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I feel bad when people say all Asian girls are ugly...
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I'm a half Korean, half Chinese girl, and let me just say that no one has actually come up to me and told me I'm ugly. I do think that a lot of Asian girls/women are unattractive, but so are a lot of other females from different races. There are so many pretty Asian girls out there, and I just feel really hurt when people make an entire generalization and say that we're all ugly.
I don't know, maybe I'm just being too sensitive, but I think it's really mean...
Do you think it's normal?
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Personally, I think most Asians are quite beautiful. I think a lot of people generally agree with that. Aside from extreme differences like obesity or deformity which have little or nothing to do with race, I'm sure you're probably quite beautiful too. Beauty comes in many shapes and sizes.

Where did you hear that from anyways? I've never heard it. I've heard the random odd comment on the different shapes of Asian's eyes, but I don't think any of them really thought it was ugly, just a bit different from what they're used to seeing.

Wherever you're hearing that from, just ignore it and feel bad for them, not yourself or your race. They have the problem, not you.
It might be mean and hurtful, but whoever says this is probably being honest about *his* own personal preferences. Presumably, he has looked at a lot of Asian girls, has found them unattractive, and has concluded that *all* Asian girls are ugly. That's just him, and it makes no sense to try to change him or to argue that he is somehow wrong. He may be inconsiderate and impolite, but isn't it better that you actually learn of his thoughts, rather than presuming he thinks something different?

Rest assured that there are plenty of people who are just the opposite, who do indeed find Asian girls attractive. What one person finds attractive, another may find ugly, and vice-versa.

That said, you should realize that in some places, very few people will find you attractive. In other places, lots of people will find you attractive. You can thus exercise some control over this by choosing where you live, what social functions you attend, and whom you choose to associate with.
Nobody actually said that to me, but I hear it around. Seriously, if someone said something like that to me I would not stand for it. Thanks for the nice reply, I was expecting a whole bunch of attacks lol. I do see a lot of ignorance on the Internet and around my school, and I know they don't know anything, but it still hurts.
lol the dude who said that is probably ugly himself. Asian chicks are hot hot hot hot