I feel so akward

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You should not tell her. You may feel a compulsion to if you are very close to her, but you have to realize that being open and honest does not mean you have to share your most intimate thoughts and actions.
Even though it may feel like you are holding back, you are not, because you are not obligated to tell her.
She is a person too, and certain things may not be in the realm of things you tell your parents and may actually harm her.
What you did is normal. I have weird thoughts myself, but it just adds to my inner self.

There is a miscomprehention that in order for things to be "All right" you must share them with another person, hence the dramatic increase in the psychology occupations. You don't need to tell anyone if you can accept it yourself. It is often better that way.

Meh If ur a chick Nothing wrong with that. but dont tell him that would be bad


Ive masturbated about my stepmom a few times (like 3 times?)

Please dont tell her, there are some things you need to keep private and to yourself and this is one of them, its not wrong to have these little secrets and in this case honestly is not always the best policy.

dont tell her NO way if you feel your gonna do something then youll have to move out you wont be best friends if you tell her that for sure

This is a really difficult situation. Your mum doesn't really need to know. But it might make you feel better and give you releif if you do talk to her about it. Its really up to you, and depends on how you think she will take it and how much personal stuff you hsare with her in general. And dont worry about this, it is normal to fantacise about stepdads, i've heard some people even fantacise about their biological dads. Try not to stress over this, and let this pass.

you feel akward cuz you are freakin retarded.

There are things your mother would probably rather not know. This is one of them.

dont tell her, you might get a bloody hiding!!

i would not tell her
just forget about it and move on
there is nothing to gain from telling her
its not a big deal

IS VALENTINES DAY. SEND HIM VALENTINES WITH ACCURATE DESCRIPTIONS OF YOUR WEIRD PERVERTED FEELING AND BEG MULTITUDES OF FORGIVENESS FOR BEING SUCH A STUPID IGBNORANT AND NOT PROPER PRE-STEPCHILD.

YOU ARE WELCOME FOR MY ADVICED

Just let it go. Somethings are best kept to yourself.

why dont you tell the man goodness

If your a girl, fair enough... but a guy tossin off over his step dad...? *Sharpens knife*
Keep it to yourself either way lol

WELL . PROBLEM HERE IS IF YOU ARE GIRL OR BOY,
IF YOU ARE GIRL: HAVE TO THINK WHY DO YOU LIKE MASTURBATE ABOUT YOUR STEP FHATER, AND IN ADDITION YOU ARE INVADING LAND OF YOUR MOTHER.-
IF YOU ARE A BOY: ARE YOU BECAMING IN A GAY?OR IS PART OF YOUR FATANSIES,?
TRY TO ENFOQUE YOUR AXIETIES AND DISIRES TO OTHER DIRECTIONS.-.YOU DONT HAVE TO TELL THIS TO YOUR MOTHER , ONLY WILL CREATE AN DISTURBED MIND IN HER, AND WILL UNTRUST IN YOU.-
WHY THE EXPOSITORS NEVER SAYS IF THEY ARE GIRLS OR BOYS, ?THAT COULD CLARE MANY THINGS.-

girls cant masturbate can they? is it just me or isnt masturbating JUST wanking... or is it also fingerbaning? xD

LOL

its normal I wouldn't tell my mother at ur age but I'm not you. its perfectly normal and hey it happened. I'll tell you one thing sometimes its a blessing not to know what other people are thinking. Your mom in all likelihood will say its ok, I'm sure she touches herself while thinking of him too. but she probably would have liked not to hear that