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I Feel Disgusted When I Look at Asian Men
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I feel awful for saying this and I know there will be many angry replies to this statment. But I am honestly writing this out to seek your advice and honest thoughts. Since childhood, I've always felt that Asians are an extremely ugly race. I, myself, am Chinese, and I see myself as ugly too. My parents are always telling me that I should be dating Chinese men, but they are so unattractive to me. I tried to run down what I didn't like about them - their skinny hairless bodies (very effeminate looking), slanty shifty eyes, flat big button noses, a lot of them carry man purses, and they usually come with bad teeth or bad breath (due to either poor hygiene or something in the smell of their food). I feel the same way with Asian women too, but Asian men just look more terrible to me. This has always bothered me that I could be racist to my own culture and nationality, and that's the last thing I want to be. Is it normal to feel extremely disgusted and unattracted to all Asians, especially the Chinese? Is it normal to feel repulsed by how a whole race looks? I can't change the entire nation of China to look differnt, or to force them to learn to pick up better hygiene, so what I can do to stop feeling disgusted and disturbed everytime I see a Chinese or Asian man or woman?
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Learn that everyone is beautiful in their own way, even you.
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Wow! What a stereotype. Out of everything you described, only two describe me; slanted eyes and having very little body hair.

You must hang out with some people with poor hygiene. Oh, and by the way-- 95% of the traits you describe can be applied to people of any race, not just asians. So, I find your description sorely lacking.

Please get out more, broaden your way of thinking, and mature a little. Your bitter diatribe against asians is sickening and I only hope you get over your internal problems and learn to love yourself. Obviously your rant is not about others, but a true reflection of an internal struggle.

Good luck.
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Not meee. I love Asian men..they're so hot.
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I don't feel angry - just a bit sorry for you. I take it that you didn't grow up in China. Where do you think you've got your ideas of what is and isn't attractive?
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Everyones different. Personally I find asians to be one of the most attrative races. Im not asian myself, but If someone said they found my race to be ugly, I would probably be abit upset about it but then again its something you can't change, its just how you are.
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Big button nose?
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I can understand where you're coming from. As a man, I can't stand to even look at 99% of asian women out there. Most are so poorly endowed, and many have faces that resemble those of fish or small reptiles. Not only that, but their personalities are equally reprehensible.
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So surely you weren't born feeling this way. What happened in your past to lead into this feeling now? Resentments against your parents? Feeling like you didn't fit in at school because of your ethnicity? Perhaps your hatred for Asians is a reflection of something inside you or that happened to you that you haven't made peace with & processed. Therapy could help.
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@: Sotchi
Uh oh, psychiatrist alert !
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I know! I have never had my nose described as a big button. What an odd shaped button it would be. My nose is wide, but that is to be said of anyone with ancestry from a subtropical climate (like Vietnam).

Shifty eyes?! Okay, slanted yes. But shifty? Shifting your eyes is an act, I don't know of anyone who shifts their eyes 24/7; so to say all asian men have shifty eyes would call for an entire race of people to be at the optical doctor for the majority of the week. I know if I have ever needed to make an eye appointment, it is usually fairly fast.
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MissSorel
Asian men are hot imho. I know these two are Japanese but Matsuyama Kenichi and Fujiwara Tatsuya are two amazing smexy examples of gorgeous Asian men.
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Those are some okay examples. Look up taeyang and jonghyun. Theyre korean.
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Kenichi is hot but not Tatsuya. They could have found a way better Light
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Some are good looking, but I get where you're coming from. It's rare that I see an Asian man and think to myself "damn, he's hot". Oddly enough I have been with enough Asian men to know that I don't want to do it again. A total turn off for me is an uncircumcised penis and most Asian guys are not cut and they're spunk is always funky. So yeah, I'll pass on any kind of romantic relationship with an Asian man. Strictly platonic.
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I am half chinese and half columbian, and while I feel somewhat the same, I like the way I look with only certain exceptions like anyone else, but if you ever saw my uncle (Who I am very envious of)you would think he's some sort of model or actor. With that said, I love white chicks, Boobs all the way!
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Well, that's just not normal.
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Asian men have beautiful eyes and cutesy noses. given me an Asian man any day. Caucasian men are arrogant and sloppy.
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So don't fucking look you prick. Chinese people are okay people unlike you
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I am eurasian, and I personally agree that asian men are not my type. But that's just because I like taller, bigger, fairer guys for some reason. However, contrary to your statements, I think chinese and asian women are gorgeous--slim, petite, and fashionable. In fact, I am not bad looking myself. It must be the white in me, right?
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Ur totally normal.I think asian guys are disgusting.Even typing the word asian guys make me disgusted. The way they perceive women,they way they blablabla.... all disgusted me!! ewwwwwwww...Not to mention long fingernails! And they always have bad breath. Asian women are fine thoIm one of the asian women as long as they don't try to look white and are comfortable in their skin I like them. And I totally understand why white guys love asian girls. My boyfriend is black and whether it's a hook-up or a serious relationship I always end up blacks. I like white guys.Btw I'm kind of a country girl.
I just like a manly man. I can smell that from a mile a way.No cologue will spell" manly" to me.I just use my radar! lol
feel free to contact me:)
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The way they perceive women... rightio.

One of the things I've noticed with asian women - they come across a few asian men with certain negative values, apparently all of them have it. They keep on meeting white men with yellow fever, however - nope, it's not the race, just gotta keep trying...

It is a complete oxymoron that you loooove yourself (so much that your kids will look nothing like you! - how self deluded can you get) but not your male counterparts.
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Agreed but Asian (Tokyo) girls can be pretty
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Asians are hott
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I'm only into white guys but I know sexy Japanese and Korean men when I see one :$
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I think you probably live in a place where there are a lot of new Chinese immigrants from the poor rural parts of China - you just described most of them! It is unfortunate that most Chinese men are what you've described. However, there are also some decent looking ones - but these more rare decent looking ones are usually arrogant because of their above average look, doesn't matter they are Chinese or Koreans or Japanese. So I would say don't go for Asian men at all. If you really need to get married that much, marry a non Asian.
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Ahaha, as a white man you would say to an asian woman don't go for a white man.

Just like I would say to white women, do not be with the pencil dicked white men, go with blacks, asians or latinos who can rock your world. Do not be swayed by the bullshit that white men spew, both in real life and on the internet.

It's all just a big game of PR
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I have met other Chinese girls who feel this way too. Some of them were born and raised in China and claimed they could not date Chinese men. I am not Asian and i cannot really see the matter from their viewpoint but tbh i find it SAD.
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Don't listen to all the comments on here, although your discription of why you are not attracted to them is lacking. Everyone has that one thing that makes them tick and you can't help it. I do not believe you are racist towards your own race or discusted with them, I just believe that you are not attracted to them. I am the same way, I am totally white but HATE dating white guys. They do nothing for me and I am only attracted to a few. I mainly date African - American men because they are so attractive to me, I am not attracted to people of Asian decent either. So don't feel bad and just go after what your attracted to and try not to feel discusted by your own race, though it is hard sometimes.
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SELF HATRED ! Shouldn't be barbecuing a dog or a cat instead of bitching about how much you hate your kind
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asian girls are so fucking hot!!!!!!! japanese laos girls korean!!!
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agree ! Japanese, Northern Thai and Chinese for me !

White women look nice too but why put up with the constant BS ?
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Mercedes Benz
Xxx
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You're crazy, Asian men are hands down, THE hottest to me. Japanese, Korean, Thai, Vietnamese and Chinese. I could have asian 3 times a day
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And seriously, man purses? hahahaha
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Don't worry so much what others think. In another 500 years we will all be one race. I am from a Navajo italian father and a Irish mother I look white and so do my siblings . I dated and married two white men. I wasn't honest with myself and let family pressure me. I am now married to the sexiest Japanese man in the world for 12 years. There is someone for everyone we evolve like every other species stop trying to be or conform to something g you are not. You will never learn to be your best or live your best life. Who cares why you are not attracted. Concern yourself with the type of man you are attracted to and focus on the qualities that are important to you and your family. Everything else will fall into place even your parents acceptance.

We can't fight evolution god has a plan !
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I agree. I generally don't find them attractive either. Very rarely I'll find an Asian guy or girl attractive, but it's usually if they're mixed with another race. You shouldn't feel bad about it. When it comes to art, music, cuisine, and even humans, you're not necessarily going to value all options in the same way.
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Yes you are normal. I am part Asian and find most Asian men, particularly Chinense men, unattractive. I think this aversion is nature's way of trying to broaden the gene pool. When attraction, i.e. desire to mate, is not present, that means that those genes are not desirable to the opposite sex. So, a Chinese woman who prefers a white man to a Chinese man is broadening her offspring's gene pool as well as helping her produce more attractive offspring, who will then have greater chances of reproductive success. It's not sad, it's nature. Look around and you'll see it's true. Racially mixed children are often much more attractive than non-mixed.
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Oh yeah, because that explains all the white women wanting to be with asian men.

Oh wait...

The vast majority of men and women of all races want to be with their own. A partner that shares their culture, background and heritage. Tribalism has helped humans prosper for millenia.

This does not prescribe to your "brodening the gene pool" theory.
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Unfortunately this is the sad result of a minority growing up in a white society, immersed with white ideals, without proper parenting and/or her race's community to aid and guide her in taking pride of her own identity, culture and specifically, self-image. As such anything that does not conform to "white features" is wrong, rather than taking the normal stance that whatever is your race is right...

The even greater irony is that many asian women consider themselves attractive - listing said features exclusive to the race - then continue to bitch about her men being ugly - listing the same features that she considered attractive to herself....

I'm sensing confusion here - either that or an agenda to appeal to white men to create whiter children by marketing such features as exotic and thus, attractive to them - whilst conversely denigrating the same features of asian men so they do not reproduce. Essentially, asian women preach white superiority, and want to be assimilated into the white race.

Bearing in mind that there was a time when black men were considered unattractive... not only that, but the very thought of a black with a white disgusted general society.... "how could a human breed with an ape?" were questions that weren't unheard of back then. Of course nowadays that sort of language is not only socially unacceptable, but black men are put in such a positive light with media and general society, that they are deemed attractive. Despite having those same "disgusting" features that repelled the general white populace just a few decades ago.

Indeed if you go to parts of Eastern Europe, Russia and the Far East (ironically), this attitude still exists. Yet the same black men that are referred to as repulsive are seen as desirable in Western Europe and America.

Of course the crucial difference here is that black women, even at a time when their men were considered unattractive, stuck by them. They still do, if you consider the high number of black women who will date ONLY black men....compared to asian women who will date anyone BUT asian men.

Like I said, it is a shame that asian women have been brainwashed from birth to idolise white beauty and not concentrate on her own, much like other minority communities in white countries have done.

And I leave you all, but more specifically asian women who think like the original poster, with a question - if asians are so repulsive, why do they still exist? If Asian men found asian women and her features repulsive, he wouldn't be able to get it up and thus reproduce.... similarly with asian women, she wouldn't be able to even approach asian men without feeling disgusted, let alone live with them and raise families with them. Yet here we are, with a quarter of the world's population being Chinese alone, and that's before we include the other Asians.
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htc
Its self hate.
Your definetly insecure and need to learn to love yourself...or at least like some of you, because untill then....you'll never be satisfied with yourself.
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i agree, asain men are not appealing. mostly skinny with bad hair. and wats with asains trying to go blonde? forget it already it shouldnt b done. they all look the same to me and hav small dicks. they hav no idea wat to do sexually.
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Just like blacks who dye their hair blonde... oh wait, that's not acceptable to say, is it?

You say Asian men are not appealing to you, yet you also say they have small dicks and don't know what to do sexually. In order to make the last two statements true you must have slept with quite a lot of them.... but then why would you do that if they are not appealing?

Or maybe you're just using the tried and tested white-made stereotyping that has hurt asians to further the white agenda of racial superiority and white standards of beauty.
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yes i was forced to hav sex with many asian men so i know wat im talking about.
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lol, rightio....
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Statistically, 1 in 3 asian men are monkeys
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as if 2 in 3 Caucasian men do look like Apes
as if 1 in 2 Italian men are midgets
as if 1 in 3 russian men are cons.
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With really good puppets
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