Ok, so my bf tends to get depressed a lot. i love him dearly and have been drugging the smoothies i have been making (for both him and me). it's nothing horrible, just some flax seed oil and st. john's wort, but i feel kind of guilty, because he hates pills and refuses to take them if i hand them to him (i think it's mostly out of his negative self-image and the fact that he doesn't like himself very much. he never does anything that he knows is going to be good for him).
his mood is way better since i've been doing this though. he's really happy and not snapping at the roommates. it's not like these things make you high, they just make you slightly less pissy/depressed.
should i feel guilty and is there anyone else out there doing the same thing?
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A. your BF needs to talk to someone.
B. you have a communication problem with your BF
your a good girlfriend
i'd do the same thing for my girlfriend
Cut to the chase. If he has a problem he refuses to do anything about, and depression is something that he can do something about, then it requires commitment & work on his part.
Talk to him. If he won't act, then reassess whether you want to be in a relationship that is driving you to stoop to this behaviour.