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I feel like I'm being Rushed :(
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Am I the only female that feels like she's being rushed...into having a boyfriend, getting married, having kids, meeting your soul mate, etc (god help me if there is more lol)
LOL About me:
I am 18.
Never been kissed.
Still a virgin.
Straight.
Skinny, pretty, I don't look like my age, a lot of people think I'm 15 or 16 and I think that's hilarious! lol XD

Lol, but when I tell people this, esp. my friends or girls I know, they look at me like: "what's wrong with you?!" I feel like I missed my first kiss date. Should I be freaking out? Or take a breath and wait for the perfect first kiss.
Do you think it's normal?
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captaincheerio (30420)
2009-10-28 04:20:57
Of course you're normal! With the pressure of modern society, women are having sexual relationships much earlier than ever before. Don't feel pressured into having sex or dating when you're not ready.
Before I finish, I'd just like to point out that, from the personal experience of a young person in today's society, there is no such thing as a perfect first kiss. Sorry, but there's no point waiting for something that isn't going to come.
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Bugaboo (30340)
2009-10-28 07:47:08
No you shouldn't be freaking out ^^ you will have plenty of opportunity to be kissed (and w/e else) in your life so don't sweat it. Don't let your friends rush you into something your not ready for, if you want that romantic fireworks first kiss then don't settle for anything less!! You will regret it, good luck hun!
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anotheruser1 (30428)
2009-10-28 09:18:38
when you are ready you will know. don't do anything you don't want to do no matter what
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direspore (30444)
2009-10-28 15:57:15
well, don't expect the first kiss to be perfect and put it on a pedestal cos you'll probably disappoint yourself. but don't bother rushing yourself either.

i recently had a 24 yr old girlfriend, she was a virgin when i met her. (she'd been pretty religious previously) she was worried that it might bother me... i informed her of the fact that most guys wouldn't mind that and in fact would probably find it quite hot.

I myself didn't have a real proper kiss/girlfriend/virginity til 20! god did i want it before that tho. i was just really shy...

hope this helpz ^^
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Princess4884 (30494)
2009-10-29 13:54:44
Your normal, you shouldn't just kiss any boy to get it over with, your first kiss should be special. Some people just have their first kiss before others, it doesn't make the people who haven't had their first kiss yet weird or a freak, your just different people and things will happen at different times. Don't freak about it, your not alone, there are lots of teenagers your age thinking the same thing.
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ohhhhhhyeahh (28231)
2009-10-31 02:04:52
Take your time, lady! I'm jealous actually, I wish that I was still a virgin... Don't let other people push you into that crap, it's just drama and heartache unless you do it by your own standards, and in your own time.

P.S. I'm 18 too and old people always think that I look like I'm 13! It's lulz :P
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iamdick100 (7493)
2009-11-01 11:56:43
Take your time. be your own person. If you let others control you and tell you what to do, you will never be happy.
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