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i get really depressed around this girl
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there is this girl i know and every time i am around her i get really depressed, a feeling comes over me like i want to be around her forever because she is so cute

i asked her out and she said no but i still like to be around her, i also can't help but just stare at her, but i don't because that would be awkward so instead i try to ignore her so it doesn't look like i am obsessed with her

then when i leave i start thinking about killing myself and the feeling lasts for about a couple weeks, i sometimes lay on the floor and just cry for about 10 minutes thinking about her, i usually plan out my suicide and almost do it, until my depression goes away

i'm okay now because i haven't seen her for a while but i know if i'm around her again i will get super depressed and want to kill myself again

the weird part is that i actually miss the feeling i get around this girl and the depression, it just kind of feels magical and getting drunk and planning my suicide just gives me a kind of euphoric high, without this feeling my life is bland and boring, and i don't even feel like killing myself anymore which sucks

is it normal to feel this way?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (41)
WarLord (13444)
2008-08-03 17:21:22
It's VERY normal. And I know this is difficult because you firmly believe this girl is THE ONE. Let me guess, you don't even think about other girls do you?


Growing up, I felt this way a few times about a certain girl and as much as you don't believe it and as cheesy as it sounds the fact remains there WILL be more girls!

But I also know that knowing this won't help because you have your heart set on this girl. Maybe, MAYBE you still have a chance with her, so I'm not saying you should give up on her, just don't ignore all the other girls out there!

Concentrate on doing something that you like and keeps your mind busy and believe me it WILL get better with time.
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asskicker20230 (15536)
2008-08-03 17:24:49
try extreme bungee jumping its how i spice my life
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cabinet70 (4440)
2008-08-03 18:29:32
If you get depressed around her she probably thinks your some kind of depressed loser. If you like her so much you should be happy around her. Try and show her your happy outgoing side she will like this better
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asskicker20230 (15536)
2008-08-03 19:46:56
@: cabinet70
but his wired so if he doesn't get depressed he could caer less about her
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cpg123 (15225)
2008-08-03 21:05:04
ftw!!!!
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spamjaveIin (15511)
2008-08-03 21:16:41
It's not about the girl, mate, it's about the feeling you get when you embrace life and death in the image of one girl, when one girl makes you feel so alive that you almost want to be dead. Its a paradox. but its the magic of passion. Dont ever lose it because if you do you lose yourself. and then life is not worth living.

whew, can't believe i wrote all that piss but there you have it. Today's wisdom from King Spammy.
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asskicker20230 (15536)
2008-08-03 21:24:10
@: spamjaveIin
you feel that way about bigdaddyv don't you spam
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cabinet70 (4440)
2008-08-03 22:08:33
@: spamjaveIin
hey spammy god to see you back
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spamjaveIin (15511)
2008-08-04 07:19:43
@: cabinet70
well it isn't as if i ever even left, is it. Good to back though, and good to see you, cabinet. Hope you've been keeping the place warm for me?

@asskicker - I felt that way about your mother too until I realized she had testicles bigger than bowling balls. That kind of took the fun out of it all. Now why the hell don't you just run off and pork a wombat or something.
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WarLord (13444)
2008-08-04 07:41:50
@: spamjaveIin
Have you been in contact with any of the other older members? Where are they?
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spamjaveIin (15511)
2008-08-04 12:21:38
@: WarLord
well lets see...Oro has his lips around my turgid man-meat, and normalgay has his tongue deep in my shitter. Daddy's little Pooltoy's out back with his daddy. Oh, there he goes, squealing like a pig,right on schedule.

As far as the others are concerned, I'm certain the flock will return. Gretchen's waiting for me in the back, with her legs spread like and open roast beef sandwich. So, later on lads, and please, carry on for Spammy.
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flikr (10636)
2008-08-04 22:32:23
i'm gonna go kill myself over this girl she's worth it
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SlimFast (11113)
2008-08-04 22:43:04
@: flikr
It's normal to feel this way. Are you going to see her again?
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Quadmaster (15202)
2008-08-04 22:47:47
@: spamjaveIin
LMAO! Glad to see you back Spam this place is just not the same without are KING of comedy!
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flikr (10636)
2008-08-04 23:58:15
@: SlimFast
i hope i can see her again
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SlimFast (11113)
2008-08-05 00:17:03
@: flikr
I hope you get together. Good luck!
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spamjaveIin (15511)
2008-08-05 14:15:04
@: SlimFast
I hope they never get together cause then they might have kids and that would be bad for the world to have a bunch of little crappers with flikr for a dad. but then again what the hell am I talking about flikr won't ever get near a flesh and blood woman in his lifetime.
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SlimFast (11113)
2008-08-05 15:02:39
@: spamjaveIin
The world needs more flikrs to keep making stories and comments on IIN. Glad to see you back Sir Javelin.
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asskicker20230 (15536)
2008-08-05 15:49:01
@: spamjaveIin
mom jokes died 2 years ago spam even the retarded chimpanzee at the denver zoo knows that
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asskicker20230 (15536)
2008-08-05 15:53:42
@: asskicker20230
but are you saying your a bisexul because thats what i got out of it
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Quadmaster (15202)
2008-08-05 20:13:29
@: spamjaveIin
I know the way Flikr talks I think the closest he ever got to a pussy was sniffing his sisters panties. lol
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ImaLovrnotaFitr (15159)
2008-08-05 21:51:35
I think youre very depressed, that is definitely not a healthy way to feel about someone....
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violent10dency (10988)
2008-08-10 18:52:45
@: spamjaveIin
ewwwww. lol
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yummymummy1987 (15806)
2008-08-18 16:02:26
i have been feeling the same about this bloke that i was seein but he had a gf that was preg we aint seein each other anymore even tho we did slept together while he was with her which made my feelings stronger. every time i see him i just walk off and hind but then after i wish i had talked 2 him and then i go home and i think about the what ifs and just cry sometimes i wish id just walk outside and get hit by a bus or something but the thing that keeps me going is my son he doesnt have his dad he only has me and if it werent for him i dont know where id be
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nargaroth666 (16775)
2008-10-16 16:48:31
a have a good idea for u, next time your around her, get a knife and cut your self and she will feel sorry for u and get close to u, worked for me, (for an hour)
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jesusman (18969)
2008-12-30 22:44:17
@: lotsofjunk
i think it is perfectly normal to like a girl that you are sad beyond repair but killing your self will not help one thing i dont know if you have faith in god our heaven but if you do think about it you will not git there if you kill yourself maybe ask her if you guys could be friends and that way yu git to be around her and in time if you play your cards right she will grow to like you i will say it one more time killing yourself will not salve one thing you would be doing exacly what satan would want you to do and you would spend eternaty in hell you can go threw life saing that there is no god but if somthing does happen and you kill your self you will meet god and how would you like to have him look into your soul and say depart from me for i do not know you
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niggerz (21285)
2009-03-26 09:01:29
Girls have a way of complicating everyone's life so yea it's normal u whana kill your self when u meet a girl that's what they do
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yeah_boi (21874)
2009-04-12 08:42:10
wowza u must like this girl!
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yeah_boi (21874)
2009-04-12 08:42:30
@: nargaroth666
no thats just werid!
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Ollieo (19003)
2009-04-19 04:04:29
C'mon - this overblown fantasy and drama is something YOU have created around this girl. No wonder she said "no" to you - she has (and wants) nothing to do with it (or you). Go to your doctor right away & get help with your depression.
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oskilover18 (22167)
2009-04-20 20:05:20
Being in love fucks with your brain and makes you feel as if you were on drugs, so yes, that's normal. Being that depressed, not so much. EVERYONE falls in love and loses a love and thinks it's the end of the world. However, if you are a teen ... teens' brains are dealing with so many hormones that if every teen was analyzed by a psychiatrist, by adult standards 99% of them would be diagnosed with a mental illness. Go see a therapist and it will help. Lots of people have depression and it isn't too hard to deal with.
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ven067 (21694)
2009-05-08 10:09:05
go here,
www.decembersummers.blogspot.com
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lwinnchick (23363)
2009-05-23 22:41:38
your in love with her dumbass.
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PureKorean (23974)
2009-06-07 18:19:45
I think I get what you mean...
I like this one girl too she is my friend I haven't asked her out before but...sometimes when I leave from her house I hope to get hit or hurt in some way that will make her notice me more something to get us closer...you know to make her care about me...yeah I still think that is normal JUST DONT KILL YOURSELF man, killing yourself is going...way to far
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wee89 (23982)
2009-06-08 07:34:25
sounds like a wierd addiction. think ur more additced to the routines of planning ur suicide ect. than being in love with the girl. try drugs, alcohol or exercising.
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flikr (10636)
2009-06-08 15:44:31
@: wee89
yeah i'm not depressed anymore but i actually miss that depressed feeling and the planning to kill myself it felt really good actually. and yes i was a bit obsessed with this girl but i'm moving on. i was really REALLY messed up like a year ago
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noodlemasterX (25042)
2009-07-04 06:37:48
You're fixating on this one girl. It's not the end of the world if she doesn't like you like that. If you've been around each other for a while and she still isn't into you it probably means you wouldn't work well together anyway. All you say about her is that she's cute, this leads me to believe that you're objectifying her, turning her into a thing that you feel you MUST have. This is not healthy, you don't NEED things! And she's not a thing anyway! See her as a person, and then ask yourself if you have anything in common with this person, and if you want to be around this person. I'm willing to bet that you'll realise that you actually don't have much in common with her, which is why she isn't interested in you. Then go find a girl that you do have something in common with and doesn't make you feel shit.
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Confusedgirl (25348)
2009-07-10 09:41:48
i hope you dont kill your self. just because this girl didnt say yes doesnt mean you have to completly hide from it all, you can still be her friend. the whol suicide thing thats not good :(
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SupNucka (17742)
2009-07-21 10:32:28
dude. I know how you feel.
Going through the same thing right now.
It's really normal, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Mines never gotten to the point where i've wanted to kill myself, but I have drank alchohol because of how bad the feelings were. It'll go away, just tell yourself she's ugly and a b*tch and you'll find someone better. and hopefully it will happen
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Nightwish27 (26835)
2009-08-15 15:53:49
You, my friend, are in love.. :)
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mastrodie (30279)
2009-10-24 19:45:14
just a suggestion, FUCK THAT CHICK, not literally, dont let her bother you, shes obviously a whore, just because i could kinda tell. dont let her bother you, and yeh, dont plan ur suicide
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