when i give head, or at least try. i gag. i try to think about something else so that i wont gag and i try not to. but it just cant help it. is this normal? and please if anyone has any tips on how not to gag please let me know.
Comments really do help! thanks.
My favorite piece of blowjob advice though is don't try to deep-throat it. People experienced at giving blowjobs know that you don't have to act like your mouth is a vagina, the dick doesn't need to go in and out for it to work, instead, use your lips, tongue and head motion to caress the tip of the penis and never take it very far into your mouth in the first place.
Just don't use teeth... unless of course he asks for teeth.
Take a little less in. Use your hands. Use your tongue. Good blow jobs arent just made up of shoving a whole cock in your mouth and sucking like a robot, you can use your tongue and lick him, down the sides, from base to tip and all around the head. Tease him by putting the tip in your mouth for small amounts of time. When you gag, give yourself a break and do that, don't let a man put you thru the hell of gagging on too many inches!