stay away from women under 35. Best thing I have ever done, and I don't care what anyone thinks. Working on my Master's or traveling or getting a pilots license is a better way to spend my time. Now let's just accept that we are all normal. We can hang out with whom we chose. Life is short. When does having an "open mind" constitute making the same mistakes, by the way? I'm older and wiser now, and just what am I going to get out of hanging out at baby showers ? Sometimes saying NO to things that are a waste of time is the same as saying YES to things that really matter.

Well, ahem...I feel exactly the same as this chick - and I am a beautiful girl (sure, I said it)....'ladies' have treated me horribly since I was young. It's only now I'm finally getting angry and giving up. I have few friends, lots of bitternes and I understand!!!!

Well, I don't particularly like other women because I had a very bad experience with my own mother, who was/is mentally ill, and with the girls at the all-girls' school I was sent to, who never accepted me. I felt very rejected by women as a friend - I rejoiced when I went to a co-ed school at 14 as the boys were just so much easier to talk to. All my cousins (bar one male cousin who is schizophrenic) are female, and with the exception of one (law student), who is extremely bright and well-adapted, all are exceptionally difficult to have a conversation with (the lesbian doctor is the worst - either rude, or like a clam). A couple of them (one of whom is a psychoanalyst) will invite me to functions, then ignore me for hours, then when I am ready to go, come up to me and say "oh, sorry we haven't had time to chat" (I mean WTF??)

Unfortunately, in terms of female friends (as I had to listen to my mother's interminable problems) I have seemed subsequently to attract women with disorders of their own, who only seemed to want me as a sounding-board to dump on...so whenever I strike up a conversation with a woman and she starts obsessing about this guy and that guy and the other guy and what could he have meant, or her eating disorder, within 5 minutes...I switch off and long to escape - I can't stick another repeat of my mum.

Not that I haven't attracted dysfunctional people of the opposite sex; for example, my ex-husband was physically violent like my father and my ex-boyfriend had some sort of personality disorder, what it was I don't know and I don't care. But for some reason I still prefer men to women, however bizarre that may seem. I do not look like my mother, I look like my father and always communicated with him better, as he was slightly more of a human being.

At this point I'm fairly fed up with relationships all round, but I am still mystified as to how to communicate with women, and I wonder whether I will ever be able to wrap my head around that one. I'm not the sort of person that other women go shopping with or have a coffee with - I tend to hang around with guys more as they seem to be interested in *ideas* as opposed to *feelings*.

I also don't identify with the whole "kids" thing - because I was abused as a child and felt long ago that I could never have children because the emotional investment would be too much, that I would rather kill myself than bear a child and then screw its life up. I don't understand why on earth someone would put themselves through pregnancy, for example, and the physical chores of having to care for a child. I can't pretend to be interested in it. I'm sorry if this offends some women, and I'm sure you love your kids and want to give them the best, but the subject makes no impression on me whatsoever.

I don't have any female friends my own age, the last one only wanted to talk about her guy problems (she was very promiscuous and only ever saw guys as relationship material than as friends and as people), and my then boyfriend was interested in her, which my pride couldn't stand, so I dumped her. I do have a couple of older female friends (who are not a threat to potential relationships, and who I seem to maintain a good friendship with because they are JUST NOT LIKE other women), and still keep in contact with a couple of friends from school (who are also independent-minded and not "silly". I have plenty of guy friends whom I communicate with on a regular basis - purely as friends. I like to be a sort of Queen Elizabeth I - a kind of "queen bee" with admirers. Yes, I admit, I keep men around for a bit of ego-flattery, I don't see anything wrong with that.

I think many other women have felt threatened by me because I have always been larger than life. In general I find women terribly timid communicators, and the writing style of the instigator of this topic is actually a breath of fresh air, and says what an awful lot of people think but don't dare say. Perhaps I also experience problems because I tend to have a direct way of communicating which doesn't sit well with women as a whole and society's expectations of them.

Subconsciously I don't expect other women to like me because they never have, even when I was a small child. When I am interviewed for a job by another woman, for example, I tend to feel it is a bit of a waste of time because I never get the job.

Obviously communicating with women is a problem for me but I just do not know what to do about it. Having said that, knowing what I do about the fleeting-ness of female friendships, I wonder what female friendship is based on. I've noticed that usually women gravitate towards familiarity and women who are the same as them (ie look similar, similar intelligence levels etc). That means that, since I prize individuality above all else, I haven't a hope!