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I dont want to let go
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Me and my best friend have been having some trouble lately.We didn't speak to each other for over a month then we made up and now we are ignoring each other again for no reason.She has totally changed from what she was.She use to care about me so much and at that time i used to get annoyed with her but now I want her to care.

She doesn't seem to miss me as she has got new friends and turned my friends against me.So im total loner at school now but after how much she has hurt me and made everyone think im a bad person for some reason I keep crying and feel like I cant give up trying and sill want her back.I feel she is a much better person to me when her friends are not around.

I have always admired are friendship as we have been through so much.I miss her like crazy and I want her back so bad.I wish we could go back to the way we use to be and the worst part is that we got so close to each other this summer,I grow very fond of her.What do you think I should do,move on or wait for her to realised what she has done?
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lotusgirl (30659)
2009-11-02 23:23:40
omg i used to have this bestfriend
and we would do everything with eachother
seriously
we would talk on the hone for hrs everyday just to hear how our day went
we would always give each other advice
she was pretty much my other half
this one time i just started to get annoyed of her [long story] so i called her a bitch and hung up on her
and after that we never talked again
i apologized and called her for her birthday
and thats it
we were friends for i think 8-9 yrs
now we dont even talk
but its not just because i called her a bitch
theres more to the story
anywayyyysss
the point isssss everyone moves on
its good to look back every now and then to remember the beautiful times
but you should also learn to just move on
you have your own life and your own body
focus on yourself
not on anyone else
dont depend on anyone else to bring you happiness
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iwantatiger (28288)
2009-11-03 04:28:27
you know, i kind of relate. bestfriend left, end up looking like the bad person, etc etc. however have you tried looking on "her" view? what was the reason she left? i mean was it reasonable? did you do something to push her away? because in my part i think i became unfair to my bestf. that's why she left me. i feel bad too, i feel like im the victim blablabla but you know if you know you did nothing you sure can go on w/o the baggage. its really bad to lose friends, yeah especially the memories you had with them, but you still can find that on other people don't wrap your world around her. go on and continue you life! don't let it stop you!
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violent10dency (10988)
2009-11-03 17:31:31
This is very sad, but she has obviously changed, or maybe the "real" side of her is coming out. I would tell her how you feel and if she doesn't seem to care then you will just have to find other friends. I'm a loner in college right now and I hate it. I can never really seem to find friends that last just aquaintences, except one but she moved away. I know how you feel and it sucks!
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cucui (30591)
2009-11-05 19:59:17
Not worth it man :(
Have some pride so long as you let her treat you like shit is as long as she'll keep doing so and if she just doesn't want you anymore... Tough man:( but life goes on
I repeat HAVE SOME DAMN PRIDE too much is bad but a little is necessary if you dont want to be treated like trash
I've been lonering it out since... about 8th grade? going on lol 4 yrs now
u live bruh DEAL
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